₦airaland Forum

No one is talking about how a woman will have two kids for a man whose family and relatives she doesn't know, and who she's not married to.
I no pity your condition one bit.

That your husband sef... How were you able to convince him to marry you? You said somewhere that you foot 70% of the bills, I think that's why he married you. I mean, wtf?
You foot 70% of the bills and you can't get your husband to accept your 12years old boy into his house.

Asin, e get wetin you never tell us.
Because something is not adding up.

Saintmary:
Very simple, travel to your brother's place, pick up your son, bring him home.
If your husband is a sensible man, he will only leave your child's upkeep to you without raising hell. Good luck.

Wait, what?
What did you just type?

I like the fact you didn't reveal the name of the church for these fools to start comparing which church or daddy GO is better than the other.

Same thing with short women.
I fvcking dislike them.

They are a complete turn off

Watch out how guys will attack him simply because they are looking for likes and comments from the females even though deep down, they know he has a point.

What I know is that the day your wife begins to have a financial edge over you, you're finished in that marriage. You will automatically turn to the woman. Yes, women should have something to support themselves but not something that will give them financial edge over the man.

God knows I will never allow that happen. I will double and tripple my hustle. And if I'm still not having a financial edge over her, then there's going to be some serious problems in that marriage. One way or the other, that marriage might crash cos I won't stop her from being successful, so I rather let her go. I like my ego, I really do.

Except of course her meekness is simply out of this world, which we all know modern girls lack.
Civilization, education and financial freedom for modern women means trying to be the man.

My girlfriend, fiancee or wife will never, ever have a financial edge over me.

I like my ego
I like being in charge
I like to dominate the woman

Because that's how nature made it.

Acidosis:
Actually, the one above instituted the idea of one man for one woman. Logically speaking, humans are meant to sleep around, same way dogs and other animals hop from one d+vk to another without worrying about adultery. Man coined the word "cheating" based on the idea of the one above.

He instituted one man one wife, yet hundreds of those close to his heart married several women and concubines. And they're seated at his right hand side.

Please don't mention me again cos you just sound so ...... with this your comment. You for just lock up

It depends.

If they know you are doing ok financially or business wise and can afford a house of your own but only staying due to one or two reasons, you're good to go. In fact they'll be happy to host you.

But if they know you're broke and struggling to have a roof over your head, "you don cast be that"

So which one you de?

Going by the comments, most of the people that managed to stay faithful didn't stay faithful because it was the right thing to do or because they were disciplined.

They simply did that because they think one big guy is watching over them from above.

When can we as a people do the right thing without thinking somebody is watching us?

Nawa

Women be maltreating themselves since the days of menstruation

It is no longer unprotected but unplanned sex?

Wetin I no go see for Nairaland

Foolishness and stupidity is when you're from the south but are more interested in what's happening in Kano even more than those from Kano Municipal Local Government Area of Kano State.

For God's sake how does Sanusi's dethronement affect the southerners?

Sanusi this, Ganduje that.
How e take affect you?

How does his enthronement or dethronement help you as a southerner or even none indigene of Kano state?

Ok, he's always talking about the ills in the core north and so fvcking what? Is he the first to do that? You think aboki people don't know their problems? Islam is not like Christianity where one pastor will go and bring his own version of the Bible just to pass a particular message to his sheeples. Islam is conservative. It doesn't matter what Sanusi say, what matters is what the Quran and the hadith say.

Southerners, stop poking into the affairs of the North, face your problems. This is not a national issue, it's a state issue and only Kano indigenes should be interested.

As for the wailers that don't want to move on from 2015. Celebrate his dethronement all you like, Goodluck isn't coming back, deal with it!

Having said that

Fvck Sanusi
Fvck Ganduje
Fvck Bubu
Fvck Goodluck


Again, leave aboki to sort themselves out please.

Personally, I won't break up with you. I will respect your decision to remain chaste.

But I will definitely have a side chick to cool off with. Sex should never be a problem in a relationship, only marriage.

heartbraker:
I dey codedly envy d guy, everything about him is too cute, jelly hair, so cute no beard face, the stature, the voice, everything about him.

If him no get bears then nothing to cute about him

It has always been about the money for most Africans, not the will to serve humanity.

9ja is the real comedy Central.

I mean, wtf is this?

I'm so disappointed in this judgement, not because I'm from Bayelsa or APC supporter, but because the people's mandate has been stolen.

People weh don run go join APC go still run come back PDP, and the cycle continues.

What sort of a country is this for God's sake?

Hahahaha

If you had posted this on romance section, those frustrated boys would have bashed your slim ego with insults.

My advice....

Calm down, take a deep breath and clear your mind. You can choose to delete or keep her number. But whatever you choose to do, never call her again.. B!tch is not interested.

I don't know how mature she is but I think she's currently in a relationship with one boy. By the time he's done fvcking the witches out of her, she'll remember the guy she walked out on at a program.


Last last, you go take her back

The problem with some people is that they are yet to come to terms with reality of happenings in Nigeria. Did you just come back to Nigeria or what? We don't follow due process here.

What you should have done was to pretend as if you're not enjoying light until someone comes to knock on your door. While doing that, just prepare your mind to move away from the house once your rent expires.

But nope, you want to form patriotic citizen. Now see where your patriotism has led you?
This is a typical case of "ysnga de sleep, trouble go wake am."

Well, you have three options

1. Move away from the house
2. Continue using your generator
3. Go and clear the debt.

Next time, you'll learn to let the sleeping dog lie.

Oga OP, in this context, "ba mwa so" means "we don't want you," not "we don't like it."

K

Before nkor?

Who no like better thing?

Ok

K

None of the above.

I can't be married to more than one woman at a time and I don't want my children to be products of broken home (cos I'm not one).

A mistress or mistresses would be ok.

lanibi:
Wow
I feel bad for the woman who will get married to you.
What a mentality.

It might even be you, who knows?
Except of course you're already married but if not....

So will you now feel bad for yourself?

Annonymity and gender war.


You're looking for misogynists and misandrists?
They are right here!

Amala.