Southernigbo: Hello guys here. Just learnt of the situation of a man who is torn between proceeding with his marriage to a lady of 20 who has never menstruated or cancelling it. I must however admit that this is the first time I'm seeing a scenario like this. And I'm wondering, does this mean that such girl is technically still not matured and can't be married off? Secondly, if she eventually start to Menstruate, Will she continue beyond the normal menopausal years?
Some comes early while some comes late, it depends on her family gene
But getting to 20yrs at this present generation is what am still thinking, because some starts as early as 14 yrs
I think I left love for too late in life. Been chasing career all this time I've not grown close to any lady and my parents are pressuring to marry. Honestly right now I would prefer someone entirely new who is also career-minded. But in the absence of any, I have three choices
- Miss A is based in Nigeria. She is an accountant. We talk occasionally and it is clear she wants me to ask her out. Problem is that she likes money too much. This girl has never spent on me, but when it is her birthday I cannot rest, even though we are only friends.
- Miss B is homely. But she's desperate. I don't want someone who is desperate.
- Miss C is just finishing university. She's smart, but it's not yet clear if she can make a career for herself. Her course of study is also not STEM, so I don't know what future she may have. Plus she is like 5 years younger.
- Miss D is successful, but I have not reached out to her yet. I want to, but I have the feeling she forms too much. I don't know if I should just call her. She is based in the same country that I'm in. She posts a lot of instagram which is like a red flag.
I'm just confused. I need a wife. I'm based in the US and at the top of my career.
You can never get a perfect woman or get exactly the type of woman that you want
But just follow your heart and pick anyone that you feel can make you happy staying with
Moony45: I'm just gonna make this quick cos i'm angry right now.
I met this girl back in 2019 before the pandemic in what started as a beautiful relationship. I have always supported her financially with every penny i had (even when she gained admission into HND in 2020) while i managed with the little i had. She always complain of wanting to use money to settle school stuffs and blah blah which i reasoned and i always found a means to give her cos she claimed she was always broke and acted like she was. Sometimes i even screenshot my account balance to her to let her know i was broke sometimes. Even though i'm out of the country, i still manage to send money to her with all the struggles one faces abroad.
Fast forward to today, i was able to access her bank application only for me to find over 150,000naira there and i checked the account history up from 2020 and this girl have always had above that amount.
I'm so angry right cos i feel betrayed by the kind heard and true love i have shown to her cos she has consistently lied for more than 2 years and i'm contemplating on breaking up with her, doing worse or making her pay cos there were days i only manage to find 3000naira and i still sent everything to her.
What should i do?
Mature advice only pls
Mods, a little help for somebody's son here
She is nit sincere and open to you and have seen you as her cash cow
You don't need to make her pay for her selfish behavior
Just stylishly pull out of the relationship if you think it doesn't worth it
Don't even give her reasons, that alone will drive her crazy and it ends there
Having a stingy partner is as deadly as being extremely broke and no one to rescue you
She loves money, so let her date the ones she has saved
Gentino: Please hide my id, I am a very beautiful and good girl of 18 years. I have been dating one guy for a year he his my first and only boyfriend I had, now I am pregnant he has denied the pregnancy and ran away. I have tried abortion, it has refused to go many times now I have told my sisters I can't tell my people. I don't know if there is any man who is willing to father a child that isn't his and we will be together and I will also have his own kids please this my only option before I kill myself am very frustrated and ashamed please I am a seamstress please no insults please also notify me when posted
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You are looking for a man to accept your pregnancy from another man and you also hope to have children for him
That means you just want marriage, at this your teenage age
Do you even have any future plans for yourself at all
Child bearing is not part of future plans because you cannot birth a child that you don't have plan for
I think you should go to motherless or orphanage homes and register your self that you don't want to keep the child and wishes to give away the child after birth
But it's like you just want to marry and have a home probably to be cared for by another man
Dilijingsly: My girlfriend is now pregnant and I never planned for it I told her that i am not ready now but she told me knows what to be doing after sex and she won’t get pregnant, she just sent this to me now, what do I do . Abort. Or what I am not financially stable that’s my only problem. I want the baby but money no dey for hand
Congratulations, since you want the baby but no finance at the moment, find out if she too wants the baby
If both of you agrees to keep the pregnancy, the next thing is to involve your families about the pregnancy and how you intend to keep the child despite your low cash
Maybe it will motivate you to get something doing that will help generate money for you and her
Starberg: Hello Nairalanders in the house. I have something bothering me concerning the girl staying with me, I am like her godfather. She started staying with me this year because she had accommodation issue. I live in three bedroom flat apartment, so I let her stay in one of the rooms. My fiancee knows about it, although, she is saving to get an apartment around my axis, although I promised to help complete the rent money if she's able to get half of the money.
