₦airaland Forum

It beautiful but you don't pick snakes from the wild. You get them from certified breeders. Please, let the poor creature go for the sake of you both.

Jashub:
Let us not create excuses for the I-don't-care attitude these women usual throw around before realizing they are victims of assault and battery. Before a woman enters a relationship with a violent man, weren't there signs to show that the man was one who is prone to violent outburst? Please let's be guided.

I'm not creating any excuses for anyone here. I just find it quite bizarre that you'd concentrate on the victims without a single word of reproach for the culprits. It's almost as if you're saying beating ladies is normal for men, it's up to the ladies to find ways to avoid getting hit. Like I said, let's learn to hold each of accountable. You chase away the kite before blaming the mother hen for exposing its chicks.

Jashub:
Sometimes I wonder if these women blind-folded before entering into violent relationships.

Nobody tells a lady he's violent when wooing her. Everything is not about women, let's hold each other accountable. Why not wonder if these violent men who hit thier partners like pujchbags are cursed?

beaversticks:
Betting... It will ruin your life... Just picking up the pieces of my life ... And very outspoken in advocating for those betting ...

Please stay away from it !!!!

Advocating? You mean before you stopped betting?

ANTIFA:
A middle age mother felt because she is female and slapped me in public when I didn't do anything. I was assaulted by the said woman. Cause I am gentle and young.


Please Elders in the house I want to report to the police about the public assault. I am just wary of the police. I want to know how I can go about it.

Thanks...

Please, report to the police. Don't just assume they wouldn't do anything like someone said above, do your part. Even if she's not fined, it would be on a record that you once filed a report in case of next time. Walking away might sound like a good idea but I don't think it is. People need to know that thier actions have consequences. You can't just hit anyone and walk away.

codemaniacs:
If the earth continues to get warm it'll cause the ice in the north and south poles to melt which will lead global flooding in some parts of the world.

The heat will also cause thirst, skin diseases etc. I don't need to read about what I already know.

Ok. I get it. Global warming does not affect blacks. Enjoy your day, bro.

codemaniacs:
Africa and in fact when the whole world had melanin every where was a garden. What you call jungle and forest and bush were once gardens and this helped maintain the Earth's temperature until Whyte people came and started destroying everywhere.

People with melanin don't have to worry about heat or any so called warming because their bodies was built to absorb heat.

I see. And you think climate change is all about the effects on your body? Dear friend, climate change does not spare any race. Even your melanin cannot save you if it's not put in check. We're blacks, not dumb. Let's, at least, read about these things to understand them better even if we're not in a position to help.

BigBashiru:
Africa knows the meaning more than Europe and Africa has been at the forefront of fighting ozone depletion more than Europe.. ..u have been brainwashed by European state media

Lol... Ok.

owobokiri:
The West thought that global warming will finish the "third world" and avoid them... That's why the likes Trump willfully make mockery of it...
But nature has other plans...

Lol... You people and this "the west wants to kill us" outlook. The west has been at the forefront of the war against ozone depletion for years while Africa hardly knows the meaning of that expression. Because one ex-president did not make it his priority, it suddenly implies they mock it thinking it would consume the the "third world" countries alone? Does that even make sense? Even a baby wouldn't think like that.

Hhmmm... actually, you guys saying "stop using the word kidnap" don't have enough details to suggest it wasn't a kidnap case. That he is the baby's biological father doesn't automatically imply he couldn't have kidnapped her. Let's not treat this with the usual kid gloves we use to address everything we men do.

If there's no establishment of paternity (wedding, birth certificate, voluntary acknowledgement of paternity form, etc.) and the baby was taking forcefully, illegally or without the consent of the mother, she has every reason to employ the word "kidnap". How else do you describe going into someone's home to take thier child when they're at work? You did not pay the lady's bride price, no paper works, no wedding, and you think you have the right to sneak into her house and take the baby she carried to full term and nurtured up to a certain age just because you had a few minutes sex with her a while ago? It doesn't work that way. There's no presumption of paternity when a child is born outside of marriage and without establishing paternity, he has no legal standing as regards to shared custody. Let's even assume there are some paper works that establish his paternity rights, that still wouldn't give him the right to relocate to another country with the baby without the mother's consent. What that guy did is a crime and we must first acknowledge that.

OP, Nigeria is an extremely big country. Looking for a man whose real name you don't even know would be extremely difficult. Of course, I'm not saying you should forget the baby (is that even possible for a mother?). I'm saying you might not be able to do it alone. You need a professional. Your case is a difficult and I wish I had more concrete answers/solutions. You've made series of mistakes, but no mother deserves to be separated from her baby this way. I wish you and your immediate the best.

