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Haywhymido:
could dat be the same reason why women do av sex mates too?

Very valid question. Enjoyable sex is not for men alone.

Denvacandy:
Bros, i dont even talk about how much i make or tell them when i recieve credit alert, this my 2 brodas live far away from each other, infact we have not seen each others for close to 7months now.

Let me make this clear to you, you cannot hide money for long, people will notice you already have money.

When you dey fresh and change shoes cloth and even making crazy moves, how will they not know you already have money

I try as much as possible to hide it away from people that i have money but no.

Do you know the meaning of someone that has suffered and smells compare to when you see the person now and the smell of peff won make u hug the person? you see fresh shoes and cloths?

Shey hin go steal am ni?

If you can afford it, please move out to avoid familiar people monitoring you or trying to make you feel bad for making money. Sometimes, people may have to move away from our family and stay on our own to be sane.

Just send her monthly upkeep (probably reduce it and let's see what she has to say) and stop the buying things around. Let your family handle it as they have been doing as your imput is not appreciated.

Some people on the forum may try to make you feel spending your money on your family is showing off. They are just speaking from an elder brother's perspective because it makes them feel small. Just try to move out ASAP.

So between 2007 and 2021, your brother couldn't allow his family join him? He leaves his family here for over a decade and expects all to be well by just sending money? Did she marry the guy or money? Did he come back to visit at all? That is not marriage again. They should have just separated.

You did not mention if his brother had another wife/concubine/girlfriend in the UK that has been meeting his sexual needs all through those years. Or has he been celibate for over 10 years?

Yes, the woman should have exercised more restraint and behaved more responsible. But your brother brought it upon himself.

If she's travelling alone with the kids, it's more likely she will go to her own family where she feels more free. But it depends on how welcome and free she feels with her husband's family.

Besides, with husband's family, there might be too much expectations that she may not live up to, which they could use against her.

The most important thing is to enjoy the holidays and go to where you are most welcome.

Kobojunkie:
Because they are humans and humans tend to have preferences.

Yeah. But they need to be discreet and not show it. It does more harm than good to a child feeling that mummy or daddy doesn't love me as much as they do my sister/brother.

I don't think I've even eaten noodles in the past one year. Never seen that thing as food. I don't think I ever even served it to a guest before. So, noodles is already out forever. Rice...eba...absolutely love them.

adebayour26:
Don't reveal the criteria you will use in picking the winner.

And God bless you for this.
I know this 1k means a lot to people out there.

Apparently, a lot of people out there don't value 1k or think it is worth writing a story for. Some people's account are in debit or zero naira. Pay 1k into it and they can hardly withdraw it.

SiggyNG:
Update from

University of Nigeria (UNN), commonly referred to as UNN, is a federal university located in Nsukka, Enugu State, Nigeria. Founded by Nnamdi Azikiwe in 1955 and formally opened on 7 October 1960, the University of Nigeria has four campuses – Nsukka, Enugu and Ituku-Ozalla – located in Enugu State and one in Aba, Abia State, Nigeria.

The University of Nigeria (UNN) was the first full-fledged indigenous and first autonomous university in Nigeria, modelled upon the American educational system. It is the first land-grant university in Africa and one of the five elite universities in the country. The university has 15 Faculties and 102 academic departments. The University offers 82 undergraduate programs and 211 postgraduate programmes. The university celebrated its 60tth anniversary on October 2020.

These are lists of UNN-related matters that only Students from the institution will relate to :

1. Fight of the fittest during water scarcity :
[img]https:///wp-content/uploads/2021/11/no_water.jpg[/img]

2. How lawn tennis court looks like at few weeks to exam :
[img]https:///wp-content/uploads/2021/11/prayer-e1466597732600.jpg[/img]

3. When a female student sees Akionu approaching her
[img]https:///wp-content/uploads/2021/11/athlete-running-e1466606148358.jpg[/img]

4. Your network, as soon as you step into Abuja building. Just rest your case
[img]https:///wp-content/uploads/2021/11/no-service.jpg[/img]

5. How you felt when you first heard “Lions and Lionesses!”
[img]https:///wp-content/uploads/2021/11/lion-roar-e1466488598261.jpg[/img]

6. When you were still eating at Chitis in 100 level and you didn’t know how far
[img]https:///wp-content/uploads/2021/11/Child-eating.jpg[/img]

7. Your expression, whenever you hear “Okpa Di Oku” :
[img]https:///wp-content/uploads/2021/11/happy.jpg[/img]

8. When you go for night class at NSLT and you see people doing love instead of reading their books :
[img]https:///wp-content/uploads/2021/11/a-woman-taking-appetite-stimulants-with-water-1024x767.jpg?v=1637938282[/img]

9. The queue for Mama Ebuka’s Yam and Beans.
[img]https:///wp-content/uploads/2021/11/long-queues.jpg[/img]

10. How the Library look like during exam period
[img]https:///wp-content/uploads/2021/11/NIGERIA-CROWD1-660x330-1.jpg[/img]

11. Spending 4 years at UNN but you still don't know what SUB means
[img]https:///wp-content/uploads/2021/11/12859-gettyimagesfizkes-1024x535.jpg?v=1637938445[/img]

12. Parties every week at Kenan Lodge and Grace Manor
[img]https:///wp-content/uploads/2021/11/istockphoto-504710956-612x612-1.jpg[/img]

13. When they postpone GS and CEDR again
[img]https:///wp-content/uploads/2021/11/CryingMan.jpeg[/img]


UNN Students in the house, which of them can you relate to?

