OfficiaCheftobi: Please I need to know about the pros and cons of this pork meat business from an enlightened one. How can I get cheap pork meat and other extensive news about this business abeg joblessness dy worry me to the core in lagos. Thanks
Why not try sharwama business or spaghetti with vegetables the way its done at some spots around you
krebdawise: I lost my brother on Wednesday, he was just done with his project defence last week in AAUA... And he moved to my place in Akure on Monday, hoping to relocated soon.
We both sleep together and gist till 11pm, and suddenly he shouted from his sleep; before I could rush him to hospital, he was pronounced dead....
AquaPetals: My sister dated this guy for 6 years. They planned on getting married December. Both did blood tests yesterday and her fiancé turned out to be AS. She is AS as well. She was shocked because the guy initially told her he was AA. In fact she only agreed to sleep with him for the first time because he promised her marriage and when she inquired then about his genotype, he lied about it. Now he says his genotype must have changed. My sister is devastated right now. I told her to go ahead with the marriage and plan for adoption.
I just hope they will be able yo afford the cost of adoption ams still appreciate the child
Already the relationship is built on false hope from tjr guy
How arw we sure he won't deceive hee all through thw marriage
Left for me
They shouldn't go ahead that guy way is not pure
To avoid circumstances that your sister will be frustrated with the marriage
Alexxx2000: It's a long story but I will try to abridge it.
My mom raised I and my brother of 5yrs old single-handedly. There's a separation in the family so we're shuffling the deck. She's an hairstylist with meagre wages.
My dad was never part of the family. They both separated because of infidelity and harsh treatment. Since then, my dad, I guess erased our memories from his life.
I must confess, she's trying but the bills is weighing her down. My little brother was to start school last year but we couldn't pay for fees but after saving, we decided to put him in a cheap school close to the house.
Now, my mom want to stop us from bearing my father's name. She mandated me to change mine as well to her own dad's name.
Yesterday when I returned from the Pos attendant job I do, she brought the topic again and she said, nothing is holding her back on her decision.
Is she right for taking such decision? What will you advise me to do please?
Well, some families accepts children from their daughters and make them to be the same family's with them and have the same inheritance with the mother's family
Now the issue is, the rest of her siblings must consent to that, if her father is still alive good, he will be the one to do that by inviting all of his children and inform them about it
But if he is late, let the most senior give his consent, so that tomorrow they will not segregate you and your brother
StilmaVsBorn2w: This is so embarrassing to say, I would never advise a man to be so sluggish in life. It pains my heart having to experience this several times but since he is an elderly bro that senior me very far I can't put my mouth in his family affair because of this. I went to visit my brother yesterday was surprised while we were sitted in the parlour... the wife told his husband to go check if the woman selling provision is back. This wasn't the first time, my brother stood up and went..I was looking at her the whole time, she was looking at me.the anger was so deep but theys nothing I can do. They are different instances I can give but no need for that...All I just want to say it's not good to be that calm type of guy. This is not about being the bread winner of the house, my elder brother is doing very well for himself so his is wife. As a man it's just not good to be quite always or be quiet all the time.. gentlemanly.I just don't know how to say it. Guys what do you think?
Nlfpmod Mynd44
Your brother is not complaining
If he can't see anything wrong with that
Then let them be before his wife will start having family problems with you and yours
Ehis8: I am 17 years old, I am done with my secondary school, I stay with my grandparents in the village, Uromi Edo state. I started living with my grandparents since I was 8 years old around 2013 when my parents got separated. My father live in Abeokuta and he is married to another woman with 2 children. Although my father has been the one paying my school fees and sending me money for up-keep, he even told me to pick jamb form in order to further my education in uniben.
My mother live in Lagos, she has a daughter for another man but they were not married. The man took his daughter and kick my mother out his house. Now my mother is Single, she own a mini bar where she do her ashawo work. She sleeps with men that come to drink in her bar. Her house is just opposite the bar. No wonder my grandfather ban her from visiting us in village. 9 years I didn't set my eyes on my mother. So when my uncle visited us, I begged him to carry me to Lagos just to see my mother, I also begged my grandparents too. When I got to Lagos, My mother was looking like a slut. Long eye lashes, nails, chewing gum, tight leggings revealing her bum bum & hip, her skin looks bleached.
