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Politics › Re: What I Did To Online Loan Company After They Embarrassed Me (Pic) by bukatyne(f): 1:38pm On Aug 31, 2021
Kastonkastroll:
Why is it that majority of Nigerians hate paying back their debts. Why? Isnt this wickedness. If they refused to give you the loan in the first place you will start abusing them.

Na so I borrow one idiot my money because I been pity his level of poverty. To pay me back became an issue that even the police got involved. Me and my money but the police were treating me like a criminal. Smh
I guess we would get the answer in Heaven undecided

The entitlement mentality is absurd.
Car Talk › Re: Understanding Fifth Wheels by bukatyne(f): 1:34pm On Aug 31, 2021
Nice one OP.

I find it fascinating when a truck carrying a semi trailer is making clean turns on the road (U-turns, roundabouts, branch offs etc).

I see it as an engineering feat.
Career › Re: What Do You Hate About Your Job Or Place Of Work? by bukatyne(f): 11:55am On Aug 31, 2021
Mindlog:
I work in a psychiatric hospital during family therapy sessions with relatives of patients, some give ultimatum on when they relatives "must be cured" or they request for discharge against medical advice.

A pyromaniac or one who is struggling with schizophrenia is being admitted and relatives wants overnight transformation!
I understand their perspective sha.
Career › Re: What Do You Hate About Your Job Or Place Of Work? by bukatyne(f): 11:40am On Aug 31, 2021
Klass99:
1. Why do you think/say working from home is a scam?

2. The bolded is a great and healthy workplace policy.

3. I hate that saying - the customer is king or the customer is always right, I hate it with every fiber of my being because it's just so wrong and inaccurate.
1. Everyone unconsciously expects you to be at work 24 * 7. And the people actually working onsite think you are 'enjoying' because you are not going to work. On the flip side, you can watch KOB from 2pm - 4pm and start working by 6pm. And the amount of meetings to get things done; yikes! And the work is legit more; I don't understand the logic, but it is more than when you work onsite. These days, going to the office is like my off days grin

2. Thanks but again, na everyone go chop breakfast so while our customers don't disrespect us; they want things yesterday and we turn back the hands of time to give them what they want yesterday. That leaves people very burnt out because everything is urgent else someone would die so there is serious juggling of resources.

3. I have never believed it myself. It sounds like all these new age stupidity packaged as wisdom.
Career › Re: What Do You Hate About Your Job Or Place Of Work? by bukatyne(f): 11:07am On Aug 31, 2021
Oluromantic:
I agree with you. However, there's still a significant gap between logicality and emotions among men and women in Nigeria.
Can you give practical examples?
Romance › Re: South African Couple Wed As Snowflakes Fall Around Them (PIX) by bukatyne(f): 11:06am On Aug 31, 2021
Very romantic kiss kiss kiss

God bless their home.
Family › Re: Why Some Woman Change Characters After Given Birth In Marriage by bukatyne(f): 11:01am On Aug 31, 2021
@OP:

I don't understand the point:

That women just leave their husbands immediately after they have kids? Shouldn't that be treated as Postpartum Depression for starters?

If you say some years after, then I would say Maybe they just wanted kids from one man and the legitimacy of marriage.
Family › Re: Why Some Woman Change Characters After Given Birth In Marriage by bukatyne(f): 10:56am On Aug 31, 2021
donbachi:
I sorry for those,whose first reason for marriage.is looking for happiness or a man/woman that make them happy.nobody owe you that.
Happpiness is produced by self,then you look for someone that will add to it and you share in each others happiness.
This popular narrative is odd to me.

Of what use is a husband/wife who can't make their spouse happy? undecided

Yes, a person would have other source of 'happiness' but a spouse supplies the bulk of it.

Your job is on point, your kids are all stars, your friends are ride or die and your husband/wife is very useless and you think you would be 'happy'? Especially when you are not planning to leave them?
Career › Re: What Do You Hate About Your Job Or Place Of Work? by bukatyne(f): 10:02am On Aug 31, 2021
Dozis:
One thing I have learnt over the years is not to associate a particular trait or behaviour to gender or tribe especially at work, if I can't take bullshit from a man, I won't also accept it from a lady because work ethics are not embedded in XX or XY chromosomes, meaning that it's not genetic.
While there are some specific traits to a specific gender (good & bad) most traits at work are more of the person's beliefs and aspirations than tribe or sex.

