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dollytino4real:
dat is y must women do far better than some men because of their attitude towards family needs

Yes
Watch out most family's that the husband shys away from his responsibilities and left it for their wife's

The women are more progressive than the men

The next thing the man will become Jealous and aggressive with any little thing

Finally at the end, the children becomes more loyal to their mothers

You can't cheat nature

dollytino4real:
u are right my sister, my business is up n down because of children needs, woman can not look her child crying for food n turn away but some men will turn away n use the money for drinking n side fowl

Thats very true especially about men not caring

faithfull18:
Men don't gossip? Are you for real? Infact, this generation of men gossip more than ladies do.

E.g I was in an eatery one day, a group of men saw on a table, middle age men o, and all they talked about was a fellow male colleague who tries to manage the little he earns. This is just one out of the many gatherings I have seen.

If that's the case

Real gently men don't have time for gossips

They are busy struggling to feed their family

dollytino4real:
Why does women hustle more than men these days? Is it that women feel bothered about life n family well being compare to some men I don't care attitude......

Most men are not realy making it again

Some men are even lazy to struggle more

A married woman with children can never sleep unless her children have eaten and if there is no food at home or the husband didn't provide

She struggles twice to get the food and pay school fees because all are affected

These are just major reasons you see married women over struggling just to meet up

Trustedapparel:
Sorry nairalands this thing have been bothering me since,my cousin sister that came for holiday due to the ongoing ASUU strike have been masturbating all the time in our family house ,,,,fast forward to yesterday everybody left home , remaining only her ,,,,so I went to work the flood was excess it nearly cover our factory in bonsaac Asaba,so my boss recommend everybody to go home ,till further notice,,so I came back home ,only to see my cousin sister masturbating with Coca-Cola bottle ,,,,as she saw me she was very shock.....she has been begging me not to tell anybody.....she said she will do anything I want her to do for me.....I am confuse ..... does masturbation has any spiritual effect on person house ?or those it hinder any progress?mature mind please

She most have been feeling Hot and doesn't really want to go out there to meet randy men

You, if you are not emotional prepared are not careful of you may be lured to climb her

Is best she goes back to where she came for

Mastubation have no effect as I think

She needs a man and non is available

Let her go back where she can sort herself out

That's nature working on her

Men too feel the same way and mastubate too

Same feelings same actions

lecoeur:
My dad been down with stroke for some years and was recently admitted to the hospital after this serious seizure he had which he hasn't recovered from.
Man has been on oxygen since admitted this week but his oxygen saturation hasn't been stable, even got worse this night. The doctor is trying what he knows, myself looking at my own dad struggling for his life is breaking my heart, I'm cold right now, not thinking straight and my heart is beating so fast.
This is so far the most painful thing I'm experiencing this year trying so hard to hold back tears.
Please guys anything you can do to cheer me up will be appreciated, I'm at national Hospital Abuja.

I am so sorry that you have to witness what you don't wish for anyone

Pls you have to be strong and be ready to accept anything that comes out

You have to encourage yourself

You have to be there for your family

You have to be there for your mum as she is looking up to you to stabd by her and incase the worst happens

Only God can do that which you are looking forward to on your dad

At this point you are about being prepared to be a man

Be ready to fill the gap and even when if he survives be ready to fill the gap as he is too weak to handle the leadership of the family

Spray:
Little wins in my career struggle they discussed among themselves, make mockery of me behind me when i Bought a car, and they said it has no second hand value, after like four to five years, they struggle to buy that same car they discredited.
Joseph (Not real name) will tell me this what Charles said (Not real name too). But Charles has never in a day tell me this is what Joseph said behind me.

Any little opportunity Joseph have with me,he bring conversation him and Charles had. How Charles envy and hatted me so much.

I summoned courage to reach out to Charles, by telling him, why is it that whenever he's with people, he bring my issues, even the trivial ones that we always laugh together. He said the person telling me all of these is exaggerating.

