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yvelchstores:
I weep for D ignorance in my country. I waited for a message on ig from u op, u never sent. It's either u don't really want solution, just an excuse to cheat or you are not serious.
I really don't know how human beings think. Anyway, I will explain a bit further, just because I am kind.

Listen up, what she needs is kegel. Not going to the gym. It does not help that area at all. It worsens it as weight lifting and weight loss can affect the pelvic Wall negatively.

Within 2 weeks of using the product for kegel, the both of u will notice changes. Now u said u are not feeling anything, that means she is also not feeling anything. It's not about your size. It's the pelvic walls that needs to be tightened.
When she starts it, not only will it start to firm up, blood flow will increase there and she will be experiencing climax like she never has before.

The act is this way- the product is shaped like an egg, made of natural stone so it's small but weighty. Comes in different sizes so she can start with the biggest size which of course is still small for a big vagina.

It is drilled at the tip so she can insert a long rope or dental floss so she can just drag it out at will. With or without rope, it can't get stuck in there anyways.

Now she will lie down, insert it in there, 70% all the way, stand up, move around like she did nothing. It will start descending. Her body will start a reflex action down there, tightening itself around this stone, so it doesn't fall off, that sir, is kegel exercise.... She will soon master this and the muscles will start getting stronger and stronger till she can literally strangle u inside her. I am not joking.

I will delete this post soon, will just give u time to read up. If u are really interested, 15k is the cost but I will make an exception for u. If u don't want, no problem at all. I blv I have just helped another human being. Ciao

Don't delete it na.

You can edit the price, it will still be useful for a lot of people.

JoannaSedley:
No. There is nothing wrong with your wife but you. You do not have the same size of pen.is as your friends neither their wives has the same vagi.na type as your wife. You are looking for an excuse to cheat so go ahead and cheat and get it out of your system.
The facts still remains that a good rod won't even notice the difference between an unused VJ and a used VJ. A good rod is happy to delve inside a VJ of after one, two and even three because it offers less stress and no penile pain or bruises. But here, we have you with your kindergarten rod hoping to keep on fuc.king a virginlike VJ because thats the only type of VJ you can feel. Divorce her or enlarge your coast.

I am sorry, are you a man? Do you have a pens? Do you penetrate women?

If you have had sex, you would know that the tighter a woman is, the better for both parties.

Or do you think his complaint is new or peculiar?

Why do you think in some cultures, they have rituals to for nursing mothers immediately they give birth?

The OP said all was well till the birth of her baby. A wise woman would look for solutions. It would be delusional to think a husband would be satisfied with frictionless sex (even the wife would not enjoy it).

A wiser woman would learn on how to avoid/treat such issue.

GreatDad19:
Madam even if my penis is small ( which it is not) I should still be able to feel some kind of sensation as we only have one child. My friends do not have this kind of problem only me. I do not feel anything at all, which means there’s something wrong somewhere with my wife. Thank you for your advice anyway.

Oga,

While I might not have advice for you, it is very wrong to discuss such with your friends especially if they are not sex therapists.

They might have same problem and claim otherwise.

Guard your home.

JoannaSedley:
Go ahead and cheat. You do not have the monopoly. Do you think that she is enjoying the se.x too when she can't feel the damn rod. Do you bother to ask whether she is feeling you? How is the se.x like? You should find out what she is telling her friends about the lousy se.x she is getting from you?

Double hmmmmmmm.

JoannaSedley:
You should enlarge your penis. Seem you have a small sized pen.is which was manageable before the popping out of a single 3.5 kg human, now your pen.is is wriggling and you are blaming your wife.
Enlarge your coast and set sail sir.

Hmmmmmm

Deadlywoman:
A world where prostitution is rewarded

Twilight zone

And where is the 'prostitution'?

alBHAGDADI:
You are the one who doesn't understand English. The first thing Jesus rebuked is her being a teacher before he proceeded to condemn her other actions. This is similar to Paul speaking against allowing a woman to teach.

Revelations 2:20
Notwithstanding I have a few things against thee, because thou sufferest that woman Jezebel, which calleth herself a prophetess, to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication, and to eat things sacrificed unto idols.

You are misconstruing Jesus words which are the same as what Paul said below.

1 Timothy 2:12

But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.

Jesus and Paul can't be contradiCting each other. God is not the author of confusion. You are the one who has misunderstood simple English.