@your OP:

I am most likely scenario two grin I would ask for the one of N1,600 sha cheesy

Apologies to you and all the other very few pharmacists. I say very few because I don't use drugs embarassed
Romance › Re: If Your Girlfriend/boyfriend Should Forget Your Birthday What Will You Do? by bukatyne(f): 9:58am On Aug 31, 2021
Made619:
wow you have a string mind oh
cheesy
Career › Re: What Do You Hate About Your Job Or Place Of Work? by bukatyne(f):
@OP:

I think what I like/love might be a safer bet:

I love negotiating with customers and I have the confidence that I would almost always come out with a win-win situation. And because I manage a set of customers, negotiation is not a one time thing.

I love to turn raw data into complex analysis of trends and give recommendations on the way forward. I love it even though it can be stressful and tedious.

I love when I do inductions, trainings and refresher courses.

I love when a customer has a complex issue or strigent delivery/project timeline and I deliver and ensure they are very satisfied.

I love participating/driving extracurricular company activities.

I like that work from home now (even though it is a scam tongue).

I love when I am part of the project team to formulate new processes or review existing ones.

I love that I have been lucky to have good immediate and a level higher bosses. And interestingly, all sans one has been female.

How can I forget? I LOVE that my job and work environment allows me to be assertive to customers (which is very key in negotiations) when required. That's actually one of the things our CEO promotes. Under no circumstance does a customer insult an employee without addressing it.

When I think of more, I might be back cheesy
Career › Re: What Do You Hate About Your Job Or Place Of Work? by bukatyne(f):
Oluromantic:
Too many female colleagues in my line of work. Put emotions in everything. Their loyalty to their boss, manners, rewarding or punishing those working under them is nothing near official..not a matter of 'right is right or wrong is wrong' but whether they like you or hate you. They'll like you if you turn them to a demigod and cover you up even if you commit a punishable offence. They'll work out your transfer to the Lions den for just not greeting them putting "ma" at the end of your greeting or for just being too upright. They gossip with other female colleagues whom they've never met in their entire life before except at work and turn the work place to a place to gossip private affairs and the flaws of other colleagues.

I sometimes don't blame gays and I sometimes wonder why God made women with such a limited mentality. Relating with them is like a trailer and bicycle claiming equality cus they both share the road as vehicles but obviously their capacity is nowhere close to each other.
@bold:

But you are describing the average worker in the Nigerian workplace.

And I use 'Nigerian' because that is the only workplace I know.

It is your prejudice and negative bias towards women that is at play here.

Sure, each gender have negative traits mostly associated with them but to think gossiping, ass licking(receiving and giving) and been emotional is a woman's thing shows you are not been objective.

@emotions: it is a constantly propagated myth that women are 'emotional' and men 'logical'. Well, almost every human (male & female) are very emotional and do things because of emotions: anger, ego, insecurities, over excitement, happiness, feeling good etc.

I mostly relate with male customers at work (about 97%) and I can get them to agree to almost anything because I am a good negotiator. And I negotiate using people's emotions (OP, those are one of the things I like about my job anyways).

It is a well known fact that anyone whom you cater to his/her ego (emotions of pride, feeling better than others or on top), you will get them to do anything for you.

Tell me the gender again that you are told to 'massage' their ego to get what you want?

Yet, I will not say men are the 'emotional' gender because men & women display emotions in different ways.

There are very few people who think logically and even them use emotions to deliver the package at times.
Romance › Re: Temmie Ovwasa: I Don't Want To Have A Child Because Of Hererophobia (Video) by bukatyne(f): 6:54pm On Aug 30, 2021
Ishilove:
Na person come born this one. And to think they told her parents "congrats" when she was born. Smh
grin cheesy grin cheesy cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy grin

@OP:

Why do homosexuals want children though?
Education › Re: Buy and Install Trendy Wallpaper Designs for Home Or Office by bukatyne(f): 2:27pm On Aug 30, 2021
Advertising gone wrong. cheesy
Celebrities › Re: See What Micheal Jackson's Children Look Like Now And What They're Into by bukatyne(f): 2:17pm On Aug 30, 2021
hahn:
You can tell MJ was a serial simp.

