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People want to vote along ethno-religious line.

Ask Katsina people what they gained from Buhari---the same pain and suffering.

Ask muslims what they gained from Buhari--the same pain and suffering.

The good news is that those that vote along ethno-religious line still succumb to the law of Natural Selection---the survival of the fittest because they have no advantage over the rest of the masses. It is more like cutting off the head to spite the nose.

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lovediehatelive:
In the past, what we hear about is people fainting, and after pouring them water, they wake up. Fainting then was so rare.

I remember back then someone was motivating students in a tertiary institution that they shouldn't give up, even if school is hard, there's no way they can just slump and die.

That was many years ago, But can he say that today?


Today, someone will just go to the kitchen to cook, next thing is slump and die.

Someone will go to bath, next thing is slump and die;

Someone will be walking, next thing is slump and die;

Someone will be on the pulpit preaching, next thing is slump and die;

Someone will be jogging, next thing is slump and die;

Someone will be playing football, next thing is slump and die.

There are many other scenarios that calls for concern.

This wasn't like this in the past.

What is wrong?

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Underlying undiagnosed conditions aggravated by STRESS.

The level of stress in Nigeria is horrifying.

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Why would any sane person retire the IGP at only 60 years old while advocating that a 79-years old Tinubu to be employed into Government?

It doesn't make sense. The IGP should remain in office until the fat lady sings.

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Any male who gets friendzoned, remains friendzoned deserves to be friendzoned in the first place

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lhordspy:
Maybe you should also point out the place where she said: "My husband should be boothed out of ASO rock, if elected president and fail to perform'

Words of a true democrat. Before you start criticising her, just know she is more of a christian than you are. An ordained pastor at one of the biggest church in Africa.

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So at your age you never hear say no be to give water to monkey be problem, na to collect the cup after wahala dey.

Buhari wey no perform, how una comot am?

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Final final everyone will become a victim of woke and "cancel culture". Anything that is deemed offensive in appearance, word or action to anyone or any set of activists will be banned. All it takes is for just one person to complain that it is offensive and that s/he is triggered.

Enjoy your freedom.

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MrPRevailer:
Banilla

The righteous will have a glorious body.

Philippians 3:21 Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.

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Just like the rest of us, you don't know.

You are relying on a supposed letter written to the Philippians by another human to buttress your ignorance.

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How do you shame people into giving?

Imagine the twisted sense of entitlement.

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sqlPAIN:
This mentality is mostly common among Nigerian guys and honesty it's disgusting mentality to me...

I was watching a prank video on YouTube where a guy pretended to be an ice cream selling and tried to asked some girls out to see if anyone would give him a chance. Only about 2 girls out if like 12 he approached gave him their number. What I noticed in the comments section were comments of guys saying the two girls who gave him their number were real women and that the others were fake. I've seen a lot of guys even on nairaland here with such stuupidd mentality. Ask yourself this question, if you were an ice cream seller or a broke or poor man, Shey you go date yourself if you be woman ni?

If I find myself in such situations as a guy man, going into a relationship would not even cross my mind, not to talk of being the last thing on my mind. My biggest priority would be to hussle. Hussle and more hussle till I make enough to get myself a better life...

Abeg make una stop dey castigate women for wanting the best, it's human to want the best things and it's logical.

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When women choose rich guys only, who stands to lose? Poor guys.

With Nigeria being the poverty capital of the world with a prevailing high number of unemployment, isn't normal to
expect the poor guys to lash out because they don't possess the requisite resources to compete?

The least the ladies can do is allow them the privilege to whine and complain endlessly. They are not hurting anyone.

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kay29000:
I want to know if energy drinks like Climax, Redbull, Fearless are really that bad. I was advised to reduce my alcohol intake last year April after a serious Ulcer incidence, so I decided to give up alcohol. I haven't taken alcohol since then, but occasionally, I take Climax or Redbull energy drink when I hang out with friends. So, yesterday, when I wanted to order for Climax, this guy seated next to me (a friend of a friend), started talking about how bad energy drinks were. He advised I take juice instead, or Malt. Mind you, this guy was taken raw liquor.

I'm very antisocial, and an introvert. Alcohol always set me in the right mood back in the day, but now that I don't take it, I really don't like how I am when everyone else around me is in high spirit, from taken alcohol, so I decided to take energy drinks once in a while...like just one a week. But I've been hearing about how bad they are. How bad are they really, if one takes just a can a week?