OK sir.

Notice that He did not condemn her followers for staying her ministrations neither did he commend those standing for not listening to her.

Also note that Jesus said in verse 21 that 'And I gave her space to repent of her fornication and she repented not.'

Would it not have been a good time to also tell her to repent of teaching?

It was obvious that Jesus punishing her for fornication and not the act of 'teaching'.

Stop quoting only one verse. Look at the whole context.

alBHAGDADI:
Don't you understand English?

To teach and to seduce ade two different things.She was doing both, which Jesus spoke against.

You don't understand English.

Jesus was against her teachings (doctrine/fornication) and actions (seduction).

If He was against her action of teaching, He would have said so.

alBHAGDADI:
Did you say the Bible God never loved women? Perhaps, you must have Him mixed with Allah of the Quran who commands men to beat their wives, tells women to cover their entire body like they have no value etc.

The God of the Bible loves women so much that He sent the Messiah through a woman. He told men to love their wives and give their all for her just as Christ gave his life for the world.

Women played lots of good roles in the Bible e.g Esther, Ruth, Mary, Sarah, Magdalene etc. Nowhere were women relegated. God only says they cannot teach in his house. Any problem with that? Or can I come into your house and sleep in your bedroom when it is against your rules?

Bros,

The bold absolutely makes so sense.

Apart from polygamy which some christian sect believe in, I really do not see the difference between a woman in Islam and Christianity. It is the husband she is married to that makes the difference.

Did the God of the Bible ever profess special love for women? Didn't He admonish women to love their husbands through Paul?

Better don' deceive yourself and read the Quran if you are interested in knowing what it says about its women.

alBHAGDADI:
You know what your problem is? You are quick to reject anything that has to do with God, and that has blinded you to the point that you can't even understand simple English. You make it seem like the verse is just about women teaching fornication. Let's see if that's the only thing the verse said.

Revelations 2:20
Notwithstanding I have a few things against thee, because thou sufferest that woman Jezebel, which calleth herself a prophetess, to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication, and to eat things sacrificed unto idols.


It says to teach and to seduce. This means Jesus is against women not only seducing peOple to commit fornication, but also teaching. Please try lower your hate for truth and God, because it will help you a lot in things as little as understanding simple English.

You are one misunderstanding.

Did it occur to you that to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication means that He was against her teaching fornication and seducing those who fell?

Why didn't He condemn the followers for staying under her ministration? Why condemning them for falling for her seduction?

It is obvious that in that passage, He was more concerned about the doctrines taught and the evil deeds done than the sex of the preacher.

alBHAGDADI:
There's currently a viral video showing Reverend Funke Adejumo telling members of the church she pastors as a female to sow a seed of money so as to become wealthy. This video has been found to be offensive by some quarters who have signed a petition to enable the UK government to ban the lady. According to them, she is a fraud and a disgrace to Christianity, even though they themselves are of questionable character.

However, another group has emerged signing a petition to counter the other group's call for her ban. This new group is supported by Pastor Adeboye's son, Leke Adeboye, Laurie Idahosa, Apostle Johnson Suleiman etc. They are calling the effort of the other group's as an attack on Christianity. Today's sermon will show you this new group is actually protecting falsehood which has crept into Christianity.


Does the Bible allow women to teach in Church? Is it right for Rev Funke Adejumo to be a preacher in Church? Let's read what Apostle Paul has to say.

1. 1 Timothy 2:12[/b】

But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.

2. [b]1 Corinthians 14:34-35

34 Women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the law says.
35 If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church.

It is so funny how in the face of Bible verses as these, people still think there is nothing wrong with a woman preaching in Church. Rev Funke Adejumo is in total disobedience of God's word and has therefore shown Jezebel characteristics, which includes usurping the authority of man.


1 Timothy 2:12

But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.

3. Even Jesus Christ is against a woman preaching in Church. In the words he sent to one of the seven churches of Asia, he mentioned allowing a woman to preach as something he detests. He even called such a woman Jezebel. We all know Jezebel's story, how she usurped her husband king Ahab.

Revelations 2:20

Notwithstanding I have a few things against thee, because thou sufferest that woman Jezebel, which calleth herself a prophetess, to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication, and to eat things sacrificed unto idols.

4. Did you notice the word in bold in both verses above? That's Apostle Paul speaking the same language as Jesus. It is forbidden for a woman to preach in Church.

