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Lostchild:
I have this mindset that male children takes care of parents than female childre, base on what I have seen. In 2016 I met one NEPA guy who told that female children's are more caring than male children. I was wondering and disagree with him that day.

Recently I went somewhere and met a man who came up with this topic me that female children are more caring to parents than male children. I only did agree with him that female children only takes care of their father while men takes care of their mother. I began to say that maybe it is the gender difference.

Please can anyone give me an honest opinion base on family experience just to highlight and structure my bias mind

I just want to know a little more on this

This shouldn't be a subject of debate

It's a known fact that girls takes care and remember their parents more than boys

The only way you will understand is when you have both genders as children

Experience remains the best teacher

roteblomen:
All around me, I see eligible decent folks that are single and ready to mingle, you'll find them going on dates, talking to someone, are on dating networks and more but somehow, they are single and have been so for a long time.

What is the cause? Are young people gradually loosing compatibility with each other? Opinions are highly welcome.

So many factors

Infact they are uncountable

But the truth remains that we all must manage the situation, no marriage is sweeter the all have bitter taste

A guy without an income may not be willing to humble himself to marry a woman with steady income

But the wide ones amongs them knows that they have to and those that are already in it have gone far

Favour2706:
Good morning fellow nairalanders.
My name is Favour.
My story is a sad one. I'm typing this with tears in my eyes. I can't even sleep.

I'm married for 13 years now. I have been the breadwinner of the family since 11 years ago.
My husband's business suffered a setback 2 years after marriage.

Since then, he has become so lazy.
I have been talking to him and reporting him to his siblings all to no avail.

For the past 11 years, I have been the one taking care of the family: paying rent, school fee, accommodation, feeding, clothing, paying medical bills amongst others.

I am a graduate of Mathematics(B.Edu) but I was employed with SSCE in a government parastatal which means meagre salary(28k)

I have three children(2 boys and a 3 year old girl)

I had to send my first son to the village so as to enable him school there.
This is because I can no longer pay his fees.

As it stands now, there is no money to even feed. Their father has ran away.

Pls help me with some money(no matter the amount) or foodstuff.
I reside in Abia state.

Am very happy to read that their father ran away, at least you have one less burden

Start now to save by getting an accommodation that you can conviniently pay for even if it's a room apartment

Face your children and manage yourself

Your husband that is else where, is sorting himself out, guys must do that

You too find a way to make yourself happy

Your children are your immediate priority now

efixxxy:
Hello, I need help on how to cope with my friends, I earn more than anyone in the circle, but my issue is about how my friends take advantage of me.
They usually come to my place almost daily basis, to watch TV cook whatever they want and go, I can't manage food stuffs, I need to be restocking things 4 to 5 times every month because I have to feed 4 to 6 grown up, they've turned my place to free food restaurants and they will never buy anything in the house, I will buy water and food and it will just be finishing quick. And also even when we go out they always expect me to pay for the bills and they will order what I ordered even more. They always complain that no money. I need help on how to take this issue because I am so tired of it, I can't save anymore.

If you are ready to get them of your neck, stop buying raw fois at home

Eat out or just buy what you can eat at that moment cook it and that's all

Get your girl friend to be around especially when they are around, her presence will scare them away by not entering your room or stay long

If you are the type that on Generator to please them, get a rechargeable lamp and use it instead of Generator

Stop flaunting or displaying what you have for them to see that's what is attracting them

Hence forth start singing It to their ears that you need loan to sort out things as it has not been easy for you

Whenever they come, stop pleasing them and when they make requests tell them point blank that you don't have

You have to take action else they will wreck you down

PuZZyNegro:
So, I created a topic the last time about my grand aunt's wife that died.

Her burial took place on 13th April, 2021. On 10th April, I sent 20k to the eldest grand son to support the burial.

I was surprised when he called me yesterday that he wants to start a new business, that I should send him 30k.

Like seriously, someone who isn't that closely related to you gave you 20k, and you're calling the person to request for 30k in such a short time frame?

I was angry yesterday that I don't know whether to shout at him and end the call but I kept my cool and told him next month. Definitely the "next month" will never end since he feels I now owe him because I gave him 20k.

My elder sister whose husband is even richer gave him 5k and I'm sure my other siblings didn't give him/them any money. Because I benevolently gave him big money, he now thinks I place too much value on him or something.

How much do I earn in a month that this guy expects 50k in such a short interval. My elder sister lost her father-in-law and the burial held on 9th May, I also gave her 20k, meaning I gave this guy the same amount that I gave my own blood sister and I know the last thing my sister will do now is to call me to request for money, how much more a 30k.

I wonder why people abuse kind gestures and privileges. What's your experience dealing with this type of entitled people without conscience?

