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VitalRock:
Hi Guys,

Please I need sincere and candid opinions. I resumed duty as an operation executive recently with an Edu-training company. Be then, I had interviewed for a Store manager job in an hotel on the Island 3 months back. I was supposed to start the store manager job but they didn't get back to me anymore. I reached out to the HR and she said her boss is not saying anything. I had to move on. Now that I just resumed this operations job, they reached out to me and even increased the initial offer. Their reason for delaying was because they were renovating.

My Dilemma: After struggling so much with myself I stupidly approached the HR of my Operations Job this morning to let her know about the development. She asked that if they increased my salary whether I will stay. She offered 90k and I asked them to push to 100k that I would. She relayed every details of our conversation with the owners of the business and they were like I used them as a backup and today should be my last day. However, the husband came back to say I should spend my 2 weeks notice while they get a replacement.

Meanwhile, before the operation's job, I got a Customer Support Specialist role for the same 70k ( and now they are still reaching out to me on a new offer of 100k), I chose the Operation job over it for so many reasons but primarily because I was bonding with my new team very well and liked it there. 3 months later, the hotel is reaching out to me with a basic of 120k, free lunch, transport allowance, data allowance and HMO.

I feel terrible right now. My Mind is with the Edu-training but my body is with the hotel. Please advise.

Quick-one, I asked the HR If they will reconsider their decision If i decide to stay and her response was that they will think about it.

Just follow your mind if getting more knowledge in your present work is all you need now

Then, if getting money is your present priorities go for the one with the bigger package

In all, consider the present economic situation and the responsibilities ahead of you

NPTJ:
Good morning house

The only sister i and my other siblings had met a Man around 2008. He's from Imo state, a deportee from Germany who was in his late 40s when they met. My sister was just out of high school then and struggling to secure admission into any of the tertiary institutions. Luckily, she got admission to study law at Unilag after her second attempt. Sadly, there was no money to process the admission, she lost it. She was the first and only daughter of our parents. My parents were incapacitated financially to support her dream

My father never wanted her to work then, for guys not to take advantage of her or something. Having lost the admission, she insisted to work inorder to raise money for her studies. My dad got no option than to obliged

She met this man barely a year she started working. She was in her early 20s and full of dreams. Lest I forget, she was staying with our grand mother due to distance. This man got my sister pregnant and we got to hear about it. My dad got the man arrested and beat the hell out of my sister. He wept bitterly claiming this isn't the life he envisioned for his only daughter

He beseeched her and talk sense into her but she insisted, claiming she loved the man. This man was deported after spending almost half of his productive years outside the shores of Nigeria. He came back home with nothing and the next thing he could do was to got my sister pregnant claiming he loves her beyond words

My sister moved in with him and they started living together. We lost our grand parents (paternal and maternal) Yet, this man and my sister never stepped their foot in our house to commesorate. I lost my eldest brother, same thing happened. They never showed up. I was the 4th child of five children. Though, only four left now. She hardly call our parents nor we her siblings. To cap it all, my sister had stopped using phone ever since she moved to pourtharcourt with this man

This same man always attend his family function and very much into his family but isolated my sister away from her family. My sister never called throughout my days in the university just to know how I'm fairing, despite knowing our family condition. A very close friend of mine noticed this while in school and i did explained everything to him. He felt so bittered. He asserted the man might be diabolic, he's from the same town with the man in imo state

My parents are in their early/late 60s respectively and aging gradually. They couldn't felt the presence of their only daughter. Interestingly, family members got suspicious and they kept asking after her but my parents are bent on covering up, claiming she's fine. Yet, they goes to their closets to cry bitterly for the life of their daughter. I asked my dad why covering up, he claimed to have known his family pretty well, that they would do nothing

I'm just a young graduate, still job haunting. While my elder brother is gainfully employed with 50k as his monthly take home. He's being supportive with day to day running of the house and that of our last born studies. A friend suggested myself and elder brother with any of our uncle should go and treat the man's fvckup for eloping with someone's daughter without paying her bride price nor any other marital rite. I told him that isn't feasible for now due to our poor finances.

Nonetheless, we can't continue folding our hands and watch this man get away with this. She is the only daughter of our parents. Her presence is highly needed in their life, especially my mother

Please what can we do to make things work for my family back? I can't imagine having a sister who's more like a living dead

Any help, input or suggestions from anyone!