But you say "didn't God use women mightily in the Bible?" Yes He did. He used Mary, Esther, Ruth, Magdalene etc. But what did He use them for? None of it involved preaching in the temple or Church.

Some people have been quick to stats that Phillip's daughters were used mightily because the Bible records that they prophesied. Yes, they did prophesy but nowhere is it recorded that they did that in Church. They only prophesied (which also means teach) elsewhere. And that is according to God's promise to make sons and daughters to prophesy after pouring His SPIRIT on them.

Acts 2:17

And it shall come to pass in the last days, saith God, I will pour out of my Spirit upon all flesh: and your sons and your daughters shall prophesy, and your young men shall see visions, and your old men shall dream dreams:

The verse doesnt say they will do so in Church. Yes, women can go on soul winning in the streets but they cannot preach in Church no matter how versed they are in the Bible. Even if they have made a huge discovery which will benefit the Church, they can't come forward with it. What they are to do is discuss it with their husband who will now table it before the Church.

1 Corinthians 14:35

35 If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church.

Look at examples of female preachers today: Joyce Meyer, Eucharia Anunobi, Funke Adejumo, Tonto Dikeh, Bimbo Odukoya etc.

Joyce Meyer is an epitome of everything wrong with a female preacher. She wears trousers while preaching on stage. But you say "it is a female trouser". Is there anything as Male skirt? Then what is it that women are not to wear because it belongs to men? Secondly, she prays and prophesies with her head shaven, with a low cut, which dishonors her head.

1 Corinthians 11:5

But every woman who prays or prophesies with
her head uncovered dishonors her head, for that is one and the same as if her head were shaved.

Eucharia Anunobi, on and off nollywood actress turn Pastor who recently stated that being a Pastor cannot stop her from acting erotic roles in movies.



Funke Adejumo, I don't need to say much. What about Tonto Dikeh who was on stage at a south African Church months back speaking gibberish called tongues?

Bimbo Odukoya died in a plane crash. May her soul rest in peace, but who knows, perhaps God used that to warn us against elevating women to the pulpit. But here we are again defending Rev Funke Adejumo all in the name of "we don't want outsiders to ridicule Christianity". Is that why we are openly encouraging disobedience of the word of God which He spoke through His Son Jesus Christ and His apostles?

Funke Adejumo and her fellow female pastors are evil and Jezebels who are usurping the authority given to man. They should not be tolerated in Christianity. Covering them up is equivalent to giving our faith a bad name. It will always hunt us. Even women teaching Sunday school, or even the children's section of the Church is wrong, because that's how it starts. But you say "how do you have enough teachers to attend to all the many classes in Sunday school?" Then don't split the Church into classes. There shouldn't be anything like Pastor Mr & Mrs Lagbaja, or a church billboard or poster showing a Pastor and his wife together. Nothing like a woman leader should be tolerated in the Church. But sadly, the decay has gone so deep that even Christians don't see anything wrong with what their Bible pointed out as wrong. MAY GOD HELP US.

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I will just respond to the 'should women preach part. Whether Madam Funke Adejumo raises funds with the spirit of God or not, I can't answer.

1. Paul said 'I'

2. What law was Paul referencing here? The law also calls for circumcision etc. Please look at the extention of this passage to get the context:
34 Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law.

35 And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.

36 What? came the word of God out from you? or came it unto you only?

37 If any man think himself to be a prophet, or spiritual, let him acknowledge that the things that I write unto you are the commandments of the Lord.

38 But if any man be ignorant, let him be ignorant.

39 Wherefore, brethren, covet to prophesy, and forbid not to speak with tongues.

40 Let all things be done decently and in order.

Can you explain verses 36 and 37?

3. Can we read Revelations 2 after 20?
20 Notwithstanding I have a few things against thee, because thou sufferest that woman Jezebel, which calleth herself a prophetess, to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication, and to eat things sacrificed unto idols.

21 And I gave her space to repent of her fornication; and she repented not.

22 Behold, I will cast her into a bed, and them that commit adultery with her into great tribulation, except they repent of their deeds.

23 And I will kill her children with death; and all the churches shall know that I am he which searcheth the reins and hearts: and I will give unto every one of you according to your works.

24 But unto you I say, and unto the rest in Thyatira, as many as have not this doctrine, and which have not known the depths of Satan, as they speak; I will put upon you none other burden.

