₦airaland Forum

Born2winnx:
The wedding is holding today and have made up my mind not to attend because the dude invited me through WhatsApp. It annoys me how children of this days has no regards or character for their elders. they are changing everything all in the name modernization.

How can someone, I know the exact date he was born be inviting me through WhatsApp, no respect at all, sending the scanned card copy there.. what happened to the hardware copy he printed? I had to tell him, he laughed it off saying bros nor vex the 500 copies he printed was not enough to share self. I didn't want to press the issue farther my mind is already made up.
He won't see me there today.

When I did mine, I knew how far distance I trekked to invite his elder brothers face to face, bought several drinks.

I just hope he invited his in-laws through WhatsApp too

oluwaseyi0:
Is like saying why are African no longer killing twins

Or why are traditional religion no longer officially sacrificing human as of old

Or why is abobaku no longer buried with the king

The difference is that Islam got stuck in its barbarism of the old with no way out in the modern era

Other religions/practices found a way to evolve knowing fully well that without evolving their entire existence will be threatened


The only way out for Islam is to end the religion itself, or the religion will be the end of its adherence

nony43:
Chaii.which car be that? Make I avoid am.

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

Midoda:
Never fix a geAR, sell the old and buy a replacement. ALWAYS BETTER

Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

Hanks0000:
I saw a post about how I can earn ₦50,000 VIP grant weekely on fairmoney app and I decided to apply because I'm going through financial difficulties.

I clicked on the link on the post and I was redirected to

https://molinahealthcare.life

It looks identical to Linda ikeji's blog which made me believe it could be real, after following all the steps that was listed on the article, I was also redirected to this website.

https://fairmoney.ng-pay.vip/Grant.html

I was directed to log in my fairmoney account and to enter the OTP code that was sent to me through SMS by fairmoney, I entered the code on the site.

The next message I received was that ₦150,000 was transferred to Esther Blessing Odion (access bank) from my fairmoney account, a transaction I did not initiate.
I called Fairmoney to make a complaint about this transaction which I didn't perform and the transaction indeed happened.

That was when I realised I'd been scammed and I don't know what to do . I might commit suicide because I don't have any mean of repaying. I am a student and I was considering taking a top-up so that I can pay my lodge rent which is already due.

I'm to pay
64,240 this month alone.
I don't know what to do.

PastorMisback
WoundedLamb

Sanchez01:
I doubt you understood the article.

Anyways, Putin and Russia won't last 4 weeks with this sanctions. I don't see how they will survive it. Internal conflict will most likely tear Russia apart if this lingers. Putin's fears are valid but like Ojukwu, he failed to analyse the West's worst case scenario.

tonididdy:
The world is being unfair to Russia.
All she trying to do, is protect herself.

In the UN council meeting, a minute silence is held for ukranians who lost their lives so far BUT WHAT ABOUT THE RUSSIAN FORCES WHO ARE BEING AMBUSHED AND KILLED!
FIFA has always said they don't mingle into politics, so why are all the sports outlets banning Russia.
Put Biden in putins's shoes.... Will it take a threat to its borders lightly?

Hopefully in the coming weeks "someone" will be brave enough to gather enough voices to support Russia.
The world cannot be at the foot of one country forever, power must change hands!

Maks27:
Having a girlfriend is the last thing on my mind now but there is this girl that's forcing herself on me.

In the street this girl announced to everyone that she is my girlfriend when I have never asked her out.

If I go out and she sees me, she will hold my hands, hug me and even try to kiss me in presence of people so they will think we are dating.

What happened today made me annoyed, we had our Global prayer walk in RCCG today and when we reached out destination everyone looked for bike to go home. This girl forced herself on the bike I took and sat down in between in front of everyone. She will appear in my house without permission, wash my clothes. Call me I don't know why.

She is fine and okay as a lady o. Infact alot of guys in the street are hailing me for having the best girl in the street but I am not just into her and any girl for now.

People of Nairaland how do I settle this matter

Stargurl20:
There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?

I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?

basilo101:
This thread has nothing to do with Igbo, Fayemi just knocked Tinubu hard, continue with your cheap publicity

brainpulse:
Instead of the Ibos to start promoting their candidates they are busy discrediting Tinubu up and down on every medium while Tinubu camp is strategizing, aligning and making political moves.
After the 2023 election they will continue 8years wailing cycle again. They are perpetual failures

caesymore:
Nna Mehn...


On grounds say she be virgin or wetin?
Tips kee, well the first tip be say make sure she be virgin to avoid premium tears .

Second Tip, Change is constant and so is konji. E go hard to tell pesin wey don dey chop before say make eno chop again.

well, you can wait for our resident Pastor for third tip on this.

EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.

bigpicture001:
My girlfriend whom I have planned to settle down with simply started acting cold and eventually stylishly slide out of our relationship because I sat her down and made a family financial support proposal to her in which she will be financially committed to running the proposed family we intend to raise...

These are the proposal...

1. She earns about 80k wile I earn about 300k.. I asked that we jointly contribute for all the children's Career funding starting from when we get married even before any of their birth.. I proposed 10k monthly from her and 40k from me to a trust account. From it we plan to fund all the children's Career from kiddagatten to varsity or which ever path they choose..

2. That sh choose between Nepa bill or DStv or gotv sub monthly..just one for her

3. I will be responsible for rents

4. We pay into another joint account for vacation once in two years..like sh puts in 20k I put in 50k monthly..

5. I provide all the heavy food stuffs required in the house in large quantities including gas ND change of electronics, but sh provide all the daily food supplements to mk mine complete.