Why I confronted him is that, I want to do away with both of them for life, so that they won't be surprised seeing me avoiding them.

Because this has been happening for year and it's telling on my mental health. Even women hardly behaves like this, these days.

I really do not know if I over reacted by confronting Charles for all his shenanigans

You did well in your best interest

Am glad that both of them are now aware of the nonsense that they are talking about you and you have confronted one of them

Spill the beans and tell each other what you heard the gossiped about you

Then use it as an excuse to drop them

I don't trust anyone of them
Men don't gossip so am surprise

Gabless:
I am 28 years old, a graduate of one of the university in South West. I work as a contract staff in a bank.

I met this guy about a year ago through my best female friend, and the journey started. I took him to my parents and he also took me to his parents too, and the wedding preparation started.

We were suppose to do family introduction but my parents says there is no need considering some logistic reasons. Although my mum has her reservation concerning him. But since my father has no objection I think am good to go.

He has sent money for some preparation since he is not residing in Lagos. The problem started after I went to idumota with my aunt to buy our engagement clothes. It was my aunt that drove me to the market. When we returned, my fiance called me, we talked for some times, but he couldn't appreciate my aunt for her kind gesture. Although my aunt didn't say anything that day but she wasn't happy. My dad also complained that he has been rude to him. The same goes with my mum.

The last straw that broke the Carmels back was when he was arguing with my aunt over the phone. He did not know I was in my aunt's house that particular day. I wasn't happy at all, thinking that if he would not regard my parents how would he treat me after marriage.

So I confronted him the second day over the phone, telling him that I'm not happy about the way my parents where complaining about him, and that attitude of him is creating fear in me. Instead for him to be a little remoseful and even call those people and apologize, he was arguing with me, still in my aunt's house.

So I told him, maybe we should put the preparation on hold thinking he would at least try and apologize to them. He just said, is that what you want and ended the call.

Everyone was surprised. He didn't call back it was his mum that called my mum, she didn't even persuade them to stop me from taking such step, and the guy too didn't call me for like too weeks until when I called him and he said he wasn't interested in the marriage again.

Actually, I wasn't happy and I have been downcasted since then, but on the other hand, May l ask this question does this guy really loves me?. Is he really mature enough for marriage. Is it all my fault? Please don't insult or abuse me. I just want to know if it's all my fault.

My dearest sister
Just thank your God that you did not entered into the devils dean


Between the time you met him and the time you took him to your parents was too short
Extremely too short

If you are desperate for marriage, talk to God not man

You do not even understand this guy and you are set for marriage

No love but managed love

No respect but insult

No regards and value for you and your family

Now tell me, do you want to be a slave and a servant to marriage

Pls start searching
this guy is a no for me

Exquisitely:
I have been dating this guy for over 2 years. When we started dating, he had no job and I always encouraged him to get something doing no matter how small because he was always relying on his parents then.

He got jobs but quit working without telling me, I got to find out later. Due to these issues, he couldn't afford to pay for his apartment, so he had to relocate to his parents house.

He got a job in the same area as his parents house and he only looked for it because I told him I wasn't comfortable with him not working, as someone in his late 20s. As a lady, I try to make sure I work, plan my life and look for opportunities with prospects, but he doesn't do these things. He is comfortable with the way things are going for him.

He's been working for some months now but there is nothing to show for it, he is not even trying to get a high paying job, start a business, learn a skill or leave his comfort zone.
Mind you, I don't ask him for anything since he is not even doing well for himself yet.

This guy is proposing marraige, but I don't want to accept because he doesn't have a vision, neither does he have concrete plans or prospect. I'm afraid getting married to him would mean I'll be carrying all the burden while married, since he is even comfortable with the way things are for him now. I'm tired of having this discussion with him.

Please I need suggestions on what you'd likely do if you find yourself in my situation.