25 But that which ye have already hold fast till I come.

If Jesus Christ has an issue with women teachers/preachers, wouldn't He have said so? He even stated her sin (Fornication), the sin of her followers: (adultery and evil deeds), and commended the rest of the members of not following her false doctrine. Why didn't He just put a stop to female preaching/teaching with this? This was a fantastic opportunity to kill female ministry by condemning the act of her preaching in the first place. I recently read this passage and wondered why He never condemned her ministry instead her message.

4. I am sure you will find places where two different people used same language. No surprise here.

@Bimbo Odukoya, may God help you. It is such a mean thing to say or insinuate.

luvmijeje:
Well, God is not a sexist. The more reason your relationship with God should be personal and not all these religion bondage.

I honestly do not know if God is sexist. However, I so agree with you.

If you are 100% sure that God called you to minister in a certain function, you would not be swayed by other's opinion.

Personally, I believe married women shouldn't be as committed as their husbands so they can care for their homes. This is where I agree with Islamic style to telling the husbands to attend their services while the wives are at home.

decatalyst:
Uncle must be a good resource manager



If you know, you know

Honestly!

God continually bless their home.

pweshboi:
feed your eyes and appreciate God's creations bro

Beautiful and modest women.

Especially the first.

profolaolu:
Jesus when U think U have seen it all another person using the scripture wrongly,what is a garment or what type of garment were wore in Joel days, revealing? sexy?show body shapes? come on,use the scripture with the real context

Read the proverbs 31 woman, do you think this sister fits the bill?

Even as a woman, is she now desirable to a man and her husband when she marries?

When the Bible was telling us of the restored blessings of Job, one was the beauty of his daughters. They were the most beautiful in the land.

Beauty is a blessing to a woman.

What is the full story?

EfemenaXY:
Sounds like he’s got a terrible crush on her.

Would be interesting to read his side of the story though.

Honestly.

I can almost imagine his side.

Something tells me that if she was able to contact him before the wedding, he would have told her not to.

eyinjuege:
What kind of a man still insists on sleeping with a married woman because of an agreement of sex for cash made when she was single?
She has offered refunds of the money, yet he has refused that. Must he sleep with another man's wife? I can't trust such a man to be honest.

A man who wants a woman so bad that he will do anything foolish to hang on to the hope of having her.

From the OP's story,

1. The guy has not had anyone else since her
2. He was helping till he started sex for cash
3. He willingly gave her money when she wasn't able to fulfill her own part and waited. If it was just transactional, he wouldn't give her the money till she was able to sleep with him.

I will bet that what's doing him is that she married someone else behind him.

EgunMogaji:
I detect #DaddyIssues

I detect #ComprehensionIssues.

Acidosis:
Great move, joy of motherhood

But I'm not always comfortable seeing people abandon their dads.
I hope it doesn't apply to OP though.

Father and mother in an ideal setting should enjoy equal (great) privileges. As far as they're alive, attention shouldn't shift at the detriment of the other. Some moms have mastered the etiquettes of manipulations, I have absolutely no regard for children who, due to manipulations from their mothers, abandon good or innocent fathers.

Do you think children are stupid and will abandon their fathers if they are good or innocent?

I have seen children defend not so good husbands to know that children would always care for their fathers if they took time to build a relationship with their children.

Any man thinking that it is only money is wasting his time.

And every man should remember that if he sows the wind, he will reap the whirlwind.

Ejimagift:
USA is just a change of location. Doesn't mean you're fulfilled or successful. Your mum is dumb.

Jesus!

What is this?

SifonAbasi:
I haven't even seen him since I got married.

Since I have refused to fulfillYed my own part of the agreement as promised. I am afraid that the guy can lie to my husband that I have been sleeping with him while in marriage.

That's my only fear.

Why would he lie?
Why would your husband believe him?
Why did you guys break up?
Why has he not had another relationship since yours went south?
So many whys!

SifonAbasi:
I haven't even seen him since I got married.

Since I have refused to fulfilled my own part of the agreement as promised. I am afraid that the guy can lie to my husband that I have been sleeping with him while in marriage.

That's my only fear.

Why would he lie?
Why would your husband believe him?
Why did you guys break up?
Why has he not had another relationship since yours went south?
So many whys!

