₦airaland Forum

Kamachicho:
We are all casualties.
War is bad.

...AT TIMES OF WAR, WE ARE ALL THE LOSERS , THERE'S NO VICTORY....

Goldbw122:
Yeah, being married create that opportunity of producing legitimate and not outcast offspring, while being single you are just alone, even when you go about enjoying and caughting all the fun you want.

Yep... No matter how people see it, a married couple have better chances(unless they throw it away) at raising emotionally balanced children than baby daddy/mama syndrome.
Imagine your child with his)her mom while another man is dating her...or you with your girlfriend and her child from another man. Compare that with when two of you are together with that child at every given chance.
Then imagine you have 3 or 4 kids from 3 or 4 ladies and how you're going spread your life like the sky just to "care" for the seed of your loins and their respective human incubators!

Sheddy5:
because i had a experience.

Same here... She actually said "God don butter my bread if I fit knack you because you look strong!

EmptyGarden:
In my days, that boy would not bother returning home.

Hiahiahiahiahiaaaa... Straight to self-imposed exile:

realstars:
Family buseness.
A mother supporting her son to do evil. Just imagine them haveing sex slave at home for three years and the mother keeping mute about it.

So many issues to contemplate ... A mother watching her son rape and violate another female, and is quiet (probably even peeping and listening to the groans of agony from the victim )... Pimps the same girl and spends the proceeds without remorse, a mother who has no thought that another mother is missing her daughter! She never would think that her son will have a daughter someday, and coincidentally experience the same harsh treatment or worse!
I always regard other children as I would love another human to regard mine!
What a really wicked mother!

ArchiLimited:
It's actually wrong to fart in front of another person, whether you've known them for 20 years. Even in front of a child. If you're alone let it flow but once there's someone else with you, excuse yourself to a private place and release it. That shows good training. People who just let it rip in front of other people then start laughing as if it's supposed to be funny, you're just showing how badly mannered you are

I've always maintained that too! It's rude, unpalatable and really shows what you think of the other person... When alone blow it louder than a trumpet...

Kelvin2022:
I would love the house to advice me on this one because my heart is bleeding �, this is my first time experiencing hrt break it's so painful.
We were so inlove at first and it was the happiest moments of my life because i finally got the woman of my dreams after 2years of chasing her, we dated for just 7 months and she just left without giving me reasons�, i noticed something fishy when she started giving me attitudes and ignoring my calls so when i finally got her on phone she boldly told me she's dating someone else, how do you just start dating someone else whilst still in a relationship with me that's what i asked her and she said i shouldn't ask her stupid questions that i can leave if i want to. I cried repeatedly, i begged her not to do this to me i couldn't take it she just told me she's dating the guy because she's benefiting more financially from her but to be sincere with you guys i had been doing my best to support her financially, i always attend to her financial needs except the ones bigger than my capability. few weeks ago she had an accident not so severe though so i seized that as an opportunity for us to make amends i told her i want to be a better person, i want us back together again and she accepted but before you ask about the other guy, she told me she's no longer dating the guy which i believed her because she showed me evidence.
I thought we were cool together and i was making sure she's getting all the care she needs whilst she on her sick bed i spent a lot of money i attended to all her financial demands but i noticed she was still giving me cold attitudes and i confronted her then she broke it to me that she was just trying to force herself to love me again but it's not working that it's best we move on, i cried uncontrollably i have been trying to move on but it's not working, I'm going crazy, i feel so depressed. Please for those that has experienced this before i would love you to advise me on how to handle this ��.
Before you think if I'm still a kid, i am 28 yrs old and she's 23.

Thank you ��

The signs were there yet you chose to ignore them.....poor boy!
Here's extract from the song "love the poor boy" by Andy Kim... maybe it will help help you understand better...

A misty morning Joanna left me,
It rained in my eyes I creid in my head,
She came like a dream and left like the wind would,
Leaving darkness instead.

When you think the scales would have fallen from their eyes by now, but you're wrong!!
There's time for everything...rock on now...at the 11th hour before final discharge, more than 90% will suddenly realize they hadn't really thought about their future! Allawee will soon stop....what next

OyiboUgbo04:
Unwana Beach Afikpo, Ebonyi State

wwoooowww Nostalgia hits me hard!! i was in this state for a long time during my stay in Nigeria and i visited this very beach!! Scenes of low lying land and high hung cliffs...i saw children dive into water from those sand cliffs as they went digging up sand for their mothers and families.
i really had a great time there, friends from that area still contact me and i truly appreciate their friendly disposition. say hello to them for me please

If you have a smart phone always leave your location on....that way all your movement will be online..,at least everyone will know....