I am very happy that you are seeing the red flag

Its now left for you to host the flag or bring it down

Left to me, just free this guy, he has no knowledge, no life experience, no strength to struggle and no clear vision

He wants to marry because his parents are advising him to settle down because they know that a woman have a way of resetting a man's life

Especially that one that refused to grow

He is lazy and there is nothing you can ever do to change a leopard spot

lovediehatelive:
The wife is literary who makes every single decision in their house.

She insults the man anyhow, even in front of their kids.

Your guess is as good as mine, these kids, they don't respect thier dad. How would they when their mum insults him all the time like a little child and orders him around?


The man will be washing the wife's clothes, the children's clothes and his clothes while the wife just sits there insulting him up and down.

Early morning the man will jump up from bed and start sweeping, while the wife will start one little case just to begin insulting him, claiming she is encouraging him to do his duties and be man enough.


This man will just be mumulishly laughing and be forming soft soft, for his mind it is love.

If the woman asks the children to do something, they'll rush and do it immediately.

But if the man asks them, they'll not, only if he stands up and rush to do as if he wants to beat them.

She's literally the man of the house while the husband is the slave, not even wife.

Man will change pampers, wake up early morning to sweep and cook, not as if the wife is admitted to hospital o.

If you interfer now, they'll say mind your business, don't put mouth for husband and wife matter.

If you see the man eh, so stressed out and frail looking all to please this woman he married.

It's like I'll pack out and leave this compound for them because this is an eye sore, disheartening.

I wonder if na juju be this.

Is this marriage or hell?

How can I find marriage attractive with this rubbish I'm seeing?

That's what a man gets when he chooses to be a a lazy man

zed7:
I don't see any crime in pleasuring yourself with toys.
Then again, being celibate never killed anyone. You wouldn't die from lack of sex.

Exactly

Rosyflower:
Rant! Rant!! Rant!!!

The pressure is getting too much for me.

I don't know how much more I can stay celibate.

Been separated/practically divorced for about 3 years and all this while, I never had anything to do with any man.

The sexual urges comes monthly and it has been the grace of God that I haven't given in to self pleasure or actual s@xual contact.

I am in my late 30s, a mum with a very high sexual Libido which I have been controlling but it is getting too much and I can see myself giving in already but I don't want to.

Almost 3years of no sex is not a joke.

I can barely keep up

Last night I slept with my pu##y throbing wet and my niqqle erect looking for who to practically chew them.

For how much longer will I hold out.

I have been able to build my spiritual life to a level but my flesh is getting too weak.

My body needs s&x

I need to get laid

I need my back bonned out till I am gasping for breath.

Yet I don't want to sin against God.

I have begged that he destroy the s@xual feelings in my body.

I want to be married properly before having s3x (yes, i am definitely remarrying).

Two years ago, I bought a little bullet vi brator and a pu33y sucker but I never used it. It's still there brand new.
I am tempted to dig them out and pleasure my self.


Ha!!! God help me

If you can no longer hold yourself

Loose yourself

Life is too short to be caged

Spartan95:

kendological:
Guys I have this girl who told me she has a boyfriend, when I invited her first to my place, I am not a rich guy, but I pay my bills.

I didn't ask her to be my girlfriend but I make erotic moves to her, she told me she has a boyfriend but she always comes to my place if I invite her, she has been resisting my sexual moves, not even a kiss, seems she likes some force.

She makes a few monetary demands, but she is not very demanding, I like her but I am very ready to dump her if she doesn't want me.
Physically and in appearance I am great.

The last time we had an issue when she walked out on me, I equally walked away, she called to apologize and I shunned her for one week she called accusing me of dumping her, even after she has apologized to me.

Our situation ship abi relationship is not even defined, she likes making body contact with me, even in public, pulling my long beard, licking or biting my ear(can creepy atimes) feels very free with me, but won't let me Bleep her. She always comes to my work place, even if I ignore her. she defends me against people who told her that I don't have money, like a brother, I have personally seen it.