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Energy drink is equally as bad if not worse than alcohol. This is not about ulcer or upset stomach. What they do to your liver should be of utmost concern. Liver cirrhosis? Hepatomegaly?

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The Bible tells us that heaven is a place with mansions and roads paved with gold. Why would a spirit want to live in a mansion with physical structures paved with gold?

The translation of the Bible from Greek to Latin to English really distorted the whole message. If you read the original Latin version of the Bible, you will be distraught at the level of misinformation lost in translation. Eg. Lucifer was used interchangeably with Christ. But the English translation totally ascribed Lucifer to Satan. Go figure!

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saintkel:
All dis atheist above.....u guys will always complain about christianity yet u can't stop complaining about pages dedicated to Christians.....d problem of d world is not d religion christianity.....

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Atheism is the lack of belief in God or gods.

So someone who believes in any God but not necessarily the Christian God is not an atheist.

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Tombrown3:
I've had countless girls send me their nudes on WhatsApp, and some of these girls are considered "good girls" outside social media, which brings me to this question.

Is it advisable to have a serious commitment as marriage with any of these girls?

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The first time is always the most difficult.
Whatever she sent to you, she must have sent it to others before or after the encounter with you.

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Kayberg:
Even a 12 years old will not be 'termed dumb' at this age of the world.

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I am sure in your class of 50 students, someone came last. Now imagine that person with access to phone and data.

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EricSmallz:
I was watching a video on Facebook about some of the richest Princes in those Arab Contries, Especially the UAE region. I did my little research, I didn't get satisfactory Explanation.
I know even King's all over the World are usually very rich.

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They are rich because they are not blacks.

If they are blacks, they will self-sabotage and continue to tear one another down to appease foreigners. Isn't that what Africans and descendants of Africans do?

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Kayberg:
And such is a wicked woman.
If she had done that in the past before she got married, it would have been buried in the past.

But for a wife to do that to her husband is pure wickedness.
I do not believe in the Simpleton or Alpha Male thing, but that woman there is free to go live her life far away from me if I were her husband.

What kind of generation of marriage are you trying to build with this comment of yours?
A generation of infidels who have no regards for the oath of marriage?

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How old do you think she is?
She could be a small girl in SS1 with a phone...and you are wasting your energy.
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I don't know why they keep advising people.

Many died in 2022 and many will still die in 2023.

Life is about the survival of the fittest.

They voted for Buhari and lived (are still living) with the consequences.

They can vote in a tree for all I care. Na all man to himself. The people I feel sad for are the ones who mean well but have no means to escape. But for the other sufferheads, who knows? Perhaps suffering and poverty are in their destiny.

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DaBogu:
I am going to share my experience as a recruiter, hiring executive assistants for several clients. Some may not like what I have to say, but I can only speak my truth.

Do we have a major youth unemployment problem in Nigeria,yes we do. While there is a challenge of not enough positions aligned with educated youths, as a recruiter I have seen there is a portion of the youth that is not serious about employment. Almost a sense of entitlement.

Many Nigerian youths have access to data and social media. That is how people find me and apply to jobs. I would think during your idle time, you would take time and teach yourself new skills and level up. Unfortunately this is not the case for many candidates I interview.

Let's say I have 10 candidates that I want to interview. Only 5 of them will respond to my initial interview. The other 5 candidates never respond.

Out of the 5 candidates that respond to my email, only three of them will be able to demonstrate knowledge of excel and PowerPoint.

Once I meet them in person, two candidates will call me the day of the interview with one long story basically saying they can not come to the interview, and only one candidate will actually be ready to present to a candidate.

After going to this process over and over again, I have started to ask myself is it worth it? I want to help more Nigerians get jobs, but it's clear to me overall we are not serious.
ver 400 resumes I have for EA positions, only 50 resumes have been presentable to clients.

Nigerian youths if there is not anything else you get out of my message, you need to level up. The Nigerian education system is not preparing you for the workforce. Start teaching yourself basic etiquette of how to apply for a job and the interview process.

Stop sending emails with no subject title or body in the email. Then you attach your resume and expecting a positive response.

Stop embellishing your resume, only to find your are not anything close to what your resume presents.