Get him a quality book on leadership or any of his interests and pen a note on it.

It almost lasts forever.

SifonAbasi:
I am afraid the guy will tell my husband that I have been sleeping with him even while in marriage.
Thus make my husband thinks I've been cheating on him.

What kind of relationship do you have such your husband that you are afraid that your ex will 'tell him lies'? and he will believe?

Or are you lying to us? Did you sleep with him after marriage?

Because if the true story is as you posted, I do not see any 'strange' thing you have done until now that you are stuck because you are married.

I also do not think you should involve your pastor's wife or anyone else in this matter. So far, you have not offended your husband except you needed help while you were still dating your husband or already married to him.

Tell your husband what you have told us and let the matter rest. If your ex calls to collect his sec, tell him your husband is aware and let your husband speak to him. That should solve the matter.

The ex is behaving like someone who still wants you sha.

otokx:
Is this not at variance with Human rights?

Well, the school has the rights to set whatever screening standards they want.

A bank for instance wouldn't employ a guy with dreads or a person with visible tattoos.

Are they infringing on Human Rights?

No.

MollyBank:
What a load of tripe! "Chioma being a typical Anambra girl wants to collect the money" I wonder when this tribal nonsense will end? Very unprofessional!

It is not tribalism; it is called stereotyping.

@question: very fantastic. We need more of this in our schools so we stop churning out graduates who can't apply the basics of their profession in the practical world.

I am sure when they are done with the exam, they are better equipped to advise someone in Chioma's shoes what to do and explain why.

It would also broaden their horizons and exercise their minds in application of their trade.

Powerful prayer, hot super handsome son, ain't a fan of full beards but this is cute.

Long life and prosperity. God give you the grace not to be a disappointment to your parents and walk in their legacy.

Amen.

otokx:
Was getting tired of the avalanche of political threads

They say the first 2 years of marriage are usually the most difficult so hang in there, just as much as possible try to communicate with your wife and find common ground.

where have you been?

Congratulations Musa

More feathers to your cap.

missjo:
Mum cares too much about what people will think of her only daughter, I honestly don't understand why she would be giving ultimatums

How far?

Did you marry guy one or are you with Ceaser?

Oma307:
I guess you know better since you are a lady

Know what better?

Tehila07:
I had thought that love has bigger roles to play in marriage. I was wrong. I got married at 36 when I thought I had seen someone who loved me.

While dating, I was not spending money on her because she has a job and was not complaining. I ride okada for a living hoping to go into a business soon. Before marriage, I use to have spare cash of about 10k always. Even if that 10k is spent on something, I would recover it within a week. She told me that if money she spends on feeding and what I spend on feeding are added together, we would feed ourselves and save more. But since we got married, I labour hard to ensure she has whatever she needs. Now I'm stretched to the limit and can't cope anymore. She has money in her bank account but said she's saving for raining days. Anytime she wants to perform online banking, I do it for her. Two days ago, I wanted to buy data, and I transferred money from her account to the seller and I brought out the money and told her seller accepts bank transfer and I don't want to go and queue in the bank for lodgement. I would have informed her first, but she was busy attending to visitors and her phone was with me. She was angry and said "I will change my password." I replied that the only favor she did me was saving my journey to the bank. She said if she has cash in hand, she would be tempted to spend it. So, it's me that should not have savings?

I don't feel like having sex again because of the depression and she is now angry that I'm turning her down. Now I'm planning to leave home and return whenever my situation improves. She can cope because she has enough money.

Why the financial pressure on me is too much is that we are both 36 years old and friends keep trouping to our house to wish her well. As a man that manages resources, I entertained guests from my family once for the past two months we got married because it's not my town but hers. She keeps asking me for money to entertain guests. Some friends made it a habit of visiting twice weekly, while she keeps showing me off. When she asked for money for food yesterday and I told her I had no money, she has been moody since then, thinking that I'm hiding money from her.

This was a woman, that, last week, when I said I couldn't afford a particular asoebi that only concerns me because it's costly, went to the market, bought it, and took it to my tailor. Judging from her recent actions, I won't wear that cloth except I'm able to refund the money.

P.S: Love is just a rhetoric - humanity died long ago.

You have to re-lay the foundation of your home; luckily you are a new couple.

State what you want from a wife and what you are bringing to the table so it's spelt out.

You both are not on same page financially.

It will be well.