She's a 24 year old beautiful lady, hardworking. I like her and I know that if I find my footing financially I will keep her permanently, she's a wife spec.
I don't think she's a virgin, I asked her she said her former boyfriend who she really loved tried penetration that it was very painful and unsuccessful.
She comes to my place, cooks cleans and even wash the utensils after cooking.

I am not desperate for sex (I can always get it elsewhere) relationship or marriage. I don't give her much, I don't want to invest in a hopeless affair.
She said yesterday that if I marry her is this how I will be treating her?(because I no send her) I told her that I cannot be doing giveaway, because I am a man of little means

Guys what do you think she wants from me?

Enjoy her company, everything is not sex affairs

Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation.

Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari.

This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.

Give her a family responsibility and by the time she spends her own money she will appreciate all you do for her

But the worst is, people who don't are unappreciative can't even handle or do anything for any for any one

You just have to manage them

Mycashproof:
My father spent millions setting German floor of his house but refuse to finish up the building before he finished up his money.

Right now, I don't have direction in life but I'm still in school and in bad debt. I'm thinking of hustling for money to complete my father's house but i don't have any means to make huge money the way my dad did.

I don't think I will be able to build a house of my own.

It remain decking to complete the house and it cost up to 6 million.

Now, he's suffering from terminal illness.

What should I do?

Instead of you to start planning how to be a man and start making income for yourself and plan for your future

You are thinking of how to complete a house that your father could not complete

You want your own stories to add to his own stories of inability to finish what he started

Worst still you don't even have a source of income

Honestly you don't have a future plan for yourself

oloyeagbaakin:
Meet this girl recently, my mum told me I should not ask anything about her educational qualification, but she is a hairdresser. Got to know after our introduction that she just finished from J.S.S 3 she did not even go to S.S.S 1 in short she doesn't even have a WAEC certificate. And our wedding is coming soon, what can I do guys?

You obeyed your mum
She brought a girl of 20yrs to you for marriage, she believes that's the best age for a wife because she doesn't want all these slay queens to control your life

You have done introduction and am quite sure that the girl is the daughter of a family friend of her's

Go ahead with your plans and be prepared to send her to evening school, if you think she has the head to read and write in school

But am very sure that she is not doing well in school that was why she dropped at JSS 3 Level

Over time she may develop interest in education

The problem now is how she can educate your children through when it comes with school assignments

Besides, you too you want such a girl so that you can control her

Your mum choice may be one of your choice of woman to Marry

ayotade09:
Good evening i kindly need your advice i dont know if i am overreacting or i am being selfish. my mum is 54years and seperated from my father and she have been taking care of us and have not been with a man for as long as i can remember so she can take care of me and my siblings we are 5 in numbers and she have been really fantastic in taking care of us. i am 22years of age second born and my older brother is 24 first. Where i need advice is of recent it seem my mom have been seeing someone a civil servant in lagos state government i have not met him before seems he his widowed am not against it cos i want her to be happy because she deserves to be happy where the issue is the man want to move in with even offer to be paying the house rent and taking care of her and the family but me and my older brother we are not comfortable with it we told her instead of him going through that stress he should get an apartment for her or she should move in with him cos my father abandoning us has kind of made use independent and am sure we are ready for a father figure now my brother (software developer) and me i run series of business and it is doing fine so we are capable of paying our bill that is the gist your elders in the house your advice is needed thank you

Since you guys can pay your rent

I think the man should rent an apartment for himself and your mum can go and visit him, after the proper marriage rights have been done, she can finally move in with the man

That's how respect and responsibility can be given to the man

Then you guys will now put eyes on your mum to be sure that the man really loves her and treat her fine

Any thing short of this, if the man packs into that house, there will be issues that will lead to disregard and disrespect on the man as he will be regarded as a squater

Cooolme:
Are you for real?
Someone that put 5 of his siblings through school, made sure they were as comfortable as possible?...he didn't even tell me this, they did.
I don't see why any reasonable person won't take such person as 'part' of their responsibility when it's even their brother.
Btw I never mentioned I'll be needing their financial assistance.