For other students, which school do you want me to recreate this for? Leave your comments below

https:///13-things-only-unn-students-will-relate-to-photo-illustrations/

Recreate for University of Ibadan

ifytrik:
So a friend of mine who is based in Lagos state called me few weeks back and was telling about how he is earning 225$ per week working for a foreign company in Lagos, I converted the money to naira and it was almost 130thousand naira per week

I asked him if there is vacancy in the company so I will apply and he said he will do something about it, he called me yesterday and said there is vacant for two workers and he has already collected one form for me, he said I should prepare myself make sure i come over to lagos between today (Friday 26th Nov 2021) to(Monday 29th Nov 2021)

He said the registration fee is 450thound naira, and I must come with the money, he also said if I fail to come before or on Tuesday morning next week then they will give the job to someone else.

Nairalanders based in Lagos state please help a brother, I don't want to be scammed, do you know of such company? Could this be real or another mmm?

Ask questions first and do your research. One of my sister's staff was scammed by his own blood brother. The brother said there was a job in Benin Republic but he had to pay 2,000usd. The guy resigned from his job here and went to Benin Rep.

He was still in contact with my sister and giving her updates. It ended up being a scam...network marketing (all those bring 2 people tins). So his brother brought him as one of his 2 people.

Luckily, he got his money back and came back to the job he left.

Loreettaa:
And some men can avoid you for being too beautiful too. It can be a plus or a minus sometimes.

It brings lots of gifts, attention, help and many more. Mine brought me lots of male friends (I hated my gender drama) plus I was into sports.

I was almost married off by my volleyball coach during NYSC . And it also brought a lot of older suitors.

BlueRayDick:
I don’t think we we have so much atheists like that in Nigeria( by atheists i mean people who actually don’t believe in the existence of God/the supreme being) , rather what we have in Nigeria is a growing case of people that have stopped going to church or mosque because they’ve grown tired of it and have seen the hypocrisy of some of the proponents of the two major religions.

Nigerians (especially the youth ) are just not interested in what pastors and Islamic clerics have to say.

That's why I'm interested in knowing the age range of these so called atheists in Nigeria

JungleJustice01:
I've been thinking strongly of relocating these past couple years and I've made up mind I'm going for it in 2022.

I'm awaiting my IELTS result already and will redo if needed.

A little bio
31 years with about 8 years professional experience in Agric, top tier companies, married with 1 child and expecting one by June next year. I'll be able to come up with #5million for this project.

3 options on my mind.

1. Canada skilled migration
2. Australian skilled migration
3. Post graduate in Germany.

I've breezed through their pages but there's so much information to consume and so right now, I want to make a reasonable choice I can follow through to the end.

Which option do I have/has the best prospects for me please. I've thought of USA post graduate but the tuitions are just too high.

Thanks

There are schools in the US that offer up to full scholarships if you have a good GRE score. Get a good score, write a great personal statement and anticipate. Plus the US has many job opportunities.

Germany is ok too, though you have to learn the language.

"Mummy I can't hear your voice telling the baby sorry. Say sorry!"

"Mummy you didn't say thank you. I have told you this before"

"Mummy uncle Booboo (her dad) is calling you"

Everyday is drama.

Even your friend will tell you to move to Germany if he's sincere. It's a far better opportunity.

Take it easy so that you are not a stressed bride. Try to get your friend to help you with some things that don't need your presence.

In my case, my sisters were very helpful, they practically followed me everywhere and made it fun. Besides, they were helping subsidize expenses. One took care of the makeup artist, one paid for catering, while one cooked a special dish for the trad.

So it depends on your family and support. Stick to your budget. If your family wants some extra, let them pay for it.

MHBNeiman:
Let's us continue to lament instead of hitting the streets to protest. Pray to God? God has already given us brains to decide who will rule us but we don't use it.

What street are you on? Let me come and join you to protest.

Tied fallopian tube is an option. Just make sure you seek advice from a medical practitioner.

There must be a solution. Does the bank want to keep the money that is not theirs? Probably get a lawyer and start from there.

1Sharon:
I got it from This thread

https://www.nairaland.com/4492719/dont-wear-anything-bed-nigerian

Meanwhile the men on that thread didn't even get it

1Sharon:
soon as your wife starts cheating, just know there's something that you are not doing, go down on your knees and pray, don't let another man break your home. Always appear neat the way you were the very first time you approached her and don't yell at her all the time, show her care and love so that she will not look outside, sometimes walk around naked and don't wear anything to bed, always try to catch her attention. Thanks and God bless you as you do so.

