madridguy: FFK is a certified mad dog no be today.
A reasonable Nigerian will understand the fact that the more generator companies we have in Nigeria the more our power sector will remain jagajaga. Marapco, Jabaili brothers, Mikano to mention few were brought into the country by the cabal killing our power sector.
FYI, Once you dey area with steady power supply, immediately one filling station enter the area, forget the rest na suffer because they will bribe NEPA official to stop giving you steady light for dem to dey sell.
I stand with the senator.
Your statement about filling station and bribe to NEPA is false and its wrong to think so
Davash222: How about the pastor, her husband? Is he aware of all these?
Most times, men don't have idea of what is happening and when they know, they are always weak to act because they want to avoid the woman trouble at home
Besides, if the person in question is from the woman family, the men become observers and if the from the mans family, he advices the girl goes back to her family
MrBrownJay1: you can either go back home to your father and suffer there or be quiet and accept your evil aunt's treatment and suffer there... the choice is yours.
Is better to suffer in your father's house rather than suffering in a relation house
I live with my aunt who is a pastor's wife. I got there four months ago due to the fact that my dad had some problems then.
But the first day I got to my aunt's place, I got the shock of my life. The house was totally dirty, even the sink in kitchen was removing maggots. She told me to clean and wash everything but being my first time with her. I told her I can't do them. Then she said she would slap me if I don't do her wish. I ended up doing them and since then am being used like a slave.
When I told my dad about everything.. She told my dad I need home training that I can't do anything and my dad told me to stay since he doesn't want it to cause a rift between them.
My aunt am talking about is an elder sister to my late mom but the same father and different mothers. There was a day she told me my grandmother was a witch and she killed one of her children before she died and she uses my witch grandmom to describe me to people in the neighborhood. I always feel ashamed.
She has a daughter who doesn't cook and clean or do anything... I end up doing everything and still it isn't enough, at the end of the day she tells me am lazy... Am always afraid to look when I pass by a mirror because I always look so dirty and haggard. Just yesterday rain fell here and she left some things outside. I ran outside to take those things inside and the next thing she did was rain insults on me because of that..
She has never raised her hands on me but only maltreat me.. I cried myself to sleep..I was always a jovial person before but now am always crying and moody and am beginning to hate her.
I don't laugh at all anymore even at funny things.. I only have hatred for her and her family...I don't want to hate anyone and I want to go back home and be myself again....am planning to run away now but am really scared of the outcome... Worst is everyone thinks she is a good person because she is a pastor wife....
Am so fed up and always unhappy... Someone pls help me
You didn't mention the following
What took you to her house
Why did your father ask you to remain there
What is your present stand in life academic wise
Why not stay with your father
If you don't have any important reason to be in her house and you can still go to your father house, pls pack out before she pulls you out
Just politely tell her you want to go home to to your dad she has no right to tell you not to go
As you are telling her make sure your bag is hanging on your shoulder and make sure you don't ask her for transport fair
But if you don't have any money with you, you can solicit from your neighbours and beg them to keep it secret
lalasticlala: Popular Port Harcourt based Pastor and General Overseer of Salvation Ministries, David Ibiyeomie has advised ladies not to see their fiance’s manhood before marriage.
A member of his church asked him if it is okay for a lady to see the sex organ of her partner before marriage.
Pastor David Ibiyeomie said 'NO!'
“Marriage is honourable when the bed is undefiled, and you can’t see a man’s organ without you tasting it.”
“How can you see a man’s organ and your eyes will leave it?”
“Stop deceiving yourselves, marriage is honourable, you don’t see your man’s organ before marriage.”
Pastor Ibiyeomie however, advised partners to learn to open up to their intending partners in case of any medical issues.
Dynamic33: I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.
He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.
I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.
We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.
He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.
Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.
Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.
But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.
Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please?
You know what, you are very hard, what I mean is tgat you have a heart of destruction and you don't even care about it
Now lets take it from the point of your schooling, you were schooling abroad and for reasons best known to you, you dropped out if school, you kept it away from your parents and you were OK with that
Secondly, you met a family, who sweet mouth you and you fell for him, he wasn't dating you for any marriage, He was not having issues with his wife He is not planning to divorce his wife He chats with you till midnight and you feel he it s separated from his wife but you forgot that he may have his own bedroom
Thirdly, you hit him twice because you can't control your emotions, which man will keep you with your behaviour
Lastly you had your baby, that's good, you travelled without her and you never told your parents, OK now, you haven't even told them about you being a drop out
My advice, get to know your daughter's father family, so that you don't deprive her of knowing her father's family.
Tell your parents what happened and ask them to forgive and help you to build a better life
Your heart is too strong, start working with your conscience and be ready to start life afresh
You made a terrible mistake at this your tender age
You still have time to correct your mistakes
Learn to be focused, at 22yrs if you don't take time, you will be sad although
chatinent: The burial apart, I cherish strong policies from a country, and that's what US is, not like one poultry country somewhere where anyone enters and leaves anyhow.
supercase1: Let's get this debate done, once and for all we see guys kneeling down to propose to a lady is this really the right thing to do?