Your sister may be a Virgin as at the time of meeting the man and having slept with the man, she believe that, the man is the best thing that has ever comes her way, considering the fact that she got admission and her parents made her to loose the admission

Now, reporting the said ma to hjs kins men along with your family and kinsmen, is one of the best way to approach this embarrassing situation

Your father must a matter of fact, involve his kings men into this matter let them all join heads to visit the man family

No matter how your gaohide this issue, people are already aware that your sister eloped with another man

chinasaekpere:
Hello guys, this is a very strong decision I want to make, I need your help to make this decision or not to. I am thinking of cutting my parents off because they have caused me enormous financial setback as a result of the bad decisions my father made. Firstly, I will like to give you a background of the story.

I come from a family of 4 and I am the first child of my parents. My dad is a retired federal government worker, he worked for many eyes as a school cert holder (so obviously, he didn’t hold very top position until he retired, probably the max in reached was level 8 or 9). He trained me through the university and he retired during my NYSC, at this point one of my brothers was in the university (he never graduated because he was nonchalant), my 3rd brother was a jambite and the last born was in primary school. The Jambite graduated this year and the last born is now a jambite.

In 2013, my dad retired and received gratuity worth several millions. My mom tried persuading him to build a house in the village because we are Igbos but Based in ogun state but my dad refused and insisted that he was going to develop his land in ogun state by building a 4 flats building (up stairs) then start business with the remaining money in Ogun state (apparently, he got the revelation from church to do that), he never completed the house. My dad is very religious until date, so out of the money he paid tithe, bought instruments for church and made some donations. Immediately I finished serving, I got a job with a pharmaceutical company as a medical sales representative. I was receiving a salary of 80k with commission. Things started great. I served some money I joined my dad in some of his fish farm business, I was in Enugu while he was doing the farm business in ogun state. When it was time to harvest the fish, I was told stories about theft, I spent 700k on the business but was able to recover 200k because I had to help him offset some debt.

To cut the long story short, my dad started having serious financial issues, couldn’t pay school fees of my last born in school, had several debts just about 2years after collecting millions as gratuity due to his wrong choice of investment. Ofcourse the financial burden transcended to me, until a point that my dad got into trouble from another debt, he spent church harvest savings that he was suppose to remit. I was paying my brothers school fees worth 150k per term, i had to take money from company’s account to help him offset the debt hoping that he would pay up and I will pay some before company finds out. The whole financial burden was so huge for a starter like me, owing to the fact that I lost all my savings to the fish farming business and I also had to pay house rents in Enugu and pay other bills.
I accumulated a debt of 1.2million with the company and then is started paying it by bit until the company found out that there was a deficit of 400k. I was arrested and was in the cell for days.
To get out of the cell, I had to sign a legal agreement for a payment plan of paying 30k monthly to offset the debt. Luckily for me, I got a 60k job 1month after, my dad couldn’t pay my last siblings school fees, I took him to Enugu and started Paying his bills. I was also paying 30k from my salary every month until I paid all the lost the job again during the heat of the recession. I managed to pay up that debt.
Since 2018, I haven’t really done any serious job, I started driving Uber in 2019, saved up some money, my mom needed money for business last year, i borrowed her, she couldn’t complete the payment. The car I was using to do the Uber got bad again.
I had to look for a remote job now in Lagos, I saved up money and learnt how to do footwear, i Am saving some money to pay my house and shop rent and get machines.
Last two month my dad called that he needed money for my brother’s school fees so he can complete his SSCE exams. He promised to payback mid last month, now I have not seen the money and my that was my house rent I borrowed him. My house rent expired in August. I called him, and ofcourse, he is playing the emotional game. Now, they are in serious financial mess and they seem not to want stop dragging me into it and it’s not as if I am doing great myself. I am not, I’m struggling to make something after mortgaging a lot of time paying several debts. It is overwhelming.

The point is, I am 31years old, I’m looking forward to making my own family and it seem if I am not careful, they will drag me back from this objective. Anytime I try to organize myself, they come up with their monetary problems and it hinders my growth. My plan was to get a shop and equip it before the end of first quarter 2022 from the saving I made from my current 80k salary and now they have collected my house rent in form of a loan. That’s a drawback again.

I have to make my own family, I need to shed some burden to be able to do that. I also want to be a parent and I never want to depend on my kids in my old age.
Should I cut them off?
If no, what do you advice that I do?