Do not put a number on a resume that will be hard for a recruiter to reach you.

And finally, if you applied to a position you should be in your inbox more than social media. I can not tell you how many times I get an email from a candidate a week later saying they are just now seeing my email.
This is the cold hard truth. As much as I want to help Nigerian youths. Many of us are not prepared for employment.

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Good observations.

But if the recruiters themselves are subjected to scrutiny, how many will make it? Some recruiters passed through the same process of nepotism or payment-for-employment. Generally there is a dearth of professionalism in Nigeria and that's what is being reflected in the general population. I believe that sometimes it is good not to be too rigid to the dictates of textbooks. Someone else wrote those books with certain business cultures in mind that has no local content.

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I really think that you should marry.

Then come back after a year to update the story so that others can learn from your mistakes.

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Banilla:
Mods, take this to the front page. Thank you.

Hi everyone! I have a boyfriend, we've been together for a year. I absolutely love him, he's my whole world! And that's the reason I'm pressuring him to save, if we're going to have a future together. And he's down for it, he makes nothing less than 200k monthly. I'm still a student, searching for a decent job. I can't invest sh** presently but I hope to start soon. Yesterday, I brought it up. I want him to send money monthly to my bank account, no matter how little. I'll save it for him. He's hesitating. He said I should be patient, he'll give me everything I need but he wants more time. I don't want to ruin our relationship but I need his co-operation. I'm scared he might leave me, after I've given him the best years of my life. I subtly threatened him that my family would force me to marry a Nigerian but he made a joke out of it, saying I would never, that I'm his...

What should I do?

NB: I've never taken a dime from him. He drinks often and I don't want him spending 'our future' on alcohol! I'm way better at saving.

I'm worried if I press the subject, he'll get mad at me.

I also told him I want to leave Nigeria, he thinks it's a good idea and I also told him I can't afford it alone. He said he needs time.

Doesn't he love me? Should I let it go? Or insist we resolve this?

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. What if you take the money and japa?

Or you guys broke up and you hold his money hostage?


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hammerT:
WITH THIS LEVEL OF JEALOUSY, MAKE I NO CATCH YOU TOMORROW WITH SKIRT LIKE BOBRISKY.

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Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.

Go ahead hammerT.

You can't be me.

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Kewtt:
"When I was in prison, Tinubu gave my wife a house in VGC and pay my children's school fees....."

Asari Dokubo

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The mind of a blackman.

Tinubu's kindness to his immediate family supercedes the future of millions of other Nigerians.

Selfishness!

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That's one of those kind of ladies that has a shop with goods worth N5m but drives a car worth N25m. The math doesn't add up but she has a side gig as a motivational speaker aka Miss Independent.

Too many "Boss chics" with no employees.

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I laugh sometimes.
Reno doesn't know Igbo people.
Either you rent them to fill a stadium or many people will not close their place of business to attend a rally considering that they know that it boils down to one man one vote.

Mammoth crowd didn't save APC from defeat in Osun and Edo States. People go to campaign rallies for the cash and giveaways.

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[quote author= post=119953101]See the scanty crowd he mobilised for Tinubu after collecting millions from Tinubu[/quote]/

There is a reason why they chose Okpara Square (where people go for weekend sports) instead of the stadium.

People attend rallies in search of money and giveaways.

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Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?

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The one that gives the most money gets the most attention but not necessarily the most sex.

A big spender may get it once in a month. But there
is someone getting it almost everyday with the only advantage of proximity.

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maureensylvia:
Take a look at this

Mr Joe has been running a successful business in millions of dollars for decades with hundreds of employees working for him.

Surprisingly at his death, the business ceased to continue.

Why do you think this happened?

Share your thoughts

A case study of MKO Abiola
(He set up Abiola Farms, Abiola Bookshops, Radio Communications Nigeria, Wonder Bakeries, Concord Press, Concord Airlines, Summit Oil International Ltd, Africa Ocean Lines, Habib Bank, Decca W.A. Ltd, and Abiola football club)

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Look at Femi Otedola and DJ Cuppy.
Can't you predict the future?
If you don't teach them how to fish, they will waste whatever legacy is bequeathed to them.

Adenuga and many others seem to be doing it right.

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Time for complaining is long gone.
Just position yourself to gain from the misery called Nigeria.
Before you blame Nigerians, remember that they are Blacks first before they became Nigerians.

