₦airaland Forum

Haakeem:
Didn't u read the place that i wrote hustle is not paying? The time i promised them was the time i had enough,i neverexpected there would be a time like this...on GOD i shall bounce back again and invest wisely....

Let them know what's up now. Focus on getting back on track and forget promises made. They will be fine.

Some people are looking for money for food that they will eat. You are looking for money to buy gifts for people.

And they are quick to address one as "sir" "ma" even if they are obviously older.

Haakeem:
its still disgracing me one wey or the other uptill now,but weting man go do? Na to double hustle be that.....always remember to hustle legit.

PLS read this, I would probably like to travel
back to my hometown this week where
almost my family members are christians,
you no how it feels if you go empty
handed,especially as christmas is near,i need
at total sum of 13k to add up to the 7k i
already budget for the visit,got a lot of
sibling/cosins i promised to buy christmas
gifts(christmas clothe,shoes....etc.) for and
they,and if hopefully someone should show
me luv, i would fufill my promise,because i
know if i don't,they would be heartbroken
and would be left out with nothing to
celebrate this coming christmas. Hustle no
pay me walai,i for nor come they beg
online... On GOD sha.. I would be greatfull if
anyone should help me.
2396735085
Zenith Bank

You don't promise people what you don't have. Let all these cousins, siblings, etc know the situation so that they don't depend on you. You want to keep up appearances with money that you are soliciting for online.

When you have the money, you can promise heaven and earth. But right now, stay put where you are.

Romanoff:
There is nothing wrong with her taking gift from a guy if she's just friends with him. What is fishy is why she had to delete the messages and even lie.

Exactly! It's the fact that she has to hide it. Nothing wrong with someone giving her a gift. Are all her friends supposed to be same sex?

What is the relationship between your mum and your wife? Maybe the situation was heightened with your mum coming for omugwo. Nevertheless, your wife should have controlled and conducted herself better.

Generally, the woman's mum should be the one to come for omugwo. E get why. It doesn't mean the husband's mum cannot be there too.

January indeed. Why not now? By January the story would have changed and money would have changed hands.

envoymedia:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CXnMammNYQP/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

You people have already seen 27th December.

That woman is evil and heartless. I can't even imagine to believe that a human being did that to a baby,xand just because of a debt! God forbid.

That would be an issue if she's nice to me and treats me as she would her daughter.

If she's troublesome, I'll love her from far.

Wow! My former neighbours. Congrats to them

Send her back to her parents, let her go and misbehave there. So that they can punish her the way they deem fit.

By the way what is "cousin sister?" It seems to be the new trend on Nairaland. It is either "cousin" or "sister".

Asquare84:
How can someone have 8 million in his account and still be thinking of going to another man country to go and be a slave. I will advise you to stay in nigeria and grow your ballance.

Money no longer has value in Nigeria and it's getting worse. Basic things like food that's supposed to be cheap are expensive. I won't blame the op for wanting to go to a country that is working.

That I was dating my branch manager (when I was working in the bank). Got to realize that the whole branch carried the rumour.

devilmaycry:
Milf confirmed !!!
54 and still hot/banging...

Grandma to be too....she ain't a Nigerian for sure

Akwaibom woman for that matter

You haven't even married her yet and you are already cheating and bringing baby mama drama.

Allow your ex-girlfriend move on and focus on your new family. You wanted to have your cake and eat it but it backfired.

Doing all those things don't guarantee anything, so why bother?

DubaiLandLord1:
Who send her go open yansh for FFK

Why? Because he's rich? Would it have been better if it was a poor man?

efficiencie:
Lol. Keep displaying your foolishness. Your foolishness has utterly blinded you to the core points of my post. I am not surprised. Your husband will call you to order one day and you will reply him by slapping him. Perhaps when this happens you will come here to tell us how it went.

Sending love to your wife. She really needs it. I can't begin to imagine her situation. It's ok for you to run your mouth like a leaking tap here, but please take it easy on her. Husband.

efficiencie:
Come and beat me na...as I already have and my wife believes in everything I put up there. So if you feel pained come and beat me. Mumu. Fools like you cannot keep a boyfriend let alone a husband and when they finally hook an unfortunate man it's either the man removes 30% of their teeth or they use kayanmata on the man - turn the man to mumu like them! If you like don't repent, na your life dey outside so ohh!

Wow! Just seeing all that you spilled up there, I have to send my love to your wife.

Is this what she goes through from you? Verbal abuse and emotional blackmail? Do you beat her too? This is really sad. Such venom and bitterness coming from one man.

sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.

He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.

I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.


My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband?

First apologize to him for the slap. Then, I think you should call a mature family member in front of your husband and report yourself. While reporting yourself, tell the person your husband's reaction and your fears about what he might do.

At least that should kill any evil plan if there is any.

dvkot:
you didn't even say she needs to apologize nawao for your way if reasons. If its the man heaven would have fall

Has he apologized for all the verbal and emotional abuse?

efficiencie:
You are likely right. If he has stopped having sex with you then he is most likely already in the process of planning to hurt you badly. First, if all you said about him is true then I wonder where you kept your brain when he was proposing to wed you. Second, if you can slap your husband then I can guess that you are the person provoking your husbands attitude towards you. You are not submissive to your husband. By your own admission, your husband cares for the kids, does his obligations to you financially and before now performs his duties as a lover. Your husband is likely in the top 10% of men globally who don't fool around but your insubordination has provoked his domineering stance towards you. If this is the case you need to swallow your mumu pride and beg him for forgiveness. Beg him to forgive your insubordination and if his behavior does not change within a week, confess all that happened to your parents/pastor/counsellor and ask them to plead on your behalf. Lastly, you will gain nothing from contending with your husband. If you wanted a sparing partner you should have remained single. A real man that believes in protecting, providing, sacrificing and leading his home is the last person you want to fight because it takes an amount of violence in men to be able to protect, provide, sacrifice and lead. You don't want to confront that part of him. Instead of contending with your husband be the woman and conquer on your knees. From my observation of good men, they are easily confused by a submissive wife. Submission makes a real man weak and vulnerable and that is why wise men are wary of those who seek to please them!

Don't carry this nonsense mentality into marriage.

And if you already have, repent!

New recruit syndrome.

crackhaus:
This...

These are really the best women to be with as regards this issue of beauty.

There's something very attractive about a woman who doesn't realize how beautiful she looks especially when she's not putting in too much effort.

First time I'd like your comment. It lacks your usual you.

socialmediaman:
Have you personally experienced marriage to a beautiful lady? Why do you think you’re in a position to advise people?

Someone that is probably in SS1.

Please don't even reason suicide. Who do you want to leave the kids for? You want them to grow up knowing that their dad was a coward?

I feel you knew what to do but you still went against it your better judgement. You just have to make better decisions for you and the kids.

Eletididi:
I should dey my day till when exactly?

Till now that she has run away and left you with the kids...

Hmmm...snake thread is now under food section. It is well.

Explorers always with interesting content.

Sanmel:
I have worked in several establishment and one common thing colleagues can say about me wherever is that "I get to work late".. I feel bad about this though and I've done my best to stop but it ain't working.
Even when I try to leave home early, something must sha happen that will make me get to work late.
I'm beginning to think it's not ordinary. What should I do?

It's because you are not in a company that has zero tolerance for lateness. If they are deducting 1k everyday you go late, all these excuses will.melt away. You will be the one to wake up the security man every morning.

But because they are condoning it, you think it's a spiritual problem. Continue

MBA. CIPM is really nothing compared to an MBA. Besides I don't have CIPM and I have been working in HR. And jobs they post for HR hardly has CIPM as a requirement.