You don't need to cut them off, you will be stranded as well as them in terms of family relationship

Well your last born have done his waec the next move from them is to send him to join you and start life with you

You must forget all the debts they are owing you and avoid paying debts they brought upon them selves

Learn a ringing tone that will make them to stop their constant requests

What's the ringing tone ?, I don't have money, they have cut our salary into half and now they are no longer paying even at month end

You have to borrow to feed

While doing this, build yourself because the main financial burden is still ahead

Stop allowing them to use your head

Any thing you have for them as feeding, given them monthly, if they decide to give a pastor, it's their own business

By the time they no longer get money from you, they will believe that you are in a tight corner

Thurmieee:
Hello everyone.
I'm a Agriculture graduate from unilorin. Finished nysc 2020.
So my parents brought this idea to me. They want me to go to Dubai and work
One of our family members wants to borrow me 800k and they'll add the rest, so we're talking like 1.5m.
But the salary in Dubai is like 150k monthly. I'm against the idea cos I think the renumeration is to small. I suggested we divert the money to something in naija and save for 2 years then I can try a better country......it's caused a war at home already they're saying I want to waste the opportunity. So I need input from people.

Even if you go to Dubai, it will take you almost a year to get settled and another year to save enough to pay back

Well if you want to please them, don't stand as a suretee

So that if you can pay on time, good and fine, but where you can't pay or finish paying

The BP or tension will be on their head while you will be drinking panadol for their headaches

Savloon:
Please help a brother, I'll try to make it brief. I got married to someone I don't really love but because of pregnancy. we met sometime around January, spent the night together around February we didn't have s*x 3nights she stayed, I live in a 1 bedroom apartment with sitting room well arranged, my kitchen was excellent and bathroom was neat. She was like you need to buy a dinning table, chair, she was like if I like her I should come and see her people I told her this is the first time we are staying together please calm down and let the relationship grow, we don't know each other before. I was beginning to like her gradually as we kept intouch. Then we met again March and this time we had s*x. Though I had another girl whom I really enjoy how we get along well and fun to be with knows me better but because I want to get into a real relationship I want the love between myself and these ladies to grow naturally both can take care of the home, can cook, lovely attitudes, both are same age, same name.
in a week time the girl called me that she's dead I was like what and said she's pregnant. because I don't want people to talk or put my family to shame I started telling my family that I have a girl I like I want her to come visiting that was where I think I made the mistake because she started getting into my family. The other girl knows the pregnant one by name coicidentally their names are the same as she usually call my phone but she would be like just follow your heart and I do like her because I said to myself since am average height I would like to marry a tall lady she's about 6ft, the pregnant girl is same height with me. April she lost the pregnancy and visited me after. awhile and made me slept with her that the nurse said she wouldn't take in even if I don't use protection because she's not seen her cycle yet and she took in within a month after a miscarriage. I didn't like how everything was going anymore and the likeness I had for her was no more there like before but because she kept saying just go and see my people before the pregnancy would show up I didn't think with my head I just started looking for money here and there. I made wedding cards and day I made it available 2days later she had miscarriage for the second time in less than 2mths. if I'd known I would have just done an introduction between both families that their daughter is pregnant for me call off the wedding. you wouldn't believe I didn't even know how I got money within a month did white wedding and traditional same day but each day I don't feel happy and we've been quareling and settling each day since February till now, we married barely 2mths now even in our honeymoon she was like she regrets marrying me and I don't feel happy within myself I'm sleeping and thinking, am bathing , working anything am doing I'm thinking like what have I gotten myself into marrying someone we don't love each other. she is like she is sorry for what she said I told her each day that everything happened so fast and I didn't even know how I came this far she said we can learn to love ourselves. my former girlfriend has blocked me on Facebook, WhatsApp, blacklist my number too but I still uses someone else's phone just go to search and look at her photos but I don't even go through my wife's photo at all. As married couple we barely have fun time or cuddle, fall to each other's body and tickle each other, I do say to her I love her but it's not coming am trying my best it things would work. She too has said she's getting tired already of the marriage because there's no fun like when we met newly. I don't want to discuss this with any of my family or anyone I know I feel very ashamed of myself already. All the plans have got for my future I think of them and see myself not getting there anymore because have just slowed myself down.
Please I need your advice am eating but ematiating everyday, I look sick because am thinking too much. I don't have peace

You worry more about what people will say and not about what makes you happy, that's by the way

This lady in question, was smarter than you

From day one she was rushing you and you were falling for her like - - - -.