Most likely his wife was banging someone else and MJ is taking care of them since he knows his dick probably doesn't work after all the surgery he has had plus his chronic fear of the opposite sex developed when he was still in the Jackson 5.
If your assertion is true, then MJ was not a 'simp';

He ate his cake and had it (although the reverse is said to be the correct one, this makes more sense to me tongue).

He had legitimate kids without overcoming his fear of women. That's a win-win situation.

A very good negotiator if you ask me.
Celebrities › Re: Teni With Her Pants Down On A Toilet Seat (Photo) by bukatyne(f): 12:01pm On Aug 30, 2021
Very classless and tasteless.
Romance › Re: My Ex Girlfriends Friend Is Stranded And Wants To Stay With Me For A While by bukatyne(f): 11:46am On Aug 30, 2021
TheUndercover:
Many men always put their dicks forward ahead of their brains in situations like this. SMH. This is also what led to the downfall of many men.
As in.

Wetin concern agbero with overload?

Why would your ex's friend even come and meet you for accommodation?
Sports › Re: Rita Johal, Riyad Mahrez's Ex-Wife Says Man City 'Ruined' Their Marriage by bukatyne(f): 9:34am On Aug 30, 2021
TV/Movies › Re: Bbnaija: How Viewers Voted For JMK, Sammie, Maria & Pere by bukatyne(f): 8:36pm On Aug 29, 2021
I thought a number of peeps said Pere has bad attitude?

He was still able to win three people?

Obviously his 'lack of good behavior' is just social media noise cheesy grin
Romance › Re: My Wife Is Flirting With A Married Man by bukatyne(f): 8:09pm On Aug 29, 2021
Oluseunade98:
1. I have my car but my wife doesn't have yet and our routes are not the same so My wife's colleague used to pick her and drop her from work.

2. Sometime in January, my wife told me he asked her out but insulted him and stopped following him in his car. So this week she started following him again, her reason was the guy has stopped talking about it but I am not comfortable with it.

3. When i confronted her about it, she started ranting about how she has to take care of our 3 kids every morning and still come back to look after them when she gets home by 6pm. Saying what time does she have to rest after the house chores and work that she will now be following a man despite her busy schedule.

4. N:B she is not the only one the man takes to work
1. You have your car, your wife doesn't have hers..... She has her pot, you don't have yours.... You have your kettle, she doesn't have hers. Are you getting the scenario I am painting here? If you both are one in marriage, it should be your family has a car and it is maximized in its use. Who takes the kids to school? Who picks them up? How different are your routes that you cannot start your journey together. How near is her colleague's house to yours that he can pick her & drop her everyday?

2 & 4. This is a no no. The man has made a proposition and she said no. That should severe all extra ties she has with him. Resuming the ride is a covert message that she is interested in his proposition. Please she needs to stop following Mr. Colleague Animashaun as a message that she is not interested in his proposition and out of respect for you. It doesn't matter if he is carrying twenty people or only your wife.

3. Perhaps she is trying to pass a message here; what is your schedule like? Sit down with her and allocate resources (car, time, money, energy) etc in a way that nobody is burnt out. Enough of 'my car', 'your house', 'my pillow'.

Goodluck.
Romance › Re: My Wife Is Flirting With A Married Man by bukatyne(f): 7:58pm On Aug 29, 2021
grafixdon:
Op, you're too carefree, I'll never, ever allow my wife in another man's car... And to think this man takes your wife to work everyday and even have effrontry to asked her out...if you still value your marriage, stop her now, if not too late already.
@bold:

Na this same Nigeria we dey so?

Colleagues don't follow each other home in your world? shocked grin
Celebrities › Re: Cristiano Ronaldo's Crazy & Brutal Fitness Regime At Age 36 (Photos) by bukatyne(f): 7:46pm On Aug 29, 2021
In the spirit of making foolish comparison with celebrities;

You NL men can see Ronaldo at 36 looking as fit as a fiddle.

Not you guys that have beer bellies and sagging skin at 36.