What I want you to understand now is that

He may have financed his siblings to school, it's possible they won't pay him back especially when he was sick because they are selfish

That's why i said don't expect anything from them

Havesomesense:
I have dated my girlfriend for 2 years now, so far so good, but I think I will do better on my own.

My reason for asking my question is because;
1. I hate it when my girlfriend is sometimes emotionally down, I will have to cheer her up and I don't like doing that but I have to do it. e no dey sweet me.

2. We are no longer living together. Early this year I relocated to another state because of my work and we don't have numerous intercourse like before.

3. I will not be ready for marriage in 5yrs.

If you know that you are not yet ready physically and emotionally to go into marriage and face your woman with her drama, stay away for the moment till you are set

By the time you have kids and don't have time to pet your wife and child, you will be in a dilemma

Kreddy:
Good morning elders and happy Sunday


I'm in my penultimate year at a university in the north. It took me many years before I secured admission. Initially I was an apprentice in a hospital but only spent few months because I was given the course that's quite dissimilar to what I was learning so I quited the apprenticeship.
I've been at home few months ago due to ASUU strike, and I do teach in a private school earning 10k.
Recently I was introduced to telegram and duscord where I was fortune enough to raised 300k but with the look of thing,the stuff don cast, the platform is now overcrowded. As at this moment,I still have 400$ in my wallet and 50k in my Bank account.
This is the first time in my life that I have had such a large sum of money. This, I believe, is a divine opportunity from God. Before I was introduced to the platform, I was romancing in debt,I don't want to plunge myself into such again and I don't want to lose the money, I'm running out of ideas for how to invest it.


Initially, I intended to purchase a laptop with the intention of learning online skills (content writing/copywriting, video editing, or graphic design) in order to earn more money. I was told a laptop was required, which means I'd have to buy one (#260k+), so I'm really worried about how to multiply the treasure (money).
Sirs Your suggestions, would be greatly appreciated.






RoyalRoy please can this post get a spot on the frontpage?

Before that money will disappear, get a good Laptop with it that will be used for subsequent jobs you need to do

At least you will know that you got a Laptop from the proceed

Morningblues:
So I recently received my salary and I gave my dad some money from inside (dash him) so today he called me and ask me to borrow him 60k Naira that he want to use to for something urgent, that he will give me the money by November. He usually borrow money from me like 5k,10k,20k he doesn’t pay and I forget about it, I normally don’t drag him.. I don’t know whether to borrow him this 60k, what if he doesn’t pay back! He is retired and I’m a student, he normally collect salary from retirement and he was the one who gave me the job I’m currently doing now….borrowing him is not the problem. What if he doesn’t pay back?? I earn 40k monthly but I haven’t received salary from 3month so the pay was 120k this month that just pass, he knows when they pay me and the amount they me. I’m confused…

You are earning 40k as salary and you are a student

Are you schooling on scholarship that you don't need money to sponsor yourself

That he got the job for you doesn't mean he should demand more than a month Salary from you

You have been giving him money on a borrow level he has never returned them back

If you borrow him this money, consider it gone and it will affect your education and personal needs

Be wise and tell him that you paid part of your school fees and need money to complete the payment

Stop giving him the impression that your salary above 100k

Use wisdom and follow him before you get into financial distress

I don't even care to ask you what he needs the money for

Cooolme:
So my dad has been sick for couple of years now and just died sadly.
I'm the first son and I've decided to inquire about how burial arrangements are made and also sponsor it solely because his family cut us off, although they tried but later abandoned him. My Mom have decided not to have anything to do with them ever since and also wish to bury him here at our place of residence not in the village.
Please I need you inputs, thanks.