Ogamysamo:
how wish dem put person this time around so that he'll come back and give us testimony

Looks like Dem for pick you for the assignment o!

Hahahaha! Reminds me of when I had a contract in eastern Nigeria long ago. A white garment church had their building adjacent to the site....boy! No invite needed! The drumming sent all my workers wild! Working and dancing! Each weekend they eagerly looked forward to the time when it starts and boy!! It was fun to watch!

Iamdbull:
I dunno if it's only me am really feeling this my new recording, I have a feeling it will be my breakthrough single. Here it is


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xxctgfo6FZc

Didn't hear a word of the lyrics brother! How do I assess this?

oke2018:
You're welcome good to see that we still have some responsible fathers in this present generation , God will strengthen you & give you the wisdom needed in grooming your daughter becoming the woman you want her to be.

A thunderous AMEN to your prayers! And wish for you even greater blessings!

oke2018:
I know why the mixed feelings but nothing to worry much , you can start lecturing her on sex education & personal hygiene .

Very much so! Thank you for the encouragement...
Already informed her on hygiene... gradually move on from there...

zikter:
The paper did a lot of justice to sports lovers before the abundance of internet. It was like gold in the hands of sport lovers then. Your legacy lives.

You have said it all!!

Wow!! Back in the days in Nigeria I had volumes of his soccer magazine Complete Football....in fact I still have the special edition of the 1990 world cup...I cherish it like gold!
RIP in peace sir...you were a mentor for so many young men and women!

frozen70:
You have a good relationship with your daughter and she got your back and confidence

Good job

Thank you sir.... it's an on the job experience

ahnie:
My dad bought me my first pad and gave me tutorials on what to expect and congratulated me.

May his humble soul continue to rest in peace

May his soul rest...Amen!

Mariangeles:
Girls that have fathers like you are usually very bold and confident.
They don’t relate with feeling inadequate and the need to please just any man, because they were loved and cared for by men whose love matter most - their fathers.

Thank you for your beautiful words... I'll do my best for her and even the boys!

Kobojunkie:
Mixed feelings? Is it about you?,

She is truly growing up because she now sees her period? For Pete's sake, she is still a child who you now need to be sure understands quite well what is going on with her body so she can be prepared for the reality before her.

Educate yourself please on what your daughter is likely experiencing, along with the possibility emotions that might overwhelm her if they haven't already started. Work with her loving through them if you csn so she is not terrified by the changes happening to her.

Be there for her as a father who understands,not just as a parent. Protect her by being open with her with facts and realities and don't feed her tales but truth..

Thank you for your kind words.
Will like you to know that I've had open discussions with my three children and of course always had their emotional and general interest at heart.
As per my mixed feelings yes, even though I should expect changes in their bodies one way or the other I still was mixed in happiness and uncertainty about how SHE will begin to carry on. She's a tough child...

I'd always loved her even before she was born. And when she came she was my third offspring.
Cute at birth and she grew up with great love and compassion at everything she did.
As a girl child I'd always expected her "firsts" especially growing to from child to preteen and adolescence...
About three weeks ago she came to me and told me she's having cramps at her lower abdomen...I was slightly dazed cos at 12 I least expected she'll begin to have these experiences. But I guess we don't know what to expect!
I was both excited and unsure...I prayed she was prepared for the new phase of life...
Today, just got back from work and I was informed she's menstruating!!
Again mixed feelings!
Well...I just said to her...now you're truly growing up!

I'll love to hear from everyone about how they felt when their daughter told them about the first menses! Please let's share!

Righteousness2:
I do not know the point Evang. Fummi is driving at, what I know is;
Speaking in tongues is not what you learn or imitate.
Speaking in tongues is not what u Carnally or Physically do.
Speaking in tongues is not rapping .

Speaking in tongues starts as a result of the HOLYGHOST Power and Unction descending on a human.

Speaking in tongues is Communicating with the throne of the ANCIENT of Days in a Higher level language.

You must understand that the HOLYGHOST does not Dwell were sin is . It is a Spiritual thing. The HOLYGHOST comes in a Saved, Sanctified Heart that is Dead to Sin and Hungry for Holiness.

Trying to just speak in tongues Carnally is a Fruitless exercise.