No one is forcing any man to kneel down to propose any woman
Even, no woman tells a man to kneel down and propose to her because she doesn't know when the man will pop the question
Men does that to show true love and spice it up
The choice remains with the man to kneel or not to kneel
Ariza: I think at this rate, it is advisable to stand on her head while proposing that's how to show who the boss is. Kings don't bow.
Boss or no boss, you and iknows that if you boss a lady, she makes you her toy. Who does that, those men you see that treats women with tenderness and care, do you think they are stupid, they are even happier in marriage than the so called boss
Jayslicky: Men should not be begging to bring expenses(women) into their life. I pay for bride price, in sex I do almost all the work, I sponsor wedding and you tell me to kneel down for a woman?
You got it all wrong
It's not as you are begging her for the things you mentioned, you are just going to be gentle and easy, if you go tough you get it tougher
All what you counted, other men are doing it with all pleasures
Ajsimon: Why not if that's what he wants and tbh I no go even use ring propose, I no go do am for public and I no fit kneel down
Just do it anyway that is decent the most important this is getting full field
supercase1: Let's get this debate done, once and for all we see guys kneeling down to propose to a lady is this really the right thing to do?
No one is forcing any man to kneel down to propose any woman
Even, no woman tells a man to kneel down and propose to her because she doesn't know when the man will pop the question
Men does that to show true love and spice it up
The choice remains with the man to kneel or not to kneel
Ariza: I think at this rate, it is advisable to stand on her head while proposing that's how to show who the boss is. Kings don't bow.
Boss or no boss, you and iknows that if you boss a lady, she makes you her toy. Who does that, those men you see that treats women with tenderness and care, do you think they are stupid, they are even happier in marriage than the so called boss
Jayslicky: Men should not be begging to bring expenses(women) into their life. I pay for bride price, in sex I do almost all the work, I sponsor wedding and you tell me to kneel down for a woman?
You got it all wrong
It's not as you are begging her for the things you mentioned, you are just going to be gentle and easy, if you go tough you get it tougher
All what you counted, other men are doing it with all pleasures
supercase1: Let's get this debate done, once and for all we see guys kneeling down to propose to a lady is this really the right thing to do?
No one is forcing any man to kneel down to propose any woman
Even, no woman tells a man to kneel down and propose to her because she doesn't know when the man will pop the question
Men does that to show true love and spice it up
The choice remains with the man to kneel or not to kneel
Ariza: I think at this rate, it is advisable to stand on her head while proposing that's how to show who the boss is. Kings don't bow.
Boss or no boss, you and iknows that if you boss a lady, she makes you her toy. Who does that, those men you see that treats women with tenderness and care, do you think they are stupid, they are even happier in marriage than the so called boss
The male gets all that treatment because he is an in law amd a visitor to them
He takes care of his wife and his in laws and he deserve such treatment as a family member by marriage and also a visitor
But the woman, her husband family is her own home, she is not a visitor and is expected to treat them well is she does treats her husband well
She will be expected to do what you mentioned because she is in her home and a woman for that matter, so it's away of showing love
But bear in mind that, not all women can be subjected to such
A carrier woman, who is well established and probably well placed than the husband per say, will not give you the room to expect her do the eye service
As a matter of fact, she will be served and cared for be they are sure of getting goodies from her as she leaves
But an artisan or a market woman, can't just visit and sit down watching them, if she does, she will remain in that chair until they are ready to go because those special treatments will not be given to her as she makes no contribution
I fact, it's her husband that will stand up to meet them in the kitchen and ask for food
Most times, her in laws don't really care about such peoples presence
All though every married woman is expected to show care when she visits her husband family especially those who doesn't come home often
Kelvin30286063: I just feel like I should drop a piece of my mind here and have people's opinions about how my family is. I don't dig into other people's family so I wonder if that's how it is in every family too.
I come from a family of proud people. Everyone just sees themselves as kings and Queens. Which is totally acceptable cuz our parents raised us to see ourselves as being above every other people. Don't know if that's the right way to raise a child but it sure isn't a bad way so I won't question it. But what I'll question is how much we mean to each other. What we all represent in each other's lives is just what we represent. My sister needs a phone, she calls me, once she gets her phone, she's gone. My purpose is served until next time. It's funny, I have a blood sister that hasn't called me in 3 months. Had to call her last month cuz I wasn't sure how she's doing. They don't support what I do nor do they even encourage me on anything. Yes my mom calls me all the time, we talk and she wants to know how myself and my wife are doing. She's my mom, she's the most caring woman in the world so I know her for that but apart from her, every other member of my family are nothing to write home about when it comes to care and support.