This is a very sensitive decision

I think no matter the issue with your mum and your father family, they have to be involved in the burial

Dont expect money from them because they are not supposed to be financially responsible to your father even while he was sick and now dead

If you guys are having issues with your father family, put it aside if you people are not interested in reconciliation but let there be representatives from your father family to witness the burial

As for your mum, you don't let her decision on your father's burial affects you with your kind men in future

Cregon:
Greetings to elders and knowledgeable folks in the house. Kindly assist me in this family matter.

There is this person I know who was impregnated by her boyfriend a few years back. She didn't abort the child.

Three years has gone by and yet the young man has refused to lift a finger in caring for the child, who is now in school.

The weight of catering for this child is really telling on the girl and her family.

So advise me. What legal steps can be taken? Can he be charged to court?

Mod: Kindly help me by moving this to the front page. Thanks.

Even if you charge him to court, he can only be made to pay a certain amount of money, that's if he has the money to pay and if he doesn't have the money he won't pay

You can't force a man to a certain level to take responsibility of his child, especially where there was no marriage commitment

She is not the first and won't be the last in that category

So they have to bear it and stop expecting anything from him, he doesn't want to be committed to it

She should thank God that it didn't lead to marriage

The only way she can get anything from that child father is when he comes to collect the child, she can bill him the cost of keeping the child alone and even court will admit that

There are so many irresponsible men out there, that's why we advise girls to close their legs tight

Please I need advice and guidance on how I can travel overseas as a single mother with my daughter was never married to her dad, and I’m planning to get married to my fiancé by the end of this year as we both want to travel overseas together I need information as how I can travel with my daughter without any confusion from her fathers side as he is also married with two kids. And can I change my daughter last name to my new husband name to enable us travel all together please need this advice thanks

I am still thinking of how financially buoyant you guys are to travel as a family

You can't change your daughter name to your man's name because he is not her biological father

Rather you can have the child bear your father's name or he can process the adoption of your daughter through legal means with the appropriate authorities, that's what he needs to do to get her bear his name

While filling forms at the embassy, you have to indicate that you have a child while he too will indicate he has children too

falcon01:
bullseye

famozine1:
Like u re talented in reasoning dere is a particular server I render though not to them only that was Wat brought the entire family close to me

No wonder, that's why I said that you must be Mr nice guy

Anyway just be careful to avoid anything that will affect your relationship with all of them

I know you understand what I mean

yemite100:
Good evening Nairalanders
There is this particular woman that we both live together in the same house, she is a single mother of three kids (males), this woman has been very close to me and I tried to assist her with the little I have and I have been supporting her and her kids financially. She has been making life unbearable for me due to her attitude, she is not my wife, we are not dating and she want to take responsibility of everything.whenever I buy foodstuffs at home within the twinkle of an eyes everything will disappear and I wouldn't want to say anything or scold her.
I work one day on and one day off in an hotel, this woman works In a nursery School and the money is not enough for her upkeep.
I decided to help this woman get a job where I work, I got a kitchen job for her so that she can take care of her kids, unknown to me that this woman has been stealing foods from the kitchen and most times she will ask customers for money and always ready to keep the change for herself, it was one of the kitchen women that reported her case the the MD and she was caught red handed, I was expecting the manger to sack her alone but to my greatest surprise the MD ask me to leave because I stood as guarantor for her, I pleaded to him to but insisted I had to leave because when the woman was interrogated she told him she has been bringing the food to my house which I know nothing about.
Last week,her kids spoilt my television set and I had to abandon it at the radionic workshop pending when I will get money to fix it
I feel so bad right now because this woman has just done more harm to my life, my good heart has finish me
This is a sad monent of my life and I don't know when it will take me to get another job in this hard time.

I am still wondering why you decided to live in the same house with her

Bigleaf1006:
I have been married for 7 years now and dated my wife for another 7 years prior.,we are blessed with 2 kids,a girl and a boy.