Well both of you don't have any feelings for each other

You guys can take a break and use that time to evaluate each other

She too is tired of the marriage but doesn't know how to pull out

She miss lead you for her own selfish interests

She will still play and manipulate you, if you don't stand well

The gentleman in you, is your weakness

You already know that you still love the other girl

Assuming you remained faithful, to your former relationship, all these won't come up

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armstrongadeola:
I am not cheating on her and she never caught me cheating .That's not the story here sa

Locking your phone is a personal decision

armstrongadeola:
Good evenning house ,

I just want to ask this simple question !

What will you do if for the first week you get your salary paid into your son account and your wife withdrew #35,000 but lied she withdrew #30,000 ?

This is what happened .She gets the SMS notification from our son account and she also keep the ATM card but all I do is to get the mail notification.

Tonight ,she was indirectly complaining she doesn't have money and I asked her how much she withdrew in the last five days and she said #30,000 but the mail notification I got showed she withdrew #5,000,#15,000 and #15,000 on Monday and Tuesday (this week ).

The amount that dropped in the account was #150,000 and she was the one that even started doing transfer for those we needed to settle last sunday when my salary dropped .

We paid our son school fee ,sent little amount to my sister and little amount to her mum and her elder sister and I borrowed #13,000 from the money for transportation.We paid debt of #20,000 .

I stay and work on the island while I go home three times a week (mainland)

In all these,she was able to withdrew #35,000 and I was surprised she was telling me this night to get the money someone was owing me so that I can return the #13,000 I got because all what we have as balance in the account is #2,000 .

I was like is she trying to tell me she have finished the #35,000 with her and jokingly I said how much did you even withdraw from the salary and she said #30,000 !

I asked her if she was sure and she said that's what she withdrew .I now sent the notification I got to her and she was shocked and refused to reply me since 8pm .

My question is why did she lie ? Definitely ,she know she took #35,000 (#5,000 &#15,000 on Monday&another #15,000 on tuesday )but I am still shocked why she lied and why she is insisting on getting the #13,000 she transferred to me from my own sweat !!

Seriously ,I have lost my trust in her .This is someone who I have never benefitted anything from her rather than the fact that we have a son together after our wedding .

I love her so much and we have been together since 2013 .I have never seen any trace of infidelity in her but she locks her phone with heavy security just because I lock mine and that have never cause an issue but I still don't know why she had to lie this night !

Is there something I don't understand ?

She have definitely been a good wife since we settled down( with prayer and moral support )and she always stand by me in term of better and worse and she is not wayward despite how pretty she is .

But why did she lie ?

People lies to cover up some things best known to them

In her own case, her lies are traceable

Just ask her one more time, how come she withdrew a total of 35k and she insisted it's 30k

Is she continues to lie, both of you, or you alone will have to go to the bank to complain and the bank statements for that period will be printed and every thing will be on display

But if she refuses, then just watch out, she may have started learning bad things

DICO111:
Yesterday I went to the bank to get money that my uncle who is staying in the United states sent to me for use in paying for a Hisense deep freezer which I already told him the market price. He sent the money through western union and it was $400 in total.
I was robbed at gun point in a cab on my way to beurue de change to change it to naira.... I have been crying since yesterday, dont even know how to start explaining everything to him. I'm so confused.
Even going to the police is not a viable option because I dont have any reasonable information to give. Please someone should advise me on what to do because my mind is blank at this moment.

Whether the story is real or not, just tell him you were robbed as you were coming
The worst is that he will never trust you again in his entire life

Hismasterpiece:
Good day my fellow nairalanders.

Ever since i was a baby, my family has always had a house help living with us (so far we've had 7 since the mid 90's till now).

One thing that has always been constant is my mother flogging the house helps when they misbehave (in her opinion).

My dad even told me that while i was still a kid my mum would frequently flog the house help that lived with us as at that time very early in the morning (and she was a little girl).

We currently have a househelp living with us. She should be about 13 or 14 years old. She was sent to us from the village. Before now my mum would flog her almost every morning early in the morning (some days i used to wake up to the sound of her flogging the girl). After we talked to her about it severally she reduced the amount of flogging. Right now she still flogs her when she misbehaves but not like before.