What's is bothering me now is that, two days ago I give her a list of items to get for me in the market and I gave her money. When she came back I checked everything she bought to my surprised she didn't get crayfish. Note: I love crayfish taste in all my meals. I asked why didn't she get it, her reply was that she doesn't eat crayfish that it's forbidden for her. I later teased her that if someone added it to her food and she eats it, what will she do? She responded saying that, the person will regret ever doing such and such person will be punished severe for it.
She went on saying whenever she wants to buy food she will jokingly ask the food vendor that she likes crayfish so as to know if crayfish is in the food.
I need explanation on this, because what I heard was that all those marmaid don't eat fish or there are type of fish they eat. But this girl eat all kind of fish but crayfish is A NO . Is there is any undertone to this?
For this, I am planning to complete her money asap, because I am scared living with her under the same roof. I don't want to inform my fiancee yet because she will ask to leave immediately.
Modified: Anyone with explanation to this please?
Cray fish or no cray fish, some people don't like some particular food, even onions some don't want to see it in their food
But why not just get a self contain apartment, pay for it and let her move in there
Let it be far from you neighbourhood
Am sure your woman is not just happy about her staying, you are even taking risk keeping someone without the knowledge of her parents on her whereabout
Viraltrends123: A lady is trending on Twitter after she shared a video of herself tattooing her boyfriend face on her buttock to express the love she have for him.
Cheasystickylov: Hello all, please all I need is your candid advice. I do not think this is the time to ask me rhetorical questions. I would have answered all those questions before the end of the epistle. I do not sincerely if to quit my marriage or jut keep hoping that things will change in the nearest future. I dated my wife for three years before got married in 2006. I can say without exaggeration that it has been war, except occasionally when peace will just reign for a short period of time. Sadly I got a job in a multinational and we moved to Germany in 2014 and that just worsened everything. This made her to acquired more powers to do what ever she likes. My wife is someone that literally fights with every single person. During our dating, she exhibited so many of these characters. Despite all these red signs, I somehow just continued rather foolishly in the relationship hoping things will get better. This was not also helped by the pastor of our church who ensured that the relationship continued, he gave very many biblical examples including forgiving someone 7 times 77 times. I must also state that her mother was an elder in the church. So the action of the pastor is understandable. We eventually got married, and it has been sorry tears and blood. We were able to have 3 children, and the eldest is 11 years, the youngest is 7 years. My wife disrespects every single living thing I say, every one of them, she can insult me in public without giving a damn. I can not list all the scenario. Just to emphasize this point, her eldest brother and sisters have cautioned her many times , in my house and even when we visit them. To further emphasize, her eldest sister’s husband stop us from coming to his house because he said he can does not just bear the insults and the manner she disrespects me. We can not have a heart to heart discussion, she is always not ready, or when we talk she just tell me to summarize, or she ignores me completely. I have suggested counselling, however, she simply refused. We can stay in the house for months without talking to each other, I have and still has always been the one that tries to initiate peace. Sadly most times she doesn’t even listen and walk away. She keep male friends that I do not even have any real relationship with them, even if I try to caution her, she screams back. I have actually stopped trying to caution her, I just leave her alone with them. The latest now is a pastor who prays for her for the past 5 years, sadly the pastor and I have never had any conversation for all these years. I demanded for his number 2 years ago, she refused as usual, so I just allow her be. Of course their has been one or two case of suspected infidelity, initially when I asked she just ignored me and was even screaming. I gave her deadline of 5 days and she later cam to me to explain. Although there were still many grey areas.
The sad part is that, there is no single family member to even look into the matter 1.Her step brothers and sisters- they are not in talking terms. 2.Her mum- her mum dare not ! 3.Her uncle- She is not in talking terms with any of them 4.Her Aunt-the same story, not in talking terms with them
She does not really have any close per say, and occasionally attend church online. I wish does attend a physical church, her pastor would have been the next person that might probably look into it.
