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tigook:
Hello Doctors in the house, sometimes last year my wife had a miscarriage and had to undergo an evacuation. We had been on the hunt for another pregnancy since that time until we recently discovered she is pregnant again. I don't want any issues this time. Please house, I need your advice to help prevent another miscarriage. I am free to respond to any reasonable questions. Thanks.

I am not a doctor but follow this advice

Let her have enough rest

Let her state of mind be at the best point

Let her stay away from positive things that disturbs the mind

Let her eat whatever she is craving for

Help her out in domestic chores that burbs energy

Let her obey antenatal instructions

Lastly, you guys will have to reduce the number of times you mate, more of romancetto keep you going

Even when you want to penetrate, from the back will be better through side ways and not dodgy pls and be gentle as you do that

Mumben:
Thanks Sis, i won't lose hope

Good I love that, send me your account number let me gift you 2000

DadiHumble:
Please I just need matured and professional answers on this topic.

My wife and I has two kids now and we are having a wonderful marriage. I love everything about her and even her great looks especially after having two kids.

The only thing that worries me sometimes is when I see that her breast are now falling and I know its natural for women but then I just wanted to find out if there are any form of natural solution to this because definitely surgery is never an option for us and I won't even allow such. If there are any other natural solution to falling breast please I would love to know about them.

Thank you

Motherhood can change a woman

That saggy breast still have sensation in it, just fundle it for her pleasure

The nipples which are your spots are as active as it use to be

A woman can't birth a child with out loosing something on her body

Mumben:
Good day good people of nairaland, I just want to use this avenue to pour out my mind maybe it might make me feel better.
The thing is my marriage is a little above a decade but in all these years, it has been from one struggle to another, one challenge to another especially financial challenge. We have never been financially stable. In fact, we have been moving in cycles.
I was doing one work like that before the coy decided to lay us all off, since then, I have no job.
My husband who's bn in and out of jobs and businesses was recently suspended from his last job. It's like it's d world against us, nothing seems to be working for us and we are very good Christian's trying our best to do what pleases God.
I need a shoulder to lean on, to tell me that all will be well. My mum has been encouraging me all this time but I know She too is not happy with the situation of things.
My husband is really trying his best but I don't know if there's a spiritual dimension to what is happening. Working like elephant eating like ant, I feel so sorry for him.
Pls if there's anyone here who can recommend me or my husband for a job, I will appreciate. I also need words of encouragement because talking to people offline is very difficult for me cos I am an introvert. God bless you all

Pls my dear sister, everything will be alright, no one has a smooth ride in marriage and the economy situation has frustrated many plans for people

Prayers and trust in God is the only power you can use to fight it

God is planning big for you and the love you guys have for each other will make you guys come out well

Just be thankful to God for everything and don't loose hope

He knows your situation and he is planning on how best to fix you and your husband

I wish you well and don't think because thinking has never solved any problem

Lamanii22:
Hello dear mothers, my baby is 2 months old but would not take formula (Nan). I know we are told to breastfeed babies exclusively for 6 months but I don't think breast milk is enough, she keeps sucking every now and then and I'd be resuming work soon... Should I change the formula brand? Looking forward to hearing from you all. Thank you.

Don't mind her, they love the taste of breast milk more than formula

I will advise you follow the instructions on the container on how to prepare her for which is one level spoon to 30ml, having done that, while breast feeding her, play with her remove your nipple and put on the feeder immediately, she will suck, notice the change in taste and start looking at you, the moment she wants to react, return your breast bact to her mouth, she will be happy sucking it and repeat the same process

She has to learn how to take that formula and Nan is very ok don't introduce any other one so far it's not purging her