I am not keen on having anymore children and we are quite happy and comfortable.However, my wife's elder sister who is also happily married for about 20 years has only one child who is about 16 years now but she has been having it difficult having another one.

My wife told me she wants us to help her sister have another baby, that is make a new baby and give it to her, this initially sounded like a joke the first time she told me and I just laughed it off,but she has asked me this same thing several times over. I havent even given her room to discuss it with me but she somehow always finds a way to slip it into our convo oftentimes.

Though her sister who is quite comfortable never mentioned it to me but I am very sure they must have discussed it and her mum as codedly been pressuring me to have another child yapping on about how she wants more grandchildren because she has only 2 children- my wife and her sis.

How ridiculous does this sound or am i the one making too much of an issue out of this?

They should go for adoption to avoid future stories that will disintegrate both families

They can also look elsewhere for a better surrogate mother because surrogate mothers are not really meant to know where the parents of their surrogate child lives talk more of knowing anything about them

No one knows tomorrow so apply it with caution

Once your wife surrogates for them, she has no claim over the child

But she will still have deep feelings about the whole thing after handing over the child to them

Aderewah:
Igbos marry themselves and if they marry outside, it’ll be outside or a beautiful Yoruba woman or otherwise a Yoruba demon. But Igbos never marry Hausa. Is it discrimination or something else?

The question should be
Can the Hausa cope when they marry an Ibo

Ibos don't just marry to divorce, so they take their time when it comes to picking a wife outside their tribe

That doesn't mean that they don't divorce

The Hausa people are used to their system and may not cope outside of their custom and tradition

famozine1:
There was a small girl in my street age (14-17) she was so so close to me like if she could cut her head for me she would have done that I don't even know how it happened like after 3 years I fell in love with her I can't lie to you the closeness was so much and that was my first time falling in love with someone note she is still a teenager I was highly respected by her family though during this period of we dating I never talk any corruptable thing to her I took her like a sister most her my words to her was a advice. so on a faithful day matter cast and all her family now knows what is going on since then they look me as a senior brother to devil which is true though I might be blame by men but he who check the content of the hearth knows I never try anything rubish with her even I have never hold her hands talk less of hugging so that is how that story went I now move to city now another teenager again we live in same compound have been doing sort of strategy she is now close to me even if she has nothing to say she would just come and I never wants what happens the first time to happen again because I still feel the pain of being looked down upon by those who love me so how will I avoid her permanently,completely the main problem there is am someone who doesn't talk I just love to be on my own so please how can I avoid her please

You dont like talking but love being on your own
So how come they are noticing you

I think you like being the Mr nice guy to them /her and that keeps attracting them to you

I hope you won't be accused of being a pedophile

Greattestman:
My close friend raped a 14-year-old daughter of his neighbour. He's a 20-yr-old guy.


He said he was expecting his girlfriend to come but unfortunately she disappointed him and he was already high. When the girl banged into his room, he seized the opportunity to forcibily penetrate her.



He was arrested and put in cell but this should serve as deterrence to parents who let loose of their children.


I'm embarassed!

He must be high on drugs and he will go to jail

guobe:
In church today a girl wore a hot leather jeans. She is quite the fashionable type and she was looking hot in it.

Is leather jeans a no or a yes to church?

She done carry her temptation enter church

Omoapena:
I buy Airtel 5k data for 40GB 3 times in a month and the only thing I do with this data is to stream reel videos on Facebook, IG & Tiktok. Yet, i use over 80GB of data just in a month.

This is eating me up honestly, what plan do you subscribe for and how long does it last you

I don't want to talk about mine, I have to freeze candy crush and I stopped going to status views, let me know where my 20gig data goes that it just last a month

Meanwhile I have heard of Airtel 5k for 40gig
How do I benefit from it pls

When i called the customer care to ask about it, I was told it's randomly picked by network