Thank God for science. I'm glad he had the resources to chose the gender that fits him. Hopefully, he gets the help he needs to finish the process. It's one thing to be born with two different sex organs, it's another to feel like a woman and man at the same time. They are many intersex people like him out there who identify more as one gender and identify with people of that gender, but do not have the resources and moral support to undergo the necessary surgeries. They live thier lives in the shadows. Sad.

In my opinion, the mere existence of intersex people shows that the concept of gender goes beyond sex organs. The mental does not always agree with the physical. The same nature that gave one person two different sex organs and yet he feels like a man could have given him a female sex organ while he still feels like a man. You can imagine living in the opposite gender's body (eeww!). When such a person then opts for surgery later in life, we'd all gather to castigate him and remind him of his seat number in hell. We'd rather he lived his life in misery for us to be happy.

Maybe when we realize that exceptions are part of nature, we'd stop saying that certain things are not natural just because they're not common. If anything is unnatural, it's perfection/consistency.

Kandeed:
You lie baba....you ever dated a Serbian bfr??

No.

I'm a guy by the way.

Wow... I didn't know he was into BB. Was he a player?

RIP

Kandeed:
If you like keep wasting ur life away on 9ja girls, you hear?? you'll get sense the hard way. I'm kuku talking to you.

You guys are neither here nor there. You're campaigning against Nigerian women and yet most of you would still cry out when the foreign women ask you to share house chores, baby sitting and other home keeping tasks with them. You'd say they don't respect "the head of the family". It's not all about seeing beautiful pictures. If you intend to marry a white woman, you'd also have to be ready to stop being a typical Nigerian man cause they won't give you the kind of the "godly" treatment Nigerian men expect from their women.

I don't understand the criticism. What's wrong with what they said?

Why couldn't they come together and share the money?

letristian:
Forget all these party Cross carpeting

We need a better nation

Please, what's cross carpeting?

Intergrity001:
I said when you go out there to buy an apple,it sells on average if N150 - N200 an apple...I didn't say,that's what I sell to people that buy from us...of course ,we are cheaper....
My calculations were just generally speaking...don't get it twisted sir

I'm not. And I appreciate your efforts. It's just that the N20M estimate implies you'd sell the apple as costly as the imported ones. Apparently, that was just to make the ad more appealing.

Best of luck.

Nice!

I don't under your calculations though. You'd grow this apple in Nigeria and still sell it as costly as the imported ones? What would then be the financial implications of buying the homegrown apple?

muller101:
Over what?

Overreaching

seyz91:
Buh the slip of tongue madooo

Lol...

tamdun:
Very funny but he later corrected himself

Exactly. I mean, we can laugh about it. But mocking him or calling him a product of the quota system cause of this would be overreaching.

"Wear" is the generally accepted word, but you can also say "apply" depending on the context.

Hhmm... Well, this might be funny but I don't really see the big deal here. He was speaking and mistakenly used the wrong word. It could happen to anyone regardless of the language being used. The OP hardly made any correct sentence herself despite the fact that this was typed (she was probably in a hurry). What's then basis for mocking someone who obviously had a slip of the tongue?

*Mod*
I can see the OP has rewritten her post. Nice.

Coldshisha:
Lol


Just because they don't announce their surgery date or they don't show you their body shaper doesn't mean they are 100% natural

You don't think putting on body shapers to shed weight is natural enough?

Awesome.

It looks quite narrow in the second picture.

DenreleDave:
You are sick sir..

Messi wọn 11/7 2021..

Failurenaldo fans with useless comparison..

Pls getat

Hhmm... Was the first statement really necessary? Now that you've realized you were wrong, does that make you the sick one? No, cause anyone could be wrong. Why don't we stop this crude way of engaging one another on this platform and start employing some decorum? We're Africans not animals, bro.

Bullpenn11:
Both Agbani and Regina Askia have a Local look. Winning contest does not mean you are d most beautiful. This two girls are not stunners at all.

Lol... Local? What's wrong with Local? You want a Nigerian to have a foreign look?

Temptee101:
You call these glaring evidences rumour?

Ohh!!

I didn't call it a rumour. I called it hypothetical. That's exactly what it is. The OP clearly stated that.

Billyonaire666:
Your assertion is simply stupid. Uyo High School where this cultism issue led to this law is presently closed till further notice, I have a ward in that school, I had to take the child there from another state because parent asked me to help do that and every Friday, I get called by Teachers to send a driver to go pick her up and the story is the same every week.

The school fee is free. The school uniform, entire kits cost 3,500. So I am impressed, because there are adults in that school who actually are bullying younger students. Most of them from neighboring states.

So, stop sounding conviction on issues you are ignorant of.

Any parent, who is qualified to be called parent should prepare their under age child to be in Secondary School by 12, if the child is older, than 12, explain the reason the child stayed home beyond 12, because it is Free and Compulsory Education in Ibom Kingdom.

So, shut the fucck up.

Lol... for a moment, I thought I was engaging a civilized individual.

Enjoy your day sir!