At three months introduce pap with enough formula

Temmy3256:
Please I seriously need help nairalanders. So I met this guy (ola) January 6th, 2021.I saw he's my spec despite the fact that I have a boyfriend (in a long distant relationship though). Ola and I exchanged numbers and we started talking as friends. He asked if I'm in a relationship and I told him yes, but he made it clear he likes me even with the fact that I have a bf. Fast forward till middle January, I visited him (ola) at his place in Lagos though I stay in Lagos too and my bf leaves in Abuja. He asked me to pack for the weekend, so I spent roughly 3days. We had sex on my first visit to his place, told me everything I needed to know about him but I never told him any crucial stuffs about me cause I felt it was too early. Fast forward to February 2021, ola kept inviting me over to spend my weekend with him and I never for once objected the offer even if it's not convenient for me, I'll always find my way down from the island to the mainland virtually every weekend because I love him and likes his person. The love I have for my boyfriend has reduced drastically cause of his attitude though. So I went to ola's house, I discovered I'm not the only one he sleeps with, he smokes, places priority on himself alone/first before considering me, this guy will promise to send me my Tfare after leaving his place but I'll never receive any dime from him(I'm only being considerate here cause he's a business man and he has other bills he needed to settle) lemme just say he's very stingy. I confronted him to know if he has someone else, at that point he had to ask if he's the only one I sleep with, don't I have a bf, of which I told him he's been the only one and that's the fact. Well, thereafter he begged me he was sorry for asking such a question and I forgave him and had sex. The last sex we had resulted into pregnancy cause I was so worried my period didn't show up when it should come, so being weekend had to come to his place but got pregnancy test kit with me, in his presence I checked with this kit and got a positive result. I'm 25years old and he's 33years old, after seeing the result he told me he's sure I'm not ready for this, told me how my parents and aunties will be so disappointed in me, so to cut the long story short he said he'll help get abortion pills to flush the blood out cause is still very fresh. This is a guy I sacrifice my time for, would cook all his meal for a whole month, I don't disturb or call him for money, I don't argue or fight with him. Well, my question is should I take the abortion pill or I should tell him I'm not aborting so he should man up and take up responsibility. I don't mind quitting my job to avoid shame

If you don't think well you will be the to nail your coffin

Meaning that Ola of a guy, will want you to abort the pregnancy and apologise to you then continue using you as intimacy gadget

If you want him to man up and he refuses, will you force him ?
If you resign your job because you are pregnant for him, who do you think will suffer it, if not you

After this, be wise to use your senses

Those guys living in the island, they are never ready to settle down, they equally want a bigger girl that will match them

The final decision is yours

PrimadonnaO:
This has been on my mind for a long time now. Ask the average man why he's not married and he'll say he's not ready yet, citing a plethora of reasons.

But this man is actively having sex non-stop, and possibly spending more than it takes to run a home...then a girl gets pregnant and he's suddenly ready.

So what's the deal? Is it that all men who got married following a pregnancy got married to people they don't love/want and have been struggling through the marriage?

If the above isn't the case, what then stops a man from making up his mind to marry, without a premarital pregnancy first coming into the picture? If he knows he loves the person he's with, and can actually imagine doing forever with her, and won't end up on the streets begging to sustain the family, why not do the right thing and get married? Instead of waiting for the pressure that comes with marrying a pregnant woman... or wasting valuable years before starting a family?

Because they are matured for marriage but yet to make up their mind to get settled

So trust women now, they always know their game

He has an agreement with his destiny that the prison will be his home

So, return back to your home

Activist001:
He said not all of them are useless. Have your forgotten how to read?

You see, for a man saying that women are useless, whether few or all of them makes the man looks useless too because he is surrounded with women, from mum to sisters

Any man that cannot manage a woman, then he has nothing to do being with a woman

freethesheeple:
Read my post again. Every girl in Nigeria is the same. Both the working class and non working class...
I have to conclude like that guy used to say :Nigerian girls are Usless, All of them.. But not all of them shaaaa....
Omo I Don tire for women.
I have 0% interest in anything woman.
Just minding my business.

Since they are all useless, the men going for them are useless too

BadRadio:
let's settle this once and for all...

The argument about what a man and a woman brings to the table in a relationship or marriage has been over flogged... now I am twisting the narrative a little differently.


If a man takes the masions, the bone straight hair, the cars, the jewelries, the makeups, plus monies he gave to her...

what can a lady take back from him?

He won't even take it, you think it's easy to collect those things back and she will be looking at you just like that

RealGboy:
I have a friend who really has a small cucumber and he's been feeling sad lately because his ex whom he caught cheating have an excuse that she cheated because she was not enjoying thier love making due to his cucumber size .

