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SamuelTurner:
A Nigerian man, Olayinka suspects that his newborn son is ”unhappy” to be a Nigerian as he looks grumpy.
Sharing photos welcoming the baby named Zaayan Obadimeji Ahmed to the world,
He said: “I m not sure my son is pleased to open eyes in Nigeria”

extremelygolden:
My sister, I can't even take such risk.

If someone fails to be wise with all the sad stories flying around, then that person has been cursed to remain dumb.

Thanks for your advise.

extremelygolden:
I know and I ain't feeling anything for him in the first place. Unfortunately for him, he met the wrong person. That's why I said that, to me, love is a scam.

FuckThaMod:
Na to cook am chop be the next thing... Nigerians wey dey chop everything

victorian:
This issue about women depending on men like their life's depend on men, all started from home , our traditions and society we live in.

There are independent women amongst us like myself. And we enjoy life with total freedom and peace of mind.

Out there in the real world, no man on earth dares walk all over me or batter me or take my friendship or love for granted. I've worked and earned myself some accolade and respect to be on a high pedestal outside nairaland and people know me in here and out there. I don't take rubbish from anyone even though i have a calm look. And i hate being at the mercy of anyone. God knows I hate it with my whole being.

When I see women helpless and placing themselves in torturous marriage or relationship, I simply say to myself, this woman is not normal.

Nope she's not.

Anyways na dem sabi jare. I have my own life to live. I've not finished sorting and understanding my life finish, I will now worry myself about women who wish to be emotionally caged , battered with constant abuse and all forms of gimmicks from men?

Na dem sabi.

All man for himself. With time the ones sleeping will wake up, when they can't take the abuse anymore.

I wish them well.

Ineedtoheal:
And some of you be acting so uncultured online hmm. Imagine this is offline and a lady tells her story and another lady who doesn't know her just walks in and start calling her names, what would you do. The problem is some of you act like your life is perfect online while offline you have issues making you gnash your teeth daily. What you type online is who you are in real life. And mind you, relationship issues doesn't make my life a mess. you are probably going through worse.

Ineedtoheal:
I wish he will let me be and not try sweet talking me into opening my heart to him again.

missimelda01:
What's the alternative?
Don't say paper bags cos we can't use that to wrap fufu and amala

Lamanii22:
What?

peacefulhome:
Do you have a child to give her? If no , no need asking if she is TTC or not.

Lamanii22:
Give birth to the baby please... Let me adopt it....

DIKEnaWAR:
Stupid culture! Why can't a woman say no to an apparent philandering goat with a super appetite for sex? Is that a culture?

We are quick to mention culture when it caters to our excesses, but denounce it when it tasks us to be better.

Mishael42019:
can u post this on Islamic session?

The owner of this forum directly giving you and your like, the enemies of Christianity in Nigeria the power on this forum to attack our thread but he censored Islamic thread all your plans is not hidden from our lord God Jesus Christ

He should go and ask for over 2000 years plus kings, emperors, political and religion leaders has tried to stop Christianity but they all failed

Soon nairaland Will pass away just like blackberry but Jesus and his church will still be marching on and the gate of hell can’t prevail

Girlwhocares:
I have opened up to two counsellors to seek for their professional therapy but they ended up been biased and sentimental,hence their involvement was fruitless.

However,there's no harm in trying another therapist who will more professional in his/her dealings.

Thank you so much for the suggestions and i will surely look into it.

Snipper007:
Learn to reason before giving out accolades cos that's what the brain is made for. No hrt feelings

chivera018:
Nobody is forcing the man to pay bride price, he can stay remain unmarried if he wants.

BTW, nothing is wrong with a man going to keep his plate in the kitchen after eating. Last time I visited my married elder brother, when he finished eating he took his plate to the kitchen and also washed it, he even helps clean the house sometimes, they are still living happily and heaven have not fall because he helped in doing housework.

Oluneutral:
The kind of questions asked on this forum are quite baffling!
So, it's now a crime or taboo for an abled man to carry his plate to the kitchen after finishing his meal. Na wa o! That one too is the wife duty abi? Infact, do some men even lived before getting married sha?

Very soon now, we'll be seeing the question.... Is it right for a man to clean up himself after defecating?

SMH....

mizluv4home:
I just created this account for this purpose

Afterr a serious break up some years back, I made a decision to be on my own, but lately I thought I should give it a try.
I met this guy not quite long, I was not really expecting anything serious, I just wanted to loosen up a little and feel human again just like everyone else, just one act without protection, i'm 3weeks pregnant.
How do I urgently remove this without involving anyone?
I'm not sure I like him that much to that extent and I don't want to have a baby all by myself, I don't have a job and my business is at it's baby stage and I don't want complications in my life right now.

Please give your suggestion. Home remedy to remove this or anything I should do.

No insult please.

Exciting:
I appreciate everyone's input. I've been dying to get comments from ladies and luckily, I got some....

I'll work on your comments. That I believe ll guide me further.

Arthur21:
cowardice from a mouthy lady. Online you run your mouth like one with balls then offline you go back to the low-life that you are,pretendce towards MIL.


internet is a place where people dejected in real life get the balls to sound intellectual (when you are deficient of intelligence). Offline they result to pretence to save their shameful a$$

Nnemuka:
He is a scriptwriter, he is gathering your opinions on a story he intends selling to Emem Isong.

OP, look into this question and add to what you already wrote.