Sir, kindly review your Bible example of "speaking in tongues" again and see clearly that your definition is NOT CORRECT! Why not simply respect what the bible says only!

aaaahhhhh!!! that was back in time!!! she loved me sincerely though i had nothing. She taught me that dressing well always makes a good impression...we were very young but she was smart and kind. She knew we would never get married cos we were both 17 and estimates would be against her as a lady....Endy J, where ever you are now i still truly appreciate you....you were my first love....

Timibraun0010:
Hi guys, please I need an advice on what to do next. I know many people will say I bleeped up but the did is done. I just need the next line of approach.

There is this girl I met online sometimes in October but we started talking very well in Nov. At the point we met, I wasn't in a relationship neither was she. But at some given times why whining her she would always reference the fact that her bio reads no relationship.

All these while, I had no intention of going into a relationship with her but all that changed after we saw each other.

We talk everytime, everyday including video calls most of the time.

While on Christmas break and new year break in Lagos from her base in Kaduna , she came to see me in Osun and spent 4 days. Throughout her stay, I felt a kind of peace I never felt around any girl. I was my real self, we talk and act like we've known each other for eternity.

Though I made attempts for sex but it didn't happen cos she was always removing my hand.

There were smushes and kisses but I won't push further since she was resisting.

She was like she didn't want any kind of friend with benefits cos at the end, we knack and do same the following morning. I told her I'm not her friend and shouldn't categories me as such cos I won't end up in anyone's friendzone.

I'm the kind of person that won't bother once she display such.

Now she's back to her base in Kaduna and I'm beginning to develop feelings for her. I recently notice she wasn't as excited as we she used to be when we talk before.

Now that I have feelings for her, I don't want to appear weak nor be added to the retinue of guys running after her. I honestly don't know how to navigate it and make her think of me in a relationship manner.

Also, before she came to see me, we made the arrangement of her coming while I will go visit her during my leave break. Honestly ,with the way the recent communication is going, I doubt if we might survive and still be talking before march when I'm to visit .

Talking with her now is harder cos of the emotion of my side. More like there is an expectation on her side
One more thing, while I don't even do it at all, I guess I got too comfortable around her and check through her phone galleries. She was angry and everything was settled after my apologies.

I know some will call me a simp, while some will insult and those who will advise will do so. Your imputes please

absence is to love and feelings what wind is to flames....it estinquishes the small, but creates a conflagration to the large!!!! i have spoken in parables maybe....but think about it well

Kloppo:
I always found this creepy whether done to me by a guy or girl...

Have you experienced this before?

it's a handshake that means i want to have sex with you.
to me, it's done by men who are insecure, they want something but have no guts to speak.
they are the kind that if eventually a girl succunbs , they will surely maltreat her at some point.
their group include those who kiss and tell
they also will not mind sharing the girl with some of their friends
those relationships that start with this kind of handshake never last....it's filled with misery and woe

Righteousness2:
The things of GOD are not what you calculate , Describe or understand with a Carnal mind..

The Move of GOD is uncontainable, Uncontrollable and Undescribeable.

When the Orginal Power and Glory of GOD Decends, you won't even know nor understand yourself.

If you wanna see and receive Great Deliverance and Glory from GOD , then Prepare to attend From Sorrow to JOY this coming weekend , 12th &13th February 2022.
8am daily .
It is Happening live at the Lord's Chosen Charismatic revival Ministries Headquarters at Amuwo- odofin expressway, Ijesha, Lagos Nigeria

Sir, is this how it happened in the bible? Have you had a cursory look at bible anointing? People behaving so? Is this how the spirit of God moves? Please point to me in the bible. Thanks.

Ykc2:
By just looking at the suv he was over speeding

Nothing more! Speed!!!
I don't know if panelbeater can fix this one o! Na to sell as scrap

teeste:
Stupid boy...

In fact... astronomically very stupid boy!!

Congratulations �!
Question: will they get a big welcome when they get a rousing welcome from their parents
Will parents receive money from these ladies after seeing them like this?

My ex, your ex, her ex, his ex! Exes everywhere!!! The alphabet that follows X is ..Y! So why exes everywhere
A time shall come when the exes become squared x²!! Then coefficients begin to be added my 3x²!! Then we'll be left with quadratic and simultaneous equations....all because of relationship!! Hmmmm...God help us

Haakeem:
Ur topic they mislead people fah....una don kill the snake na.

Lala food is ready, should it be served, hot, cold or raw?

Funny I was rushing into the thread to congratulate him for showing us before and after pictures.... only to be disappointed!! And....misled!!