This was the same girl , he bought an iphone 11 for immediately it came out, I mean this guy does everything for her ... I have seen my friend cucumber and it is average when he is not a porn. star .

.now my guy is all over the internet trying to buy drugs to make his cucumber bigger... which brings me to the question does size really matter ?..... I mean I can swear that ned nwoko has small cucumber but yet look at the numbers of pretty ladies he control or are they cheating behind him ??

The size of it doesn't really matter, what matters is how to use it well and when to use it in her

Be romantic and give her full attention, she will always be close to orgasm even before you penetrate making it easier for you all

Some have it big and since they don't have the above details, they can't even use it well

Slimslimqq:
Lets be careful of those we intend to help. not all who ask for help needs help.

I am still a struggling young guy, but the little I make I share with those who doesn't have at all. that's my nature, and also I know what it is to be broke.

Last month, I came across a Lady's post on Facebook, that she needed 1k to survive for the weekend. I went through her profile and I noticed she's real.

Though, I was also broke, but I had 1600 in my account, so I reached out to her and sent her 1k as she requested.

she later chatted me up and sent her number to call and also appreciate my gesture.

we talked a lot and I got to know she lives in Benin city alone and sometimes spend days with her boyfriend who happens to be a fulltime broke yahoo boy.

I talked to her about the risk of living with someone who doesn't have a job and rather be involved in yahoo, and also I gave her samples of how desperate yahoo boys use their girls for ritual, but she defended him that he's not that type.

along the line, I learnt she had a skill, fashion design.

I discussed why she hasn't been using her skill to help herself grow, but she complained lack of funds to get a sewing machine and also that people don't sew clothes in Lagos

I told her about Lagos, and she seems interested. in fact, I told her my mom has a sewing machine that she doesn't use frequently, that I will discuss with her to release it.

she was happy, but said she doesn't know anyone to accommodate her in lag, but she has a friend who's married but not sure if she can accommodate her.

then I promised to help discuss with my mom and fiancee so that we can help her with accommodation and the sewing machine, and she seems glad about it.

I discussed with my mom and fiancee about it, and they agreed I bring her. my mom showed special interest in helping her in a little way she can afford when she heard her story.

I told her the latest development, then she asked when would come, I told her that anytime she likes, then she told me she doesn't have enough money for transportation to lag. she has only 2k while tfare would cost 5k, I promised to help her with 3k the following week, not that I have it, but I had faith I will get it for her.

Then two days after, she messaged me that she would be coming on Saturday(today) because she owes a lot of debt and they are threatening to embarrass her on sunday(tomorrow). I should help her send the 3k so she can start coming.

I struggled and fasted just to help her raise the 3k, so that she can start coming.
I also noticed my mom about the development.

ulcer almost killed me because i made sure I help her send the money yesterday evening, I didn't any healthy food because of the savings.

this morning, I sent her a message to know if she has started coming and she replied yes, that she's in the bus. few hours later, I didn't hear from her, I sent her another message to know where she has reached, but she read and didnt reply me.

meanwhile my mom was already worrying me about her situation. so I collected my mom phone to call her, to my greatest surprise was hearing loud music and noise in the background, immediately she heard my voice she cut and blocked my moms number and mine.

Before u bash me, know that she isn't the first I tried to help, some nairalanders can attest to this, because I am accommodating, both male and female. I took after my late father. because I believe God rewards those who have good heart.

I am not pained because she scammed me of the money I suffered for just to please and help her. if she had ask, I would have given her, but because she played and fooled me and including my mom, I am pained. that I don't think that will stop me from helping anyone else In future.

Modified: I have removed her pictures, and info. but this thread has made me realize I am more human than 70% of some guys on nairaland, because I had no bad intention towards her but some guys are here staying all sort of thrash because of their silly mentality.

You better stop this your Mr Nice guy attitude before you trade your family for charity

People never do you abi ?

You starved, got ulcer just to send her 3k

Where you bringing her to feed herself or to fast and feed her

Abeg get sence or borrow one

JONSYN7154:
Can we talk about this?

What can a woman do to a cheating Husband, apart from prayers?