Sadly she believes every one of these people including me have a problem. She feels she is right and we are all just evil people.
I am so confused and frustrated. I do not know exactly what to do.
It's just a pity
She is living in her own world and she us just high for nothing
Just ignore those areas you can't control and move on
If someone doesn't value you, you absence makes no sense to the person
OnGodnow: Hello Nairaland Family, Hope u all are doing great? This will be my first topic on this forum. I have been on Nairaland since 2009, but as a guest not a registered member. I just decided to register some weeks back. This is indeed a great forum, I have leanrt so much from this forum. The good, the bad and the ugly are all in this forum, but all are necessary that's the way life goes. My present job I got 2 years ago was a link I got from this forum, so I regard everyone here as family no matter the dispute.
To the main reason for posting, my daughter who just clocked two years old (My first child) is so addicted to me, at first it was fun to me but now it's beyond my control. I work off-shore, I am at work one month and home one month, one month in one month off. She was delivered the month I got my job two years ago.
The moment my daughter clocked one year; everything changes. When I return from work the moment she sees me she will never want to let go of me. At first I was so happy with the feelings, it makes me feel proud as a Dad and always will, but it's been two year now and it's getting serious, don't know if it's normal because it's my first experience.
She wouldn't let go of me not even for a minute, anywhere I go she will always follow me, she wouldn't even allow the Mom to touch her, so when am around I do everything for her, bathing her,dressing her, feeding her etc. And it's getting serious, I will have to pet her to sleep at night and she hardly sleeps on time, before I go to bed and have time with my wife.
I don't really know how to stop this, I asked my wife few nights ago why my daughter is so addicted to me when am around? she said she has no idea, she concluded that maybe she misses me a lot when am not around. It's all fun though, but it's affecting me a lot while am in town. She just won't allow me go anywhere without her going with me, and in most cases when I refused to take her along because of where am going to, she just won't stop crying, sometimes she cries till I returned it's that serious. Please Nairaland family what's the possible way to ease this?
Pls calm down as what you have observed is a normal thing between dad and daughter
The same thing is applicable to mum and son
Your daughter is doing what nature has designed and it's natural
She loves you and wants to be around you
I did same to my dad according to what my mum said
It will get to a stage, she will just not want mum around you or sleep in the same bed with you
She finds you so lovely to be with and as she grows, you will be her closest friend and confident
Enjoy the relationship. You son will definitely do same to your wife
If you look very well she is a replica of your mum
ceaser: That lady that murdered the TV CEO too later turned around to deny it in the courts.
I realize that in Nigerian justice system, full rejection of guilt by the accused in the face of overwhelming evidence does not attract further penalty at the courts, that is the reason these accused make mockery of the law courts.
In the US, admittance of guilt if you are truly guilty can give you some commutation of sentence because the judge will be glad that you did not waste his time trying to lie your way out. It is also seen as a way of the accused expressing some regrets over his actions, therefore it is only right for the judge to temper justice with mercy at that point.
But what makes them mad is if you plead not guilty when overwhelming evidence says otherwise. God help you that the prosecutor proves his case beyond reasonable doubt, then the sentencing judge will punish the accused mire for lying, for wasting the time of the courts, making mockery of the courts and still denying that you're guilty under oath.
SPAMBOX7: They are musical lyrics that motivates and inspires us to keep going in life no matter the condition we find ourselves in. Mine are "If them tell you say e easy na set up" by 2baba and "Overthinking no dey solve problem" by Zlatan
Drop yours let's harness from each other's motivation/inspirations
Mine is AMAZING GRACE by Solomon Gyang is a gospel song
fineboynl: I think I'm already tired. There is no mosquito spray I don't have at home.
Basically my house is a no flying zone for years. The problem is just a single mosquito bite is malaria straight.
Every week I always treat malaria. Either from bites outside or my home. I can't relax outside With short because of fear mosquitoes.
I'm AA and O+. I have seen a lot of AA with similar malaria problem but it seems my extra ordinary. There are people living in mosquito infested zone still they didn't caught malaria compared to me that hardly see mosquito.
The problem now I have begining to show resistance to anti malaria drugs. The once that treat malaria effectively after continue use no longer work again. I don't know the malaria medicine to pick from again. As most of them are of similar content and end up not working again.
I need to hear from fellow AA.