The girl in question has done many bad things in the past. Recently she stole my mother's phone and would use it to play games every night (when everyone in the house is asleep) this was during Christmas and she hid it for days. We searched for the phone and couldn't find it. My mum even called her bank to block her account thinking that it was stolen by an outsider. She later got caught playing a video game on the phone at night.

I was even suspected. They thought i had stolen the phone and sold it.

Another thing the girl does is steal meat and food from the pot. Recently she stole some beans and plantain from the pot while it was still boiling. She took some and put it in a nylon and my mum caught her with it (she didn't flog her though).

I personally don't think it is okay for my mum to be flogging another person's child even if the person is under her care and even if she does bad things. Sometimes she uses a standard cane, sometimes she slaps or knocks her, sometimes she uses whatever is in her hand at the moment.

I personally believe scolding her would suffice. I don't feel comfortable with her flogging someone else's child.

What do you guys think? Is it okay to flog your house help? Even when she misbehaves?

Well that's her own ways of handling a child who bevomes naughty

But to me, beating a child is not really a good idea

Such a child will have all sorts of scars in the body and it means she never took care of her

Best bet is to send her back to her parents before she collapses

Some people have sickness that are hidden in them and can lead to fainting of passing out

Midas01:
Listen to me, you're the very very senseless one here for seeing absolutely no problem with stalking somebody.

Goodnight.

No need for good night
You are always monitoring my post and comments, that's a good one
Keep it up

ufotty2001:
Am a shy person.. I don't have a girlfriend.. am not longer young .. how can I start a family.?

You have to be mixing up with people around you and people you come across

Meaning you have to be social with interest of people at heart

It's not difficult to start a family, but you need to meet a woman to do so

Midas01:
Used to think you had sense....Lmao

Same way I was thinking you are sensible

shortgun:
Can I report Uber and Bolt Drivers?
They keep harassing my girlfriend whenever I book a ride for her to come to my place, meet up with me or go back to her house.

I am busy most times and don't have the time to pick her up or drop her off.

She keep telling me of the harrasments and how she will prefer I pick her than book a ride.
I always overlook her complaints until yesterday a bolt driver who told her he's married came back to her house to look for her after a ride yesterday!!

The randy man picked her from my house, I spoke with him on the phone and she told him she's in a relationship but he still carry his poverty stricken blokkos to my girls house?

I tot guys that do uber are trying to make ends meet? I always tip them cos I tot they need help but this have shown me that they are just a bunch of unserious people.

Do I need to tell you that your babe really wants you to be picking her up, where her friends will know that you are a big fish

A lady must be toasted by a man, do you want her to tell you the number of guys she gave her contact to

Don't just bother harassing any man because of her, unless you met her as a virgin

mcmurphy132:
Him don learn sense..
Abeg make nobody attack me ooo..
Just a bitter truth

Don't mind the attack, that man takes everything for granted

collarfreak:
Thanks so much
Thinking if I can be selling basic needs of police like handcuffs, teargas, bullets, etc, or do I need a license to do that?

Whatever you intend selling, even bullets, they will buy it on credit

collarfreak:
Pls nairalanders got a shop beside a police station and I need an idea of what to sell in the shop that would boom making 20k daily.

Whatever goods or services you want to do in that shop

Just be prepared to do it on credit and you may see or get your money after salaries have been paid

Worst is that, some of them may be transferred to another station and that's how you will never recover your debt

Nwodosis:
BMW no longer have strong body frames.

Not with the force from that height

azraeljaheel:
What will i call this one now..

Madness and nothing else
He really wants to commit suicide

dierich:
Somebody should please help me.
I'm in a rural area right now for a particular contract job that will take up to 2 weeks to be completed hence, making it difficult for me to visit hospital right now..

Since morning, I've been drinking lot of water but yet urine is not coming. Through out today, I only forcefully pass a little urine, as little as a handful of water.

I hope this is not the end for me.
I'm scared

Mods please help me push it to FP maybe I can find help pending the time I'll leave this rural area and go to my hospital

Once you are not going through any pains or discomfort and no swelling, it could be that you have been dehydrated and your body have to refuel your water retention

Just drink more water, and keep taking water, let's see your progress report

Efna55:
I look at people in the eyes in a certain way that is embarrassing and I can do nothing about it, I start observing it in my year one(2008), because of that I try to stop making eye contact with people, I was a very lively person but I've been keeping to myself for a long time now. Thanks to this faceless forum, I can't even explain it to Someone in real life..
I recently have a girl friend, she told me, "I don't like the way you look at me" I had to cope with it when I was running a PG program, when I had to talk to lecturers and colleagues even family members, although nobody has told me over the years except my girl friend, I'm depressed seems I'm the only one going through this..
Sorry for any grammatical blunders, I just wish I'll be very normal

The problem is already identified
The Solution is with you
Just change your style, that's all
If you can't imagine changing your style
Then that problem is you

Samfloxin:
It can be in a miracle center

That's not the issue here
It's likely yours was

milann:
I would like to share with you. I like the way you proffer practical solutions to issues.