And he has a looooooot of money so hustling is not an excuse grin cheesy


@OP: Good one, he is really keeping his revenue stream very fit. cool
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Johnson Weeps As Family, Friends Surprise Her On Her 37th Birthday Party by bukatyne(f): 7:32pm On Aug 29, 2021
Happy birthday Mercy JO

Long life & prosperity.
Celebrities › Re: Paul Okoye Speaks On His Divorce: My Family Is Currently Enjoying Peace by bukatyne(f): 6:47pm On Aug 29, 2021
I think Paul needs a lot of help; he might be becoming bipolar.

He has managed to drag Peter into this mess and insinuate that Anita and not Lola (his favorite Yoruba witch) is the cause of his family's problems.
Family › Re: I Need Someone I Can Talk With. by bukatyne(f): 3:39pm On Aug 29, 2021
paulgabrielz:
I have been having sucidal thoughts lately. Any one?
You messed up and instead of you to right the wrongs, you are talking of suicidal thoughts.

If you kill your self, does it resolve the issue on ground?

Like someone said, we need to start emphasizing on mental intelligence. undecided
Family › Re: Why Men Are Treated Badly At Old Age? by bukatyne(f): 3:32pm On Aug 29, 2021
Munzy14:
Interesting and detailed!...

Memories live long....growing up...My dad created time to register all of us in secondary school the moment anyone of us graduated from Primary school...It a memory to me, because our peers as usual will have their mom running around with their files during registration..But my dad was there for us...plus tips he gives to our teachers.


That usually makes us popular in our respective schools back then.


I also reminisce he do take us to swimming at teens.

Parenting is a case of all hands must be on deck...Men should adjust from the usual providing money only and voom!..cheesy


It does them dirty as age comes.
kiss kiss kiss
Family › Re: How Do You Deal With A Spouse Who Doesn't Clean After Themselves Properly by bukatyne(f): 3:31pm On Aug 29, 2021
descarado:
They don't do that at all cheesy
When the guy flash maney, the man becomes immaculate cheesy
When the guy see big nyash and boobs, oh la la cheesy
Then she can cook, he's in heaven cheesy
What again do they need? grin
Hahahahahaha at 'then she can cook, he's in heaven.

I don't know why a number of Nigerians think these basics are all there is to marriage cheesy
Family › Re: Man Leaks Chat With Married Woman Who Cheats On Her Husband by bukatyne(f): 3:29pm On Aug 29, 2021
MufasaLion:
You're dating a married woman and you leaked the chat. Are you dumb or you are feeling like a god?

Must you kiss and tell? Fool!
@bold:

He who the gods want to destroy, they first make mad. shocked
Politics › Re: Why We Arrest Commoners But Leave The Rich, Powerful Who Break Our Rules, Hisbah by bukatyne(f): 3:27pm On Aug 29, 2021
oyinatinuke:
And Jesus said "It is finished."
Very beautiful profile picture kiss

It is really finished!

The honesty is refreshing sha!

I guess the poor man ran out of excuses and figured the truth would set him free.
Celebrities › Re: Tacha Sprays Dollar On AY At His 50th Birthday Party (Video) by bukatyne(f): 2:46pm On Aug 29, 2021
clothingonline:
Was she doing for a living?

Affordable men clothing all categories at clearance price
All sizes available and payment on delivery
Someone sprayed about N60k, you are asking what she does for a living cheesy
Romance › Re: If Your Girlfriend/boyfriend Should Forget Your Birthday What Will You Do? by bukatyne(f): 2:42pm On Aug 29, 2021
Made619:
Madan B are you saying you won't take it to heart if your partner forgets your birthday? or you don't take birthdays serious like most ladies do?
If my husband is in the habit of forgetting birthdays, I wouldn't take it to heart so much if he forgot mine.
Romance › Re: If Your Girlfriend/boyfriend Should Forget Your Birthday What Will You Do? by bukatyne(f): 11:37pm On Aug 28, 2021
What's the difference between boyfriend and husband in this case?

Except you mean a bedmate or friends with benefits.

@OP:

Check if they forgot theirs; it is not reasonable to have issues with someone who forgot his/her own birthday because they forgot yours.

If birthdays are so important to you, sing it to them before the day or make a worthy mention of it afterwards.

As the partner who sees nothing special in birthdays, learn to celebrate your partner on their day if they like it loud.

That's where love, compromise & teachability comes to play for both parties.

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