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kings59:
Birthdays are for kids. A matured being doesn't need to celebrate birthday. The true date you were born can never come back again.

Once you have crossed 18 years, forget birthdays.

Before some religious people quote me, Jesus' birthday is celebrated, but the actual practice is remembrance date.

It would be good to say birth-date.

Leave the innocent man alone. There are many expenses to take care of of which birthday is less important.




Just forgive him and move on.

nrexzy:
A very simple solution to the problem is lock your room door...

SpyAC:
U got no case here, as far as it is his house, he has 100% ryt, the only way to checkmate it is always lock ur door when inside wt ur husband or alone, let me ask, what's ur husband still doing living with his parent, abi them force u on him?

AmTruth:
If only some of them know the sacrifices some of our relations have made in contributing to whom they married, they would even prefer marrying them to us

Belafonte:
You’re not even the wife and you’re ready to burst an artery. How is the OP treated his first daughter better than the 2 year old?

If this topic furthers your opinion on the selfishness of men, God help whoever marries you.

RisenPhoenix:
It takes 5 minutes if everybody is ready to agree with the decision taken. It takes weeks, months or forever if they must reach a consensus before acting. If everyone is already in agreement with thr other's decisions, then there is no need for consultation, especially in issues that concern only one party. In this case, do you think the op's wife would have agreed if he had taken her opinion first? So this whole issue of consulting is academic. He is the man. He has the right to run the household as he sees fit. If she does not trust his capability to do so, then she had no right to agree to marry him.

As for informing after taking the decision, I am absolutely ok with that, and I presume that the op informed his wife. It was still better than letting her find out by herself, because knowing women, she will probably have started wondering what else he is 'hiding' from her and letting her imagination run haywire. But objectively speaking, just look at the outcome in this case. Telling her; whether before or after taking the decision; would have made no difference here. She would still have felt jealous and taken it out on the girl.

Vyolet:
Stop running and own up to the boss, look for a plan to pay back his money. You stole his money, stop justifying it with what you did with the money.
I don't even understand why you will marry on a private school salary. You had nine whole to plan, all you could come up with is stealing your boss's money.

RisenPhoenix:
@bolded. Explain this to the op's wife. She's the one who is trying to force and blackmail the op to put their son in the same school with his daughter and needlessly spend the extra money, or else...

Being on the same page does not necessarily translate into undergoing a lengthy bureaucratic procedure before decision making; especially when women think with their emotions. I am a better decision maker than my wife; hell, I make a living out of decision making. If I require her input in a decision that directly affects her I would always ask. However, this is hinged on the fact that she gives sensible reasons for her responses and advice; other than petty jealousy and other unproductive emotion. Once I suspect that the above two are her main decision making criteria, I will stop seeking her input.

RisenPhoenix:
Don't mind all these nay sayers. They are only thinking from a woman's perspective; illogically and competitively. Your decision is acceptable. It is not everything your wife says that you should rush to do. Nor do you have to consult her for every decision you plan to take to spend your own money.

The academic needs of a 9 year old about to enter secondary school are not the same as those of a 2 year old singing A B C. There is no point paying an extra N50K per term just to learn how to sing alphabet song and watch cartoons on tv. If your wife cannot understand that, and if she consequently starts victimizing your daughter, warn her off seriously. Let her know that if it comes to a choice, a wife is replaceable while your flesh-and-blood daughter can never be. Leave the younger one where he is until he NEEDS the new academic arrangement, not because your wife illogically feels the need to compete with a 9 year old girl, otherwise, your whole life will be forever ruled by a vindictive woman using the threat of victimization of a small girl to blackmail you.

Promotions:
lolzzz...the brother will say anything for little fun and second chance to feel young again

Mrperfecto:
Well in that case I know what to do. My daughter comes first she will stay and I will send my wife back to her parents

Promotions:
Wow this your story is something else..your anger management mechanism is poor (breaking head and throwing chair)..
I don't want to put blames on anyone but is the man finally divorced?...
You already have a baby don't hide her from her grannies, inform them about her that's the best you can do cos you can't hide it forever..you will be glad you told them cos the fear and burden will finally leave you.

Johnsonbet365:
Hello house
please pardon my errors

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sexylassie2:
Men going their own way to sexuality section, precisely ashawo section to download naked pics to masturbate to death

I would but he hasn't asked for it, so I'm assuming he's got a better option than my idea.

Shibaraba:
Should we tell her?

GboyegaD:
Decide what you want but remember if he has an ex and they are still sexually entangled, then take a cue of the kind of relationship you seek from his person and his thoughts about relationships.

But who tries to force himself on a lady particularly, one that he isn't committed to and vice versa?

NextD18:
Let's place a bet then. I show you, I'll give you a new signature to use and a picture to use as your dp for a month. If I don't, you give me the same.

Gamed?

thorpido:
Send the wife packing if she's cheating and you can't take it.Why take your life and make your children fatherless?Now they have to suffer for no fault of theirs.
Selfish man!

HacheNoire:
Some players don't do goals and you never feel their impact till they gone.

Check Alonso in Liverpool
A Makalele in Real Madrid
Mikel in Chelsea
Willian in Chelsea
Sergio Ramos of Madrid
Pique of Barcelona
Viera in Arsenal

And the list continues....

NextD18:
Lol. You are confused, I'm sure. You just tryna sound with authority like you've got a point.

NextD18:
Lol, madam fighter.

And why think we care about what you like?

NextD18:
You, my friend, should calm down.

Why making every shiit look like we are fighting

NextD18:
Another assumption.

drmikeadams:
. Think am well,,na so one of my niece go marry against family wish,e no reach one year hubby begin beat later send am packing wit em pikin,,,family take am back constantly reminding her "we warned u"

Mopolchi:
It happened to me at General Hospital, Gbagada.

delpee:
The problem is that there's shortage of blood in the blood bank. People in dire situations need to be given blood urgently but our society us not enlightened enough to understand that blood donation is healthy and a form of social responsibility/civic duty.

There must always be blood at hand for pregnant women who are due for delivery and surgical cases. Sometimes it's a life and death issue. I hope this will not lead to maternal deaths.

NextD18:
Just like you and your ilks assumes a lot about me.

skfa1:
I am currently going through the same right now. My parents says no. I'm not a happy man right now. Have spoken with her parents, she is still unable to speak with mine. Have prayed in several places and all they keep saying is,she will be a good mother to me and my unborn kids.

My parents reason: Her family was a former Muslim before converting to Christian.