6. She buys her clothes ND I buy mine but we can both surprise ourselfs with gift to the other..

7. I will buy the family car ND maintain it. If she buys no p.

8. I didn't rule out surprise gifts once a while and outting which I bankroll ND expect her to do same occasionally..

Plz oo nairalanders are these responsibilities to a wife too much for her, I mean one who works and earn over 50k...?

NoToPile:
As expected they have infiltrated the thread.









Really @bolded, your own personal experience is not the standard.

Virginity is now the cause of marriage failures abi.
you didnt read that from me

Nawa.

Hundreds and thousands of virgin marriages are still waxing strong. Not a lie too, but actual virgins are not in Hundreds and thousands

You guys should stop dishing out stats that are unreal. where did u read the stats from


Anybody that wants to remain a virgin till marriage should remain so ignore whatever society is saying. No one is stopping anyone from remaining a virgin, however, if you support with points, i dont and i have points too. Try to tolerate counter opinions. Besides, the person needs to hear both sides.

alphabbey1:
deep down, you know your comment is very unnecessary, anybody can break up, whether virgin or prostitute... no need to discourage morality... OP, congratulations for bagging a good fruit amidst many rotten fruits out there....

LesbianBoy:
E be like say this OP na new member for this nairaland especially this family section

She would still deny you sex so no too happy say you don marry

Kizyte:
Yes she is

Pymetrics:
Instead of people to suggest solutions Inec would adopt, they would rather blame and abuse Inec.
Without credible data records, nothing Inec could do on removing profile of dead people.

I want to suggest that government should mandate every body to be using either public or private, Muslim or Christian cemetery when burying their loved ones. At these cemeteries, there must be a a dedicated officer who will have a computer systems and a software installed that is linked to nimc data base. This officer would request for NIN or BVN of the deceased and then log it into nimc database. The officer can also get NIN by requesting for phone number of the deceased and the software will bring out NIN through this phone number.
Subsequently, Inec would have MoU with nimc in accessing all NINs that have been flagged as death. Then Inec would use these NIN to update its voter's register.

This is my opinion and it can be improved upon.

nurey:
A BMW M2 is not your normal everyday ride. And the cars in question is even a 2019. By 2008 or there about manual transmission stopped having better acceleration time than an automatic transmission because of improved research.

nurey:
For every day cars yes a manual transmission would accelerate faster than the automatic hence since they have same spec the manual would hit the jackpot first. Eg 1.8L 2007 Toyota Corolla manual vs Automatic.

For special sport cars, the winner would be determined by driver behind the wheel and external condition of the environment/race track so far both vehicles have same specs eg 2009 G37 or 2009 IS350 as the automatic transmission of this specs have paddle shifters so you can shift gears successively like a manual transmission not necessarily waiting for TCU to do it for you

Then paddle shifters do have grade too, some are just for design purpose, they do work but not as responsive as what you did expect. Let's not dabble too much into unchartered waters

Themi06:
I drive a 2007 AWD matrix Please I'm confused and scared. My car oil light was on yesterday, i saw it in the morning after I left home i just check the engine guage and it was shows that there's still oil in the engine. I drove on. Now i got to ogun state from Lagos after driving on a 120 with ac on, when i got down from the car, the engine sound has changed. It's now giving one continuous "kakakakakakakakakaka" sound while running.

1 Please is that knocking sound??
2. What's the next step for me to do now??
3 i use mobil XHP oil.
4 I recently serviced the car although i didn't supervise the servicing


@GAZZUZZ and other please i need your advice

I don't know the next step to take

TooMuchStuff:
The rapid development that Borno state has witnessed since the advent of Boko haram is unheard of. Meanwhile the Eastern Nigeria that was ravaged by Civil war about 55yrs ago is still being neglected by the Federal government control by Fulani Muslims overlords. If this is not wickedness done by successive northern leaders, won't know what else it is termed.
Imagine the state with active terrorists insurrection and jihadists evasion from all over Africa yet still getting the highest development of infrastructure while peaceful South with its abundant resources is only suffering like leprous region

Gowon tha Hitler of Nigeria during the war and his triple Rs was never going to implement nothing. Just looting the Southern resources for the development of the North since 1960. Go round the south and east, you hardly feel Federal presence unlike Kano, Borno, Kaduna Abuja and all over the North.

GeorgeTheCoder:
You just write with great ignorance. I am almost certain I have been to more states than you in Nigeria. I have lived on Court Road Sabon Gari. I have worked in Gwarzo. But since your recourse is the Constitution, wait until you are slaughtered like a ram in the next riot before leaving Kano.

Igbos should leave Kano and the north for hausa people.

GeorgeTheCoder:
Igbos should leave Kano and the north for hausa people. Is it not obvious they are not welcome there ? There are other places within and outside Nigeria to make money.

Mikester:
Good evening, I posted this here cause of traffic. Pls help me out. Thanks.

I have this issue that has been bothering me. A dirty nail from a garbage heap at a site I went to work punctured my right foot last 2 weeks both front and middle of my right leg. I yanked it out causing little of the blood to flow out and I managed to walk to get a bus back to my hometown.

On arrival, I heat up a little cover of red oil on a knife and applied it at the two spots and afterwards closed up the injury with the knife, bearing the pain the whole while.

Eventually, Last week about two - five days, I could walk a bit well but after some time, the pain started to get back and now for the past three days, the leg began swelling up to what we have in the picture.

I consulted a pharmacist and she gave me some drugs including ampiclox (don't know if I got the spelling right) assuring me it will work.

I begun the dosage yesterday but I am a bit worried cause the swelling begun some days ago when I tried using hot water to try quicken the healing.

I just want to be sure if the hot water isn't going to negate the effects of the drugs I'm taking cause I'm in pains here. Thanks for your submissions.

Pls help for more audience.