Don't blame them, it's the hardship that caused it

If you can freely give 20k to a cousin who is nit that too close to you this hard time, he will assume you have more to give

Situations like this, your family should have agreed to give them a certain amount collectively by sharing it among yourselves, by so doing there won't be another request

TGM2015:
https://www.ncc.gov.ng/media-centre/news-headlines/1004-press-statement-subscribers-not-required-to-submit-international-mobile-equipment-identity-imei-number

I know that they will come out to deny this because people have been reacting, the power of social media

saphiere:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/05/insecurity-nscdc-commissions-female-squad-to-secure-schools/

They should do same for the men, train them and attach them to farmers to protect them while farming to feed the nation especially in the North

StrangeCase:
My bank OTP Still Sends to My old number Instead of the Updated new Number and I went to the bank (FIDELITY BANK ooooo) and complained that my Otp is still sending to my old number which is already blocked and definitely with a new user Instead of the new number I came here to update.

The fidelity bank staff collected every details and told me it is done and that I should try again in 48 hrs which I did but the problem continues. I went back again and they did another magic and said I should try but still the otp still goes to the old number,

I went back again and the staffs there said they have tried their best that they don't know what to do again, lol ( I was shocked- Imagine, are fidelity staffs this Incompetent?). This particular issue has been on for like a month but still fidelity bank staffs couldn't resolve an online banking issue. Quite suprising.

Please Good people of God how can I resolve this issue because it is totally frustrating?


Please help oooooooo

Ask for the branch manager and be serous about it

If those at the customer care doesn't know what to do, the branch manager should be able to help

binarymachine:
source:
https://flipmemes.com/2021/05/11/4-reasons-why-women-dont-kneel-to-take-the-ring/

You knailed it, kudos to you

Fantastic write up, as your explanation and defense was well and perfectly detailed

socialmediaman:
There’s something she’s not telling us. Maybe she was there for him at a very low moment of his life or maybe she did something that other women haven’t done to him. There’s something he appreciates her for. He wants her to be comfortable though he thinks both of them can’t work together.

Exactly

Kelvin581:
This is like a family


Is not like I don't like going what I love or what... I like going for what is needed than what I love doing...

Am done with my nysc Early this year with a hnd certificate.. so I went to my uncle and told him I will like to start a business and I need some capital so he said that he will like me to to go for my masters to PhD and he will sponsor me... And that I should go and think about it.. going back to school for master and PhD and starting a business... So which one do u think is the Best.. I need advice let me conclude..

If you are very sure that he is the one that trained you and he us willing to train you for your masters

Pls go for your masters but not PhD, if you really want to go into business

Toks2008:
There is this popular theory that a man must either be a smoker, a lover of liquor and if not these two, he must be a womaniser.

How true?

I think It’s up to a any guy to smoke if he chooses to ignore the health warnings and no biggie if any man drinks from time to time and of course, liking women and being a horrible flirt is up to any man. Anyone can pick their vices and live their lives in the way they please. No judgment.

But be that as it may, I think it is wrong to presume that every man would belong in either or more of these categories. There are men who don't do any and they are not less than a man.

So nairalanders what is your take, which one do you indulge in?

A man can indulge himself in all the things you mentioned, if he wishes, my concern is that he should be responsible, that's all

Kandeed:
we decided to split my salary into two every month while she get 40k each month. all of a sudden yesterday she said this month's salary I'll have to give her 70k out of the salary n after I refused bluntly she stopped replying my messages, she won't even pick my calls since morning. Nairalanders I really need ur advice cuz this is choking me already

You want us to advise you to keep in being someone else's meal ticket

Or you want to be advised that you should be grateful that God has removed you from the pit of hell

Anyway its her luck to have your mumu button

Joel3:
People ask me why I don't take girls serious and if I don't plan to marry. One question in my mind is how many women nowadays will submit their money at their man feet ?

My old man run the home even when no one works. And when my mom start working she submit the money at his feet. Girls nowadays are looking for man that will serve them. Count me out.

Only women who have no safety and security can submit her money to her husband

Why can't the man submit to her wife

After all, women manages money better than men in most cases

Odiriance4all:
In terms of security, is Bariga Lagos a good place to stay? I work in Victoria island. And I'm planning to relocate there soon. Please advise me

Do you already have an accommodation or you wish to share a flat with someone

Bariga is safe as other places are

But they have population exploration there

Then have electric and water from water cooperation

It depends on the area that will suit you

Though there is a flat if you will wish to share

DashDolls:
Hello everyone. I brought this question here to get your views on this.

So this morning, I went to give a Health Talk to a group of Club Women and during the question and answer session, a lady wrote in a paper that she would like to ask me a question in private after the program.

After the Health Talk, I was about leaving when a lady in her early thirties approached me and said she was the one who wrote in the paper that she would love to speak to me in private.

She then went straight to her question. She was like...

"Should a lady tell a Fiancee who is planning to wed her next week Saturday that she had series of Abortions while in the Univerisity in which the last one she had lead to the REMOVAL OF HER WOMB.
Should she tell the fiancee that she has NO WOMB?"

I replied "YES now"

She then went further to say " But Why
The lady is now changed and remember OLD THINGS ARE PAST AND ALL THINGS ARE NOW NEW meaning all should be forgotten"

At that moment I told her I will be back to her on that.

Now what would you do if you were the lady?