After counselling him and he gives deaf ear

Just leave him and focus on the children if any

A time will come it will be very late for him to find his bearing in his own family

That's when you will start your own

By then, the children has seen it all that he was never there for you people

freethesheeple:
I have sat in my closet sad and asked if 21st century Relationship is a Retirement Benefit for All Nigerian Ladies.
For the last three months, I have Zeroed off my mind from sex and I have gained :Strength and confident. Though sometimes I feel the urge but I get busy with my Psp, I don't watch Porn any more. In fact I stay away from any thing that will get me sexually aroused.
I walked out from my last Relationship I had because this Girl want to kill me with bills.
Out of anger sometimes back, I told her to let her father know some of her problems.
Does dating a Girl now means you carry 98% of her Problem?

Just make a mistake and say Hi to any girl, her Response would be:

1.Am fatherless
2.Am dataless
3. Am motherless
4. Am jobless.

If you then decide to date those working class ladies, they would want you to take them to Cubana, Quliox and where E money eats Lunch, on Your MONEY ooooo because of a MERE PUSSY.

My only fear is that I have vowed not have sex again and it might affect my Hormones or so(Doctors in the house, is this possible? )

99% of Problem here on Nairaland is about:Woman, Woman.

If God will kill me for minding my Business, not talking to woman who Think SEX AND PUSSSSY is the WEAK POINT of every man, let God better prepare my death....

Being single, having Psp at home is what every man should dream of.

You see that babe you love so much, you are Ready to fight even God to show her Love, that babe Might be A SECRET RUNZ GIRL who will do anything for money..

I don't spend unnecessary money any more, I have enough savings and my Major focus is my MOTHER..

TO HELL WITH SEX, TO HELL WITH PUSSSY.

THANKS FOR READING...
Sorry for making it long.
@lalastical

The issue is that you have to look for girls within your class and reach

The ones you are talking about here are expensive city girls and it doesn't work that way

Then the idea of vowing to stay away from sex, did you enter into such agreement with your hormones or your dick

Because when the dick wants his food, he will definitely stand up the way and manner you will calm him down is up to you

DonSmith123rr4:
So i met this babe in January 2020, we started getting along, she visited and went but in March during Covid 19 Lock-down, i told all my staff to work from home which most of them ignored. She came visiting and due to the lock-down locked down with me. She began to assist me in some works like taking calls, sending mails and so many, then I realized that she had talent in customer care and gave her job in my company as a customer care support. Meanwhile she had a job that was paying her 55k as a chef but i offered her 70k then she accepted.

Then i noticed she doesn't want to go back to her sister's house where she used to stay but i let her live with me because she was adding value by working with me not just the girls kind of occupying a man's house. Along the stay i saw her pushing in love and to become more than what we were, i decided to confirm her genotype before i could reciprocate since am AS and must settle with AA to avoid SS saga, but disappointingly her result came out AS as well . I tried all my best for her to see reasons why we can't be together as husband and wife but she refused to take it referring back to our parents who got married without knowing their genotype and still lived fine.

Well we continued staying together and me pretending like i was happy because she's really doing her job in my office. Whenever we are mating, she complains that condom is painful and going fresh then pulling out to cum is maltreating her cos that is when she cums too and enjoys it more (wahala). Truth be told, we aborted twice till the 3rd time when we found out about an unborn baby genetic test which cost 300k to confirm the genotype of your baby.

Meanwhile before the 3rd pregnancy, i had to get her a conducive and luxury mini flat of 700k with total package of 1.3millions just for us to keep distance and for her to find a suitable AA suitor but shockingly, i never knew she was pregnant and decided to keep it to her self but surprisingly scan confirmed the baby's heartbeat stopped at 8 weeks which means the baby is dead and needs evacuation. We evacuated the baby last week and she as been acting weird because i have been denying her sex.
Flashback to December 2020, i increased her salary from 70k to 100k starting January 2021 based on her new position as the company HR. Due to the stress and expenses getting her an apartment and furnishing it plus she has been spending from me on 100% of her personal expenses including tfare to work since we were still together before she moved to her apartment, I decided to pay her 50% of her january salary (50k) but shockingly to me she went gaga saying i have to pay her full payment and when i refused, she tendered a resignation letter.