Since on Friday evening i came to Lagos I have been crying. She couldn't even respect herself. She have just 1 sales girl in her shop, the girl is also an ashawo, she dressed seductive like my mother, she would be in her early 20s. Anytime men comes around to drink and they want to have sex with my mother or her sales girl, my mother will jst take them to her house opposite the bar. I told her I will be going back to the village tomorrow, she gave me 25k but I rejected it. I was crying, she was crying too. She could sense that I hate her reckless lifestyle I am at my uncle's place now, I am so devastated, My heart is wounded. My uncle told me so many things but he said I should forgive her, a day will come that my mother will come looking for me by herself. I will be at iyare motor park tomorrow morning going back to the village
I just want to say sorry for witnessing nonsense from your mum
That's the life she has choosen to live and nothing will stop her except God
Meanwhile wipe your tears and move on with your life without her as she is a bad influence on you
Use her wayward life to build yourself so that you will be better than her and if she cimes to you in future don't chase her away but make sure she repents and devote her life for Christ
Buy first of all make sure sje doesn't come home with HIV AIDS
Wizzyonyxphoenix: I just want to know guys. Is there really any reason for this? Even though he was the one who got the phone for me, but shouldn't he still respect my privacy as an adult despite that? I'm just curious because when I challenged him about it this morning, he went berserk and almost broke my teeth. I'm just really concerned as to know whether or not I should have kept quiet and let him comfortably go through my private messages.
And no, I have absolutely nothing to hide. I just feel it's wrong, especially because he has a tendency to do it again, and because he has no iota of trust for me. I just need some clarification guys, to clear my conscience.
Thanks.
Just take it easy with him
He was just being protective, but am sure if both of you have a good relationship, it won't be an issue as you can be sharing things together
I bought phones for my children after high school
You know what they did, they pass word the phones so because they password the phone i dont touch it
When i want to touch it, they open it but already password the whatsapp and gallery
I just stop wanting to open their phones
My own is to keep advising them about life and the risk involved because of their young age
So in your own case, dont challenge him, get admission to school first then password it when you come he will observe that it was Locked
If he queries you, tell him your fellow students were using your data when it was not pass word so you have to guide your phone
Lady takes her android phone to computer village for repairs and returns back with an iphone given to her by the repairer
The lady identified as Funmi narrated the story in a now viral video which shocked viewers as others commented and narrated their computer village weird experiences.
Have you ever experienced such at computer village? Pls share your experiences below.
For an android phone to be replaced with an iPhone just like that
Its either its a stolen iPhone Packaged iPhone Problematic iPhone
Meanwhile they took away her good Android phone to resell
Their is no way you can cheat those guys in computer village
VeeVeeMyLuv: U guys should focus on making your man to always feel good at home, there are many simple and cost free creative ways to do that.
Instead of feeling insecure, fear of loosing him, suspecting him. These attitudes will always bring nothing but negative, toxic vibes that will chase him away.
Women have done their best to keep a man
Have you ever seen a hen feeling bad that the cock gies after other hens, No, that's why you see mother hen focusing more on her chick's
MaryAye: I met this guy where I normally get my fruits for biz. We got talking and exchanged contact.
He seems to be a nice guy but when I told him I had a son and narrated the circumstances behind his birth and my life, he told me he was cool with it.
Of lately, I noticed he talks ills of my son and assume it's a joke. I will try to shade it off but he repeated it again after the church service yesterday.
I'm considering giving him a chance because he's cool but his singular act of insulting and shouting at my son when he comes to my shop seem to disturb me.
Please, do you think his behaviour is a red flag or not?