This sarcasm is crazy!

FutureIsFemale:
And a thread was created about how unfaithful women are.

What would we call this now?

We'll call it "men are polygamous in nature "

damiBJ:
This is the exact words that u should have made.... Not saying the op should mind his business...
We should all condemn the act... It's so terrible this days.. Homes are been broken bcoz of this way of life...
Sorry for those insults.
#apologies.

Please keep your apology to yourself.

Guys who are quick to label ladies as whores at the slightest opportunity do not deserve any respect.

How I choose to comment is my business, how you choose to interpret it is your own business.

seunmsg:

OP don mad.

Instead of advocating for Magun, let’s de-emphasize marriage. Marriage is a trap that does both parties no good. They are just trapped there in sadness.

People who are attracted to each other should be able to do whatever they wish without the guilt of marriage. Infidelity in marriage will continue to grow until we all agree to end the damned institution.

How do you know that married people are trapped in sadness? Are you trapped in sadness?

People who want to keep getting attracted to other people and do whatever they wish, should not get married.

Marriage is a covenant, it's not an institution that people just wake up and jump into. And it is for mature minds.

prophetfire:
Bringing it here has once again reminded the adulterers and the intending adulterers that they risk a chance of death via magun.
And being bold to call evil the evil that it is, goes a long way to give strength to those societal values instead of making it look as if those evils are now acceptable.
You know why the adulterers and runs girls don't want people to talk about it? It's because talking about it pricks their conscience and reminds them how vile they are, instead of keeping quiet and making them feel that they are now acceptable to normal society.
And as for judging them, we will continue to judge the evil and the immoral because we love their souls and want them to stop and change. The Bible says " Tell the wicked that it shall not go well with him". If people keep quiet, the evil and the adulterers would believe that what they are doing is alright.
If he can't tell them to their faces, the ones on this platform at least would read and be reminded that there are consequences for such degrading lifestyle, here and in eternity.

That is good.

I just wish the op and you guys also put in the same effort in calling cheating husbands out, instead of "keeping quiet and making them feel that they are now acceptable to normal society". At least the Bible says "But it shall not go well with wicked..." Eccl 8:13

So let's keep up the same energy brother.

prophetfire:
Bringing it here has once again reminded the adulterers and the intending adulterers that they risk a chance of death via magun.
And being bold to call evil the evil that it is, goes a long way to give strength to those societal values instead of making it look as if those evils are now acceptable.
You know why the adulterers and runs girls don't want people to talk about it? It's because talking about it pricks their conscience and reminds them how vile they are, instead of keeping quiet and making them feel that they are now acceptable to normal society.
And as for judging them, we will continue to judge the evil and the immoral because we love their souls and want them to stop and change. The Bible says " Tell the wicked that it shall not go well with him". If people keep quiet, the evil and the adulterers would believe that what they are doing is alright.
If he can't tell them to their faces, the ones on this platform at least would read and be reminded that there are consequences for such degrading lifestyle, here and in eternity.

Ok

damiBJ:
Painful I guess!! Olosho..
And I mean it... God will punish u.
Idait

Kid keep wailing and cursing your mumsy.

damiBJ:
Olosho...go e pain her again.
Stupid girl supporting rubbish.
God will surely punish u.
Idiat

Little boy keep raining curses on your mother. As you refused to have sense to understand a simple comment. You are here reacting like a worm that they poured salt on . Chai!

Guy be spiritual

Sorry I'm laughing at your problem. It just made my night.

Since she's the spiritual type, report her to your spiritual leader, let he/she talk some sense into her to understand that there's time for everything.

damiBJ:
Olosho...e pain her.
Idiat

When your mum is an olosho, you see every other lady as one. It's understandable and I can't blame you.

And every insult you hurl at me is going back to your mother.

prophetfire:
Chai!! The way our society is defending corruption, evil and sexual immorality is deafening. Anyway traders will always defend their trade.

Defending corruption? What has bringing it here achieved? Had it made the cheating women know that they are very wrong?

There's nothing he can do if he cannot walk up to them to challenge them. So, minding his business will do him good. You guys are so quick to judge.

damiBJ:
Olosho

Please don't allow your mother's effort of bringing you up be in vain. Have small sense to reason like someone with a brain.

Those young people that don't make money don't know how to use things prudently. They abuse the use of food, especially provisions in the house.

I understand it perfectly. I have nephews that are like drums. As long as they are in the house, you can't see bread, biscuits, etc lying idly. They massacre everything, even baby milk, baby cereal, etc. And it can be very annoying when you open the tin of milk to use and it's all.gone.

The best thing to do is to give her own portion of milk, beverage, etc to her, whether a tin or more for the month and lock up the others you and your wife use. Let her know that she is to manage it for the month.

As per house work, she should be mandated to do some chores to assist since that's why she came. You guys need to remove sentiments and work around it.