Please I am yet to respond to her resignation letter because I am confused. WHAT DO YOU THINK

1. Sell my ego and plead with her which i believe is what she wants but the aftermath result wont be funny.
2. Accept her letter and retrieve all i got her from the apartment, interiors, phones, laptops, human hairs, designers, etc
3. Accept and let everything go

Just accept her resignation letter, pay her off and let her go, forget about all you bought for her as you can't count how many times she gave you her pussy

Despite that her genotype did not match yours, she is busy trapping you with pregnancy even when she knows that the child may come out SS

Just stop sleeping with her and reduce your communication with her

Sickle cell is nothing to toy with

Always say it that, women knows their game very well

Stainlesssteel:
Hi please forgive the grammatical errors.

I have a girlfriend and I do everything within my powers to support her even though I am going through difficulties in my finances. I stay on the island and she stays on the mainland. She came to my house late January and I suggested she gets a job and she sounded excited because she lost her previous job due to covid-19. I had travelled when she was called to resume.

Due to the distance, she moved to my house though I traveled, I left my keys for her and had been sending her Tfare and upkeeps. Now I am back and still doing it.

Just this morning, I was wondering if she's worked up to a month so I asked and she said yes then I asked if they owe salaries and she said she had been paid long ago. I have been doing everything including giving her transport and feeding and all that for her. I was so angry because the least she could have done was to tell me about it.

Now, I am confused and angry. I don't know what to do. Please I need sincere and matured advise.

Why do you think she did that and what should I do?

This is a very simple issue as you guys are still at a very young stage

First of all, tell her she should be taking care if her transportation to work from next month, meaning she most have collected the second salary, that's means from April 1st no more transport fare

Secoundly, calculate what you think will sustain you guys fro a month and give her half of it, let her support with the rest

Thirdly, give her enough time for you to be sure if she is the type that will be open to tans support you in a family way

Lastly is she is nit responding as expected and you have given her enough time to prove herself worthy, simply tell her that your mum is relocating to your house and she needs to get be at her place through out the period

Relationship is two ways if she doesn't worth it no need keeping her in queue, same is applicable to a man

ifytrik:
In as much as i hate seing single guys messing around with married women, i will not blame majority of the guys but rather i blame the married women involved in such stupid act, this is because 90% of relationship between single guys and married women happens mainly as a result of the married women not being sexually satisfied by their hubands or wanting to taste bigger or longer dicks, i had the oportunity to date three different married women but i turned them down because i made a promise never to have anything to do with another mans wife, as a guy, it takes a lot to be able to resist this married women when they come tempting you because they offer you much more than your reguler girlfriend can offer, so in most cases the women are to blame.

Really. ?

The married men that goes after ladies outside and sleeps with them, but their wives are indoors waiting for them,

Does it mean that you don't blame those men who lives their wives to meet other girls

Well I think the issue is, once you don't get satisfied with your man or woman, there is the tendencies that you will seek for it outside

They are all committing the same thing

malvisguy212:
even if she chooses the first option, the husband will marry a Muslim lady as second wife. there religion permit it

You are right, she should just go in and deal with it or stay out of it and hope for another

Finally

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

Every one with her own strategy

She may just be taking her time to know if you are the serious type

She may like you but not love you

She wants to know much about you because she is the inquisitive type

It's now left for you to answer all her jamb questions on you

My advice is slow down on her before she turns you to her puppet

Onyi22:
From my inbox
I met this guy in my final year in school, we almost shared the same view in life, he possesed all the qualities I need in a man.
He's so caring, kind, handsome, a good pay Job n from a humble home, I can't deny the fact that I Love him,
But the issues is that he's a Muslim while am a christian lady,
Pls house does religion matters in marriage
Cc Fynestboi
Cc Lalasticlala
Cc Roctation

It matters ohhh

If he will permit you and the children to practice Christianity, then he will be willing to wed you in a Christian church

But if he says otherwise, it's either you marry him and become a Muslim or you forget him and look elsewhere

Try and discuss it with him

Rogosa:
It happened in a heat of an argument and apparently, both of them don't really have "a good" relationship. And then, boom! She called her insane! How would you handle the situation as a man? Would you punish your wife for it or you let it go.