Should ugly pasts remain in the pasts.

Ladies, can you tell your Fiancee that is planning to marry you that you committed abortion in your past and your WOMB WAS REMOVED so now you don't have a womb?

Men, can you tell the lady you plan to marry details of your Ugly pasts that can come hunting your marriage in the future

I say this becos I know of a man who hide his sexcapades with a lady in his past which led to the lady having multiple abortions that destroyed her womb.
He hide this from his Fiancee only to find out days to the wedding that the lady he had those sexcapades with was his Fiancee blood sister.
It didn't end well for the man..believe me.

What are your thoughts on this

I will be in the comment session

*Admin please move to front page*

Whatever, whether she tells him or not, she will still be affected in which ever way

So If she decides not to tell him, she should be ready to accept a second wife when the time comes and also be willing to adopt a child fir her own sake

Every one has a secret

Elzazzi:
I will be very short and precise on this one and I really need help. I am in my late 20s and the current relationship I have with my fiance is hitting the rocks because I don't even last up to 10 seconds during sex(yes, it's that bad). We have been together for awhile now, but these days I can really see she is really frustrated at me. Anytime we make love, I end up being ashamed. Please I want someone to help me out a permanent solution. Thanks as I await response from meaningful NLers.

For how long have you been on this

Have you been having multiple sex partners, that's more than one partner

What about her, is she infected before now or she gave you the infection

I think both of you have to go for an infection test before it reduces your sperm count

Amuochicha:
I hate men

Why ⁉️

Fuckyoumod:
From when your chicks hatch until six weeks of age, feed your chicks a starter feed that has a protein level of 20-22 percent. Once the chicks hit six weeks of age, feed them pullet grower (14 to 16 percent protein) until age 20 weeks.

Thanks very much

kennethfranc:
Layer mash?
I have started giving them already

Ohhh that's good, so does it means layer is better than grower

Pls advice me, I bought noiler at four weeks with starter feeding, at what week of their age can I start giving them grower or what other feed do you think I can give them

kennethfranc:
I started giving mine grower mash@6weeks AMD changed to Pellet @12th week

OK thanks, what about layers, do you have any idea about their food called layer

Attit:
If you are strictly into eggs production, layers to me are better. But Noiler gives meat and eggs. The advantage of noiler again is that you do not have to buy chicks again as you can incubate your eggs yourself. Also, noilers consume lesser feed. You need to sit down and know which is good for you.

You may buy some layers too and compare. This is my best advice for you. Keep running this noiler, and keep updating this thread. Your answers will come gradually. If you are small scale and you have enough space at your backyard, and you have time, noiler can be rewarding. The thing about noiler is getting an incubator to really optimize the business.

Pls advice me, I bought noiler at four weeks with starter feeding, at what week of their age can I start giving them grower and at what stage of their age can I give them finisher

kennethfranc:
Hi guys...
It's been a while. The chicks are doing pretty well, weight gain is noticeable just that there is no scale to ascertain that but am planning to get one soon.
Currently they are officially 7 weeks of age and are on there CHIKUN Grower feed.

GOOD NEWS
Am adding 50 easter broilers to the farm

Pls advice me, I bought noiler at four weeks with starter feeding, at what week of their age can I start giving them grower

Fuckyoumod:
Noilers are wonderful birds, perfect for meat and eggs, I like them but they waste feed a lot oooh... I swear.
Mine are just about 4 weeks + 5days

Pls advice me, I bought noiler at four weeks with starter feeding, at what week of their age can I start giving them grower

gungab:
Noiler or Cockerel are stubborn breed.
They will consume your food without any result.

Best is Broiler if you are careful

Pls advice me, I bought noiler at four weeks with starter feeding, at what week of their age can I start giving them grower

BikoMERCYme:
Nothing painful bout the trash u typed........
Stop being a muttonheaded bimbo......

Served enugu........and witnessed how yo so called unimaginary perfect married igbo men wasted their time chasing after teenage girls.......

Stop being a dolt!!!

Why are you pained

tayolak:
Go into selling of animal feeds like fish nd chicken feeds

Do you sell this product or you know more about poultry

BikoMERCYme:
Thrash!!!
How did u know dis??
Or were u married to a reckless Yoruba man in yo previous life??.......probably picked up the shit talk from hearsay........

If it pain you, don't follow that foot path

seunsiju:
Now, my Three beloved girl friends gained admission to the same school (A federal polytechnic in South West), unfortunately they are to study the same course, Mass Comm... Pls I don't want to lose any of them Advise me pls

Get employed in the school so that you can be closer to then for you not to loose any of them

Of all problems in this life, keeping three women is your greatest concern

You never see anything

saphiere:
MY WIFE HAS TO PACK OUT IF SHE DOESN’T WANT MY MOM TO STAY WITH US

As seen on Twitter.

Guys what are your thoughts on this?



https://twitter.com/Waspapping_/status/1393822240865718274

How many wives will you chase away because of your mother

Love both of them and don't let them use your head

Go and learn how to handle the two women in your life