Thanks very much for the compliments
I appreciate the fact that you normally take time to read my posts
It gladens my heart when I get this accolades

OlawaleBammie:
after she don become tokunbo abi?? Person wey op suppose don forget teytey


Taloni Awon obi weyrey

The tokunbo the better

sharone21:
Very correct...This is nature's way of amending things.....Also, it is blessing in disguise....Joseph went to Egypt because of his jealous brothers, but that was God's way of free visa entry into Egypt for Joseph.... Maybe Op has been very prayerful....He is getting a total/full package this time around: Wife, travel, maybe some inheritance( lol) but, PLEASE Op, be a Great father to that little fatherless boy and see how God will step u up the more sweatlessly

Yes, you gave him a good advice

Dskillful:
Please don't mind my errors but I need help because I am really confused...
To cut the story short, I dated a girl for 2 years which her family and mine are fully aware, she's an Igbo girl and I am from Rivers State, 2018 I wanted to get married to her all of a sudden her parents refused they started talking about tribal differences, I told them even my mum is an Igbo woman but they don't want to to listen it got worst when the Rev. Fr said no they should not allow her marry me because they are Catholic. I felt very bad, but how will I do I moved on with my life.that same year they gave her out in marriage to one guy who based abroad, I congratulated her without any grudges they got married and this year the man died but they have a son, the man has been buried but I still love her and she is willing to come back to me, infact as it stands we are more than lovers, but I am giving her space so that she will mourn her husband very well and I don't want people to feel I prayed for the man to die so that I can take her back, because she said nothing will stop her this time. My problem now is should I let her go or marry her because I love her so much 100%.

This time around, her parents will give you 100% approval to marry her

Keep in touch with her

But give her time to mourn her husband and find out how long is the period of mourning, I think is one year

Meanwhile, don't leave her at this period, be there for her as she will fight anyone that wants to spoil this second journey of your love for her

daviesmania:
Good evening people!
There's this babe I've been seeing in the last eight months. She's so pretty, romantic and above all she's so silly satisfying on bed. But the only problem is that she throws up immediately after sex and this is so annoying. We've tried every strategy to stop it but is not working.
We're thinking of visiting the hospital but I believe I can also get some help here.
The unfortunate thing is that if this doesn't stop, then I might have to walk. Please help us if u can.... But my real question here is, Is this like an illness?

I think is because you stay too long on her during sex and the ride on her could be too rough for her fragile body

Why not try a very gentle one on her and don't stay long on her

Pick any one of the states they are very close to each other

missidy:
That is too extreme, ha. I can't block her.

You don't need to block her, just ignore her calls and give her less attention

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“Love can be found in unexpected places. Sometimes we go out searching for what we think we want and we end up with what we're supposed to have.”

I love the way you were brief on who you are and what you want

Though you did not indicate tribe, but you have good chances to get a quick response

NadiaR:
Good day NairaLanders!

Please I need advice on an urgent matter.
I and my fiance have been together for two and half years now. We've been through thick and thin for that period of time, I mean things I can't say here but if any of my close friends or family is reading this, they would understand.

Now we are planning on getting married soon our introduction is dated December this year. But the main concern now is that we just did our genotype few weeks back and it was confirmed that we are both AS.

At first I thought we could go ahead and make it work probably follow one of the solutions I found online (Fetus test or IVF) but looking at our financial status, we can't afford any of the two.

We've both discuss on what to do and found out separation will be the best but looking at everything, it is hard for us both or should I say it's harder for me to let her go.

At this point, I am calling on the doctors, nurses and those who have experience to advice me on what to do.

Cc: RoyalRoy please help push to front page

If you think separation is hard,
Having a sickle cell child is a harder one

dre11:
https://punchng.com/two-die-in-edo-over-suspected-money-ritual-practice/

If this is how ritualists will be dying then it's a good one for them