I always ask people to show any Black nation that is doing well in the whole world. It is like that for a reason.
They love to self-sabotage. I have very low expectations of them and I have never been disappointed---very predictable outcomes.

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Trollronaldo:
I am voting for Sowore but I wonder why Nigerians are not looking at him with the same vein they look at Peter Obi.

Someone like Sowore is going to clean this country, why can't we give him a chance?

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Historically...activists make the worst leaders.

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Ebubu:
even in nigeria, men upgrade women and they use the new status to bargain for dating with richer men than you.

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Whether you upgrade her or not, if she is attractive, men will toast her. It is up to her to respect herself. We are talking about issues that are mutually exclusive.

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BMathew:
I saw this post on Facebook, guys what's your honest opinion?

One of my senior friend met his wife in the 1990s as a typist working in a business centre near a court. He was smitten by her and promised to upgrade her.

He is a lawyer, he married her and trained her in school to become a lawyer too. She was called to bar, he got her a job in the court and she became a Legal Assistant at Judiciary.

His aim was for her to become a judge or magistrate. Presently, she is a Chief Registrar, she would have been among the judges appointed by Governor Wike except that she was originally from Akwa Ibom.

My senior friend have on many occasions travelled to the UK, USA, Germany and Hong-Kong. He never thought of divorcing the wife or abandoning his family. They have 4 children together.

Few years back, he decided for the first time to travel with the wife. The wife's sister has been living in the USA. He trained the wife's sister too, she met her husband who took her to the USA while living in his house in Port Harcourt.

The USA Embassy usually give 2 years Tourist Visa to first timers. So his wife got 2 years. While they were in the USA it was decided that the wife stayed back and give birth to their last child whom she was pregnant with.

My senior friend came back to Nigeria, few months after she gave birth and was expected back. A lawyer from FIDA (Women's Lawyers Association in Nigeria) served my friend a Divorce Petition.

He was heartbroken. He still loved his wife, but she said she wanted to stay back and was no longer interested in the marriage.

At the end of the day my senior friend was able to use her family and some of their mutual friend to talk to her. He promised to have a joint bank account with her and do all other conditions she stated, including another marriage at the registry.

She came back. He stole her passport. He decided within himself never ever to let her travel again. They celebrated their 25th anniversary recently. They were so happy in church, she bought him an expensive wristwatch, while he bought her a car. They have not done the marriage at the registry.

During his birthday last year, she surprised him with a trip to Transcorp Hotel, Abuja. She loves the husband, but if he allowed her to travel to UK or Canada today, she will begin to see a world better than what she has and she will forget her love for him and wish to have something better than him.

My friend has decided that he will make sure she doesn't become a judge. He wants his daughter, who was recently called to the bar to go into the judiciary, and he will pursue for her to become a judge in place of her mother.

He has learned his lesson, but the wife doesn't know this. The wife is not a bad person. She was being a wvmån. It is a biological trait in them.

Don't wait till it happens to you before you learn.

Go to many families in Anambra and Abiriba whose children flooded overseas in the late 1990s to 2000s; I make bold to say that 70% the mothers who went for Omogwu never came back to their husband. They abandoned their younger children, the family, and their husband and stayed back.

If you genuinely love your wvmån, do not upgrade her to a better life that she has never been accustomed to, you will regret it bitterIy. Build your wvmån but keep her below you.

Seun, RoyalRoy

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It has nothing to do with the upgrade.

USA provides a certain level of comfort that women would be foolhardy to refuse especially if they have a relation over there doing well. You could have billions of naira in your account in Nigeria, maids, drivers, cars and mansions; but once you drive outside of your mansion, Nigeria stares you in the face. Women are built for comfort. But you could have something equivalent abroad and still live a decent private life. How many years do we have in this life? Beyond a certain age, people learn that there are things more important in life than account balance eg. not being diabetic or hypertensive.

Noise from generators alone is enough to make someone abandon ship.

NB: Upgrade your woman. If she wants to leave, she can. That should be the least of your worries if you are confident in your abilities. You will notice that men upgrade their women to make themselves look good.

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Moh247:
She actually spoke at Chattam house, answering questions on health policy of Tinubu/Shetima

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I didn't say she is deaf and dumb.
She spoke. Did you listen?

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