That's not a supportive partner
Any man that can't tolerate your son is not in love with you dont get deceived
He actually came for your money as he has seen that you are a struggling woman
Just let him go by the time you dont allow him to have you he will go
Your child is all you have A man that will love you will accept your child with love and tender care
Toddler: 1-3 years. Preschooler: 3-5 years. School-aged: 5-12 years. Teenager: 13-18 years.
Is it necessary to start flogging toddlers?? I married a yoruba man And I noticed his sisters like flogging their kids including their toddlers. I'm not used to seeing little children being flogged not to talk of toddlers and I get this cringe feeling when I see it. Is it a cultural thing? Is that how the whole tribe Is like? Does flogging a child actually make him or her better Or is it not just child abuse I do feel somehow seeing people flogging 2yr old, 3yr old kids. I feel somehow. What do you guys think
Flogging was part of Those days
But with this present generation, counseling is the way out
I think you should just advise her but am sure, she is just pouring her anger on those little children
You may not know what she is going through that made the children to be the recipient
LalastiklaIa: What you wrote is truth and nothing but the truth. The only rare exception is when that sibling is under the control of the Holy Spirit and has the Love of God shed abroad in his heart in such a way that he takes no account of wrong done to him. But it is very rare
RedTarantula: My neighbour is confused now and needs advise. His wife wants wants to relocate from Nigeria but he does not want to and this is causing tension. Best advise to them is needed
I have nothing to say than she should get her visa first let me see who will stop her from going
If the suffering they are passing through in the country is not enough for the man let him remain here
If the wife sents money to him for the family let him reject it
daboy18: My little sister of 16 years came home with a iPhone 12 Pro max I asked her where did she get the phone from, she said it is her phone I asked her where did she get the money or who gave her the phone she said none of my business so I slapped her and seize her phone while I was waiting for my parents to come home. Only for my mum to cursed me so bad she told me I have no right to questions my sister about the phone and the day I will lay my hand on her again she will threw me out of the house my dad didn't say anything because he wear the wrapper my mum wear the trousers he just shooked his head and went inside the house. I am hurt by my mum words but I know one day i will make her happy and she will change her mind about me . did I do anything wrong for wanting to know where my sister who is a minor got the expensive phone from?
You did right to seize the phone but you shouldn't have slapped her
Your mum is taking sides with her and your dad has been in a helpless situation because of your mum
What you should do is to double your efforts and move on and stop watching your sister so that you wont receive curse from mum
Your last sentence spewed me to comment on this guys request post
Some people feels they are really entitled to get whatever they want from their sobbings not minding to knock the conditions such subbings are
Another important thing is Respect
Some people dont guve due respect to their senior subbings so instead of that senior to fight for your disrespect, he or she will wait fie when you need financial help
They will give you the value if money that measures the respect you give them
That amount will be so small to discourage you from demanding further financial help
Lets respect our senior siblings its not easy for them and it comes with double responsibilities
hamouston91: I noticed that most Nigerians feel so much achievement upon having a family member outside the country. I have seen Nigerians proudly declare the following (just an example tough) :
1. My uncle in Canada
2. My Aunty in UK
3. My Brother in the US
4. My son in Germany
5. My cousin in South Africa
6. My husband is in the United Arab Emirates
7. My daughter in Italy
8. My brother in Malaysia
9. My nephew in India
10. My brother sister uncle daughter son in Kuwait Etc. I observe a pride in each of these people, and I realized that it doesn't even matter which country the family resides in, for the homers, they always feel like they won a noble prize by having a family abroad. Some of these people have families in Indonesia, Malaysia, Israel, Libya, Kuwait, Honduras, Greece etc. And they puff with pride as if it's a life worth achievement. Others have families in the US, UK, Germany, Canada, France, South Africa, Australia etc, which is still note worthy.
But the Question is; why do most Nigerians count having a family abroad as a big achievement, and even make mockery of their fellow Nigerians who do not have a family member abroad. Or those who refuse to mention that they have families abroad?
Is it a Nigerian thing to behave like that, or is it a global thing, do other countries nationals behave like that?
Your opinion is the back bone of this thread. Thank you.