*Sent as received*

What's stops you from preventing that war between them till it gets to this present point

Adonis86:
As I was going through my phone this afternoon, a lady chatted me and I responded. She said she wants to ask me a question, that I shouldn't be angry with her. I assured her that I won't be hard on her. She asked me if I'm a gay. I responded No. She sent me a screenshot of a conversation I had months ago who I later learnt to be her husband. I asked her why she asked of my sexuality, she said she's suspecting her husband of three years to be a gay. It sounds so crazy to me but I suspect it's real due to the screenshot of the message, where the guy was demanding for sex from me. Now, I inquired more about their relationship as couple and found out he beats his wife often, even during her first pregnancy.

Now, the man confirmed to me that he beat the wife last night for going through his phone conversation and labelling him a gay, due to the kinda conversations he's been having with guys. But in a bid to deny it, he deleted the conversation and beat her up on false accusation. The lady has reported to their Reverend in church, but the Reverend discouraged her from going to Human rights commission or leaving the marriage.

Now, she's looking for more evidence to nail the husband. She wants me to send her the whole conversation I had with the husband, showing where the husband was begging me for sex and sending me his nude pictures. But I don't want to be that instrument she'll use to break up her young family. Though the annoying part is that the husband is very resentful and not even remorseful about his infidelity and domestic violence. The lady is not educated though wanted to learn a skill or go for further studies, but the husband refuses to send her to learn all those skills. According to her, he once accused her in his shop for stealing 45k, which was not true. He stopped her from coming out to his shop, whenever she comes out to stay with him in the shop, he'll be talking her down in the presence of his friends and customers. I was moved by her lamentations, that's why I had to take the pain to write this. I have contacted the husband on Facebook and inquired about the dispute and learnt the lady was saying the truth. Though I threatened the husband with military arrest if he ever touches the wife. But I'm still scared he might get home and pounce on the wife again for talking to me.

Please i need matured advice from people here on how matured to settle this young family dispute without the poor lady suffering further in the hand of this young man.

There is little or nothing you can do, just confirm that he is a gay, then leave her to handle her husband by herself

Every woman knows how to handle her husband

lilvicky68:
Chai..humble himself

Yes na situation cause am

Same is applicable to the opposite sex

lilvicky68:
Most women with money don't respect their husbands.. because they feel like they can afford anything they need so they don't need anything from their husbands..If the man earns more he won't feel threatened..

If you are judging it from this angle, then the man should humble himself

His loyalty will pay him

Emperorlanky:
Yes his car was taken. Not quite long he got this job. Dude has been struggling to make ends meet. Just lost his dad who is still in the mortuary as we speak. Just had a meeting few days ago on how to bury him. This is the life we're reduced to. Sad, too sad

Pls take heart God knows best

You guys should bury both of them same day to save cost

May God be with his family

Too bad for a human being to go through this kinds of torture

Am sure they took his car also

God will arrest them

Rest in Peace

Apart from oat meal, others are actually for children daily meals

PuZZyNegro:
They've already taken the place of the husband (my grand aunt's husband) but the problem now is how they will break the cycle of poverty and make it in life.

The second son went to do boy boy in a man's house. After staying for four years, his stay in the man's house is undecided. He asked the man to take him home so they can have a formal agreement on how long he's going to serve him. This is what people do after just one year of being with the oga.

The request made the man to flare up and started accusing the guy of stealing from him and not doing anything. That's how he was sent packing after wasting four years of his life serving the man.

The uncle who is the only person that could speak for him is an efulefu so no hope. People take advantage of such people sadly.

As at now, that guy is driving Keke in Lagos, is that how he wants to be a billionaire? None of them went pass SSCE so breaking the chain of poverty is really going to be difficult for them.

The chain of poverty will be broken if they the men have few children and train them up to university level

As you can see, they are school drop out, so there is little they can do in terms of their education

So many people are rich and they didn't attend higher school

But in their own case, they have to tame the excesses of bringing too many children to life

Wealth comes from God

Uou know what, just pick the few baby items you will need for you to use after delivery

Take rest for about six months and then go out to look for jobs, even if it's just teaching

If you neglect this advice, you will still take in again during breast feeding, because you are free and not engaged in any challenging job