I'm doing well on my own, I have my own company and I don't need financial assistance from any of them but a little support will not be bad. Let me give an example... 2 years ago I started a social media platform called Zealnut. I started advertising the website and application everywhere. Facebook, Instagram, YouTube... I got a lot of members and the platform is going great. But I'm not happy cuz everyday I get a new notification that someone just registered on my app, I hoped its either one of my sisters or brother but no... Yet they all use big phones, Iphones, Samsung, my kid sister in the university just bought the latest infinix thanks to me. Yet they don't support anything I do. My company (An ICT company) has a lot of apps on Playstore and apple store and these apps are 100% to download and use, I have thousands of people using some of my apps but.l I'm pretty sure none of my siblings even use any of those apps. Yet they call me for money every other day.
My question is, are siblings like this in every family or just mine that is dysfunctional?
The upbringing you people had was what affected you guys
You were brought up to feel big and satisfied yet unappreciative of people's efforts
Look at a case where they will come to you for help after that, they go or zoom off
Until they need your help
Relationship is not connecting among yourselves, no synergy
No one is encouraging you or appreciating you yet they keep coming to harvest where they didn't sow
My advice is keep struggling and make a good achievement because if you drop or slide down, non of them will ever come to raise you up
made2fit: 3 years ago, my husband and I bought a landed property, built and moved into our our home. All through the 9 months it took for us to buy and build, we kept the information to ourselves. We didn't inform our family. When it was time for us to move into the house, which was 60% completed then, I told my siblings about it. Their response and reactions were shocking. Instead of congratulating me, they reprimanded me that I was keeping secrets from them. Their grouse was that I didn't tell them I bought a land, didn't take them through the process of building, didn't even drop a hint in our Whatsapp group. They were acidic and bitter.
True, I was expecting a mild reprimand concerning why they were kept in the dark; but I was really unprepared for the backlash that was unleashed. On my own money! I was deeply hurt and I cried. My husband had to comfort me. Mind you, my siblings are all doing well. If they really wanted they can as well sacrifice and build their own homes. Anyway, we moved in. No one talked about it again. Everyone ignored me and my new house. It took a whole year before one of them came to visit. Another sister of mine, didn't even bother for a longer time, even though she visits the area around every now and then to see her in-law.
All that is behind us as time as healed all their "hurts". Everyone visits and everything is fine . Now, I bought another property. Only this time it is close to around my mum's vicinity. This property was a very good deal, couldn't ignore, and I intend to use it for commercial purpose. I intend to be as discreet as possible. But my fear is that if my mum find out from outsiders, or artisans, , she'll be deeply hurt. If I tell her, she"ll want me/ pressurize me to tell my siblings, which I do not want. I don't want anyone to kill my joy, as I'm unsure of their reactions. How do I go about this?
NB; I'm second of six siblings. I have not always been rich. In fact, I was the poorest. God opened the way for us about 6years ago.
Well they are reacting because they expect you to tell them and also they weren't expecting it so quickly, not even from your anger
They are not your God, tell your mum that you are paying gradually because you don't have the bulk money to complete the payment
Let her be the one to tell others because the other time you told them, they had cold War with you
Theist Important thing is for you and hubby to be strong and united so that you don't fall
Dgoluw: I met this amazing lebanesse Doctor , he is 39 years old and we met when i was undergoing my masters programme in America University of Beruit , he is a Doctor and we were very fond of each other, but i noticed he does not like me touching him whenever we get into the mood , i was suprised because i excpeted him as a guy to do all sort with me but i ended up been the one pushing for sex after 6 month into the relationship.
He allwed us to have sex on one faithful day after i left his house angry. He then came over to my house the next day after his night shift and he gave in to my request.But i got the suprise of my life when he pulled down , he has a very small tiny Dick for his stature, i could sense he was uncomfortable but i played along like nothing was wrong.
He is such an amazing guy and a loving guy. But i am so confused because i dont know if i can put up with a 3 inch Di..k for the rest of my life. He actually pop the question and i accepted because i dont want him to feel bad because of this. What should i do
Put the following into consideration
Loving him, involves love making, can you manage it for the rest of your life or you will get the complete package outside while inside
Lebanon is nit a country to be proud of to compare with USA and UK
You are in the medical field, so you will always get another person in your field if that is the only place your search light is
If you really love sex and wants it anytime you want it, can you cope with it as small as it is
Love requires so much sacrifice not just verbal saying
bocajunior37: Please try and follow every detail of my story i need matured advice, please don't judge me. Am a private school teacher and I got married three years ago my wife took in on our honeymoon night which was against my wish because after marriage guy man need to pick himself up after spending. Nine months later she delivered through ceseran (c.s) operation i had to borrow money from my boss 100k to pay back why working though we lost the baby due to stress. Last year she took in again, i prayed and cried to God for her to born successfully lo and behold she had to deliver through c.s again i was devasted, i cried and beg the doctor because the money for the operation is much i had to deposit my savings of 150k to the doctor and go out to source for the balance of 100k. I had to make use of my boss 100k without informing him to God be the glory the operation was successful my baby came out december 25th last year. Now my boss want to arrest me because of his money i had to run away from my home please advice me..
Romance › Re: These 3 Things Kill Love Very Fast. by frozen70(f): 3:58pm On Mar 13, 2020