Its actually an achievement to send them abroad and boast of them being abroad
Their stay over there made life and living simple for them here
At least they send things to them and still make plans to take more over there
Nigerians react to a recent video shared online captioning the moment a Man trying to fly a locally made helicopter
Thankfully it didn't take off because this would have been disastrous. I am not saying he didn't try, but he should have added safety mechanisms to protect his life. Imagine if that thing had taken off, how will he land it?
Toreddo3679: Hey folks, not to waste time I'd have to jump straight to the issue. I really need an advice. My girlfriend has been staying with me since the start of the ASUU strike, before they embarked on the strike, I suggested that instead of going to stay ideal at home, she comes by my place in abuja. I helped get get a job in town which she doe's Mondays through Saturday's, she gets her off days on a Sunday. Issue now is, ever since she came, its been problems upon problems. At a point i started thinking of sending her out of my apartment but a friend of mine suggested that I don't do such, now at any disagreement, she holds my cloths and sometimes tear them, rains insult on me. This last one that happened was she leaving plates unwashed in the kitchen, which got me angry and I asked her to wash them before leaving for work, she paid deaf ears to me, then I stopped her and told her she won't go to work unless she do the washing, she said I should respect myself and get out of the way for her to pass. I stood my ground she then went back and sat down watching movie, when I went and switched off the TV, that was wen she started insulting me and started crying that I was treating her like trash, out of pity I allowed her leave for work, but left those plates in the kitchen till she got back and washed them, and since that day till now, she has stopped talking to me saying until ASUU calls off she'll continue to put up nonchalant behaviours. I really need ideas on how to handle this guys .
You actually brought this mess up you
You can only force her to go if you ask her to look for where to stay that your mum is visiting you, if she refuses dont argue with her, when she goes to work, pack her personal belongings and drop it in front of the door, lock your door amd leave
Go to a friend's house and stay there for the time being
If you can't do that, then allow her to stay with you until her school resumes
PasD: Pls nairaland o, I'm 21years old female I had to use my friend's account to type this for security reasons. So the man (52) met me at my place of work and said he wants to help me. He gave me money ones or twice then asked to change my phone. He said he was sent by God to me I was happy that those men still exist. Then he bought me an iphone about (152k).
Then he immediately started talked about marriage (he said he's divorced). Haaaaaaaaaaa he's to old for me and I refused relationship or marriage. Now he's asking me to give him back his phone.
I had to dash out the other phone I was using. Should I give him the phone or refuse?
#Pls be gentle with me
Accepting such expensive gift from him just like that means that you are ready to give in to his demands and requests
You already knows that he is too old for you but not too old yo give you a gift
You just have to return the gift especially if you know that he has not slept with you
Stop expecting gift from people it comes with a bait
Go and read about the story of a kano lady killed by her Chinese boyfriend and us it to guide yourself
Kologirl: So have been dating this guy for the past year now. At first I didn't really take the relationship seriously but with time I found him to be a sweet and caring guy The problem is his financial situation, I don't really mind it but he does. All his friends are into Yahoo and other fraudulent activities. They flaunt their wealth in his face all the time. They have gone as far as nicknaming him their house boy, I honestly Wonder why he still keep them as friends. I try to be supportive, sometime I give him money and advise but it's never enough. He works hard and he earns about 40k a month. But because of inflation it's as good as 5k I try my best to advice him that things will be better. He's even saving money to start a farming business. But he's not happy Mind you he's 22 I don't know what else to do, If I tell him to cut off his friends, it will look like I'm trying to control him. He really wants to go to school, he said he is going to write jamb next year but anytime he's around his friends, he feel sad.
I just feel hard work pays, and I try my best to work hard and support myself but he doesn't feel that way Please men in the house .... please advise me
How old are you trying to help a 22yrs old guy to be stable
Family › Re: Is It Right For My Dad To Go Through My Phone, Even Though I'm Eighteen? by frozen70(f): 2:35pm On Sep 21, 2022
Or is it not just child abuse