I am a victim of such and I ha e accepted it by staying away from mosquitoes
That's the only way out for people with such blood group
Lifeisokay: I started dating this guy about 2years ago, I gave it my all but it didn't work out. Around the time I started dating my ex I got a good job, it didn't pay much but was enough for me to be financially independent. I was being paid 20k a month, this guy didn't have anything but still I loved him, I begged him to get a job but he refused saying that the payment was too small, I buy him everything from food to clothes, if he's sick, I will buy him drugs, I was even saving up money to help him learn a trade, I never really complain because he doesn't have and I thought if I was broke and he had money he will give me. Besides all I needed was love Before we started dating I told him that I don't deal with Yahoo boys. I love living a simple life free of corruption and fraud, I'm comfortable with the little I have. He lied to be that he wasn't into fraud, well he lied, I begged him to stop but nope instead he broke up with me. Now I'm not without my faults I suffer from depression and anxiety. Because there are no mental health establishment which I know of, I have to deal with it. A lot of people have issues with my anxiety and mood swings, a pastor once called me a madwoman because my mom told him I love to be alone for days at a time. I tried to reason with him about my mental health but I guess he didn't understand.
Now last month my ex told me he loved me and wanted me back but only one condition that I don't call him because he wants his space,if he sees me on the road he simply looks at me and walk pass without saying a word, this has been going on for about 3weeks. I have tried to move on but it's been hard, I tried looking for a new relationship but I don't want to hurt anyone feeling. I can't bare causing pain to someone Please how do I get over my ex
You have to gather yourself and brace yourself up and decide if you want to suffer for a man that has no future
Or you want to struggle hard and establish yourself instead of wasting money for someone that only have you as an option
loosingfaith519: I recently discovered my husband has an addiction and I can't stay married to him. As soon as money enters his hand, he starts funding some online app and start gambling. We got married last year Nov. We have needs and plans we agreed to achieve before the end of March. Which a better accommodation is one of our first goal. Our present accommodation is not ok at all. On my own part, I'm saving to meet up with our Target, but I discovered, he has nothing. He collected contributions last month, over 200k. All that money wasted. He can't account for it. January salary has entered, he has started wasting it again.
I'm expecting him to provide 300k at the end of this month. So, that when I sum it with mine, we can have over 600k. Get a decent accommodation and invest the rest. We need to plan, save for our baby, but his attitude with money is not encouraging me. The truth is, my husband is stressing me for lack of accountability.
Pls, how do I go about a peaceful divorce? I'm confused, because I'm pregnant.
All the things I'm seeing him do, suffocate me. What do I do? Pls, advise me.
Pls I will suggest you be calm because you are pregnant
Have you tried reporting him to his family members and summon a meeting but before them, go to your family and report him, your family will follow you to his family to report and summon him
Secondly you can't just pack out without any members of the two families being aware of the situation on ground, they will say that you already have a man you were pregnant for and finally wishes to go and live with him
Thirdly, you can wait and put to bed then watch if the birth of his first child will change his life style
Immediately after birth, whatever the child needs start demanding, as a matter of fact, give him the antenatal list to go and shop alone unless he wishes you accompany him or he can go with his relatives if he thinks he is doing you a favour
By the time he buy pampers baby food, drugs and your provision his head will reset to nature mode
Some of them are like that but you have to involve them as soon as a child comes
When your child wakes up at midnight, wake him up to carry the child while you prepare food for the child, you have to involve him
At least you have to discuss with the doctor about him paying the delivery fees from there his brain will seat up
And if after all these he doesn't change then it doesn't worth it
Brighton1: My post might be lengthy, but Pls read because I need advice.
I've been living in Lagos for 5yrs now, even before the death of my father (R.I.P). I lost my dad 4yrs ago. I'm the eldest and I have two younger ones. I'm a contractor.
My mom and my siblings are based in ekpoma edo state. I call them regularly, I advice them, I send them money for up-keep, I visit home once in a while. I play both role of a father and elder bro to my siblings. I don't want them feel the absence of my father.
My construction team got a contract at Auchi, it was an opportunity for me to visit home often.
My younger sister is a 300L student in AAU. She is 22yrs old, she don't read, she's always on social media (tik tok & Co.) Nobody can touch her phone, if my lil bro wants to browse something important or play game with her phone, she will just be screaming at him as if Ogun is about to strike her... Don't touch my phone o, drop it down.
Even the phone (iPhone 7) I was the one who gave it to her when I bought my current phone (Samsung). I promised my lil bro he shouldn't worry, as soon as I get paid for the job I'm currently working on, I will get him a phone before I travel back to Lagos.
Okay, Yesterday I only said, now that ASUU is on strike, find something to do, get busy, learn a skill, even if it's fashion designing, make-up or catering.
She was just giving me flamzy excuses, and the annoying part is she will be raising her voice while talking to me. I almost used a belt to flog her if not for my mom that held me.
My father's house is a bungalow, and we have a tanent, Anytime I receive the house rent (200k yearly) I send everything to my mother. My mom would be like I should hold some for myself but I said NO, they need it more.
AAU school fees is now x4 compared to what I paid back then when I was there. Yet I'm the one providing 80% of her school fees while my mom 20%.
My Lil bro who's just 18 yrs old is more hardworking than her, he goes to my mom's shop to help her out, he's learning how to cut hair and he plays instruments very good (piano & bass guitar). He plays for a church that pays him 5k per week (he plays weds & sun for the church). I pray uniben grant him admission this year.
My father was a nice man, he disciplined us and his death won't change that. I want him to be proud of me wherever he is now.
Nairaland family, I need your advice. My sister depend so much on the money I give her. I don't want her to be a leech.
Seat her down and let her know much about life
After schooling she will be giving problems if she doesn't have access to money
Keep telling her to learn how to be independent now before it's too late
When next she raises her voice on you reset her brain that will remind her that you have started wearing your father's shoes
Pasima: I told my girlfriend to post my pics on her Whatsapp profile and she refuses to do so, but I was post hers telling the world how proud I am to have her. I was very angry I want to end the Relationship. You see all this Catholics girls na now I fear them wella. Full of games and cheating.
She has her reasons and it will be nice if you don't force her You posted her in your DP you have your reason's too
SugarPapi: So... I'm 39/m, married with 3 beautiful kids. Wife and kids are abroad, while I'm gainfully employed here in Nigeria. This is my story -
I've always been a chilled introverted guy with almost zero worries. I'm committed to my work and my work is also committed to me, at least, I'm able to send a healthy amount to my wife and kids in the Queen's country, every month. As a 'Manchelor', this is my daily schedule - wake up, go to work, close late, get home, play PS, skype the fam, sleep, rinse and repeat.
I seldom have time for social media, but once in a while, I log into Facebook and IG to catchup with friends. This was the beginning of my dilemma.
December of last year, I was scrolling on my timeline when I got a notif. Someone had liked my picture. I clicked through her profile and saw this young pretty girl. Honestly, I did not exactly fancy her at first, but I reciprocated the like on one of her pictures and logged of to bed.
When I woke the next morning, she had followed me. I followed back and thanked her for the follow in her dms.
This damsel was around 6ft, pretty, fair and easy on the eyes. She did not have any revealing or tight fitting clothes on her profile so at the beginning, I could not exactly place her physique.
We started chatting that day and as satan will have it, one day, I got leave from work. It was an unfateful Friday so I invited her to a day out at The Palms. We ate , watched a movie then when I wanted to book a ride for her back home, she said she'd like to know my house.
Tbh, I thought this was quite forward and voiced it. I love my Wife dearly. I love my children as well. I would never do anything to deliberately hurt them so I turned down her offer and booked the ride. She stays at Yaba, I at LP1.
She entered her ride and I did not contact her again.
Well, hello next morning!
Her WhatsApp call woke me up. It was a Saturday so I was at home. We spoke at length, she thanked me for the previous day and told me to at least allow her pay me back. "This girl sef!" I thought to myself.
We got to know each other better across the phone in that singular call and I felt it in my soul that she was a genuine one... not an 'InMessage' girl. She was a student at UNILAG in her 300l, studying Accounting. She was a really homely girl, light spoken and very respectful.
It was not yet mid-day when her cab to my house was 10 minutes away.
She came in, looking like a queen. Jeeez! Remembering that day sends shivers down my spine. Thankfully, I leave in a building all to myself so there no prying eyes to call Mama omo SugarPapi in faraway Ireland. My security guy opened for them, she alighted and paid the cab herself. WAWU!
She came and hugged me, we held hands as I pulled her in. She had not fully entered my house when I swept her off her feet, our lips crushed together in intense canoodle. Her tongue was probing inside my mouth as mine hers. Before I could process what was happening, she went on her knees and I felt my soul leave my body.
By this time, I had still not seen her body, so I led her to my guest room and my God!
Brief history... before this day, I had always considered myself an 'ass guy'. Actually, the few guys I consider friends know me as an ass guy. I loved huge melons but 'the behind' gets me most of the time.
Dear NLers, this girl's bossoms where neither ginormous nor small. They were just the perfect size and they stood! My God they stood! Firmly in my face, begging, begging to be...
I'm a 39yo guy and I confess that I have never experienced sex like that till that day! She was so sensual, so soft, no rush, no wrong. She mounted and rode me that day till I came. It has never ever happened before... not even with my partner and my she can f*ck!
It took every fiber of my being not to cry like a child as she rode me with ease and finesse. It was not that type of riding where the girl tries to burst your kidneys or emasculate you. It was focused on just my shaft and its cap. At some point, I was afraid I will pass out.
I had to quickly pull her off me before I pass out.
We ordered some take out, went at it three more times and around 8pm she was on a ride home. I told her to send me her account for me to send her something for the weekend. She out rightly refused and also refused me paying for her transport. WTH?! Abi na mami water tins?
Well it's been three months now and I can't seem to let her go. I have never experienced sex the way she does it. I confess that I may be catching actual feelings for her. I see myself jealous when she receives a call from her male counterparts, she once showed me a video she made with her ex. I was so angry. When she noticed my demeanour, she came, sat on my naked groin and whispered in my ears - "he is in the past, THE PAST".
I have to come voice out my predicament because she is now taking space in my heart. I can't do this to my family.
Guys, how do I 'divorce' this girl?
This river that you are swimming will soon turn to ocean
You have to restrict yourself from frequent visits but you can keep on the chats without romantic words and by the time she can't come around you for 6 months she will understand that you are withdrawing
wirinet: So because she took in carelessly you want to use a baby as punishment. Are you not tired of seeing abandoned suffering children's on the streets of Nigeria being portrayed on BBC everyday?
Have you asked her the above questions It's her pregnancy met her deal with it Any girl that can carry a man should be able to carry pregnancy and the baby
[quote author= post=110650734]Deputy principal of Siksik secondary school in Chesumei constituency, Nandi County, Kenya, has been stabbed to death by his wife over alleged infidelity.
The deceased, Gideon Kemboi, 34 and his wife, Sharon Kemboi, 27, had been having family issues for the last few years.
"Quarrel, fights, and screams have been the order of the day in the couple’s family for some time now. They have never had peace in their home,” an eyewitness, Tecla Jerotich said.
The wrangles within the family began after the wife suspected the teacher was having an extramarital affair.
Jerotich said that Sharon reportedly took a kitchen knife and stabbed her husband in the chest in the early hours of Sunday, February 27.
He died after losing a lot of blood while being rushed to the hospital.
The Suspect has since been arrested by the police and is currently being held at Kapsabet Police Station where she is awaiting to be arraigned in court.
"The police officers arrested the woman as well as took her husband’s body to Kapsaret county hospital mortuary,” Jerotich said.
The criminal investigation team have started investigations into the matter to establish what caused the incident.
Nandi Central OCPD, Doris Chemos, urged married couples not to take law into their hands and to resolve their issues amicably.
See Photos As Obtained By Below:[/quote]She will have rest now in prison
snillocer: The below list are the names of the people that I've scammed before, according to my accuser.
1. Maziztonene – Sent me 20k for Romoss Powerbank. (Via this handle) — Someone should kindly confirm from @just2endowed.
2. Sapiosexuality – Money for buying domain names. (Via this handle).
3. Frozen70 (f) – Money for confirmation of Jamb slip. (Via catastrophic handle).
4. Someone on this thread Vik something also sent me 4/5k for a name early this year. (Via this handle). – Pls if you're seeing this kindly indicate)
5. One Deji something something (The moniker has some numbers) bought a name for me last year.. fontanadentists//com should be the name, if am not mistaken.
6. HappyCanadian once sent me 5k last year.
7. Crazeworld sent me 5k last week. (Via the other handle).
8. Iykepromotions once sent me 4k or 5k last year. (Via the other handle).
So far, these are the handles that I can remember for now, I'll add more when I remember any.
